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11-03-2003, 11:25 PM
Hi everyone,

I got an original FL, even though I liked it but still I am wondering how close does the FL simulate the true feeling of a real pussy. If anybody know, please help me out !!! Same feeling inside the FL as a real pussy? or different somehow...if not, then what product would you recommend.

Thank You

11-04-2003, 03:28 PM
Well, itÆ’s not exactly the same feeling, but itÆ’s pretty damn close. ThereÆ’s an element to the real pussy that I donÆ’t even think the fleshlight can imitate.

11-04-2003, 09:49 PM
supertight FL is very close, in my opinion. it simulates insertion 100% better than a hand. plus it gives intense orgasms when the end cap is tightened to increase suction.

11-04-2003, 10:59 PM
Actually, I think it depends on the "pussy" u compare it 2. They R different 2 & IÆ’ve had pussy worse than my FL. Me, IÆ’m looking 4 pleasure & I think I like STWW the best, so far.

Virgin Guy, itÆ’s very close, like Bob says. The "product" I would recommend to answer ur question though is a woman. It will cost u a LOT more, however. ;o)

And give u more!

11-05-2003, 12:29 PM
It depends!

ItÆ’s very like a real vagina physically in that itÆ’s warm, soft and slippy, plus the grip is tightest at the entrance.

But thereÆ’s no equivalent of being inside a vagina when sheÆ’s having an orgasm, for example. And emotionally, itÆ’s masturbation rather than the emotions of being inside someone, particularly someone you love.

I have tried AN Other insertive toy, which was physically like being inside someone while wearing a condom. This is as like being inside someone without a condom as youÆ’ll get with a toy.

11-05-2003, 12:57 PM

Thoughtful posting. Welcome to the forum. You are absolutely right!


11-05-2003, 01:04 PM

Have you shared your FL with your wife yet? I, and several others that I am aware of, have not; though I am predicting sharing within the next week or so. If your comfortable answering I/we would be curiose to know.

All the best


11-07-2003, 03:28 PM
I find it so close to being a pussy that I find myself noticing all the other things that are missing... like a warm body underneath you (I put mine on the bed between pillows and ride it). The fact that it gives you very little resistance, unlike a real body which ways some 100+ pounds, is a wierd too. ItÆ’s actually a little disturbing, I find... the feeling is there on your penis, but not the rest of you.

But the FL has one really good effect. If you havenÆ’t been having intercourse with a real woman, youÆ’ve probably been jerking off. The difference in feeling between JO and FL/real sex is that JO is much tighter on your dick, I find. So when you actually get into a real woman, it takes you longer to come. The FL helps train your dick back to being more sensative to that kind of feeling.

Trust me, as a longtime JOÆ’er, this is a big deal. ThereÆ’s nothing more frustrating than getting all hot and bothered about doing a girl, then finding out you canÆ’t come without her stroking you off (which I like very much, by the way).

11-08-2003, 01:11 AM
First of all, I would like to thank you everyone who helped me on this topic =) It surely is very helpful, and I am very grateful for that.

Btw, SuperFly, you are absolutely right, 100% agreed with you =P I was thinking the exact same thing that you did.

For this post, I also hoped it will be helpful to all of the virgins out there like me, hehehe =)

11-09-2003, 10:47 PM
I have seen many products such as CyberSkin, UR3 (Ultra Realistic Version 3) realistic vaginas and many other more claming to feel just like a real pussy. Any comments on that? FL vs. UR3, etc. vs Real Pussy !!!

11-10-2003, 07:10 AM
Check out these independent reviews -> http://www.fleshlight.com/main/Forum/messages.cfm?TID=51

Fleshlight is not a rubber dog shit toy and shouldnÆ’t really be used in the same sentence with knock off products.

11-11-2003, 03:28 PM
I love the FL, but...

Real pussy is much much softer than the standard vagina FL insert. The FL still feels a little bit rubbery to me. Real pussy doesnÆ’t have that elastic spring to it that the FL has. Also the walls of the FL are too smooth. Real pussy is not perfectly smooth like that. I havenÆ’t tried the ribbed or wonder wave, but those look like they have too much texture to simulate a real vagina. I hope that these guys continue to develop an even more realistic vagina. It needs to be way softer. There shouldnÆ’t be a hole in it when your dick is not inserted. Real pussy closes up when nothing is in it. It needs to have a lower force required for insertion, yet remain about the same tightness. Overall it just needs more work towards simulating a real vagina. One idea I had was to have a thin additional layer of material that lines the inside of the insert. This thin layer could be only partially attached to the insert in certain places so that it would bunch up a little bit as you moved in and out. The thickness of this layer as well as the attachment points would have to be carefully engineered.

I donÆ’t mean to complain too much about the FL because it really feels fantastic. It feels really good to hold it at an angle (like if you were trying to bend your dick forward towards you). Then fuck it in and all the way out so that your dick is on the verge of popping out. When you use it this way, it really simulates very well this type of fucking with a woman (which I also recommend - it works best when she is on top)

11-11-2003, 07:21 PM
I bet if most straight guys here had a FL like you described, they would NEVER leave the house! ;o)

Lips that are closed when youÆ’re not in it while having easier penetration. That sounds like real high tech to me! Dan, maybe you should put this guy in the research department. ;o)

Personally, IÆ’m not looking for an exact vagina, IÆ’m looking for the pleasureable feeling on my cock that I get with my FL. Feels like the real, damn thing to me. (I believe thatÆ’s what the topic author was asking about.) And itÆ’s much more controllable. And I can also choose what kinda stimulation I want at anytime, using my SR, my WW, etc.

If I had a choice between pussy or my FL, I would probably take pussy 8 times out of 10. There are just those times when you want it the way you want it, how you want it, etc. Not having to be concerned with anybody elseÆ’s pleasure, just being plain damn selfish. Give me my FL.


11-12-2003, 06:35 PM
I had another idea. I think the FL would feel better with better lubrication control. If the sleeve could be lined with a material that is porous - almost like a fabric or sponge of some sort that could trap some of the lubrication - or maybe even make the silicone itself porous (with very very small holes). Or maybe you could cultivate a mold or fungus that could grow and adhere to the walls of the sleeve. You know how rocks in rivers sometimes get coated with this green slime stuff that is very slippery? Something like that.

Ok one other idea - make the sleeve of the FL have a much thinner wall so that it is very flexible. Then make another sleeve out of a sponge or foam rubber material that fits around the silicone sleeve. To make the thin silicone sleeve more elastic, it could be molded with kind of a star shaped cross section with many points. Then there would be more material available for it to expand upon insertion - you wouldnÆ’t be relying solely on the flexibility of the material. I think a key point here is that I dont think you can make a truly realistic vagina out of a single molded piece of material (I dont care what material it is!). The other point is that you would be reducing the trapped volume of air in the sleeve. You have to reduce the air motion during fucking. This air motion is very unrealistic.

Has anyone seen that "memory foam" stuff that they make matresses out of? This might be really useful for the elastic part of an artifical pussy!

11-12-2003, 06:51 PM
Can I have some of whatever ur smokin? ;o)

11-12-2003, 08:14 PM
Pass me that pipe after your hit! :-)

11-12-2003, 09:32 PM
Hey guys,

I just got my FL today and I think it feels pretty close to the real thing for an inanimate object.

I was thinking a simple solution to add a little extra tightness is to stick a layer of 1/8-1/4" adhesive foam to the inside of the FL case. And do you guys remember those Reebok pump shoes back in the 80Æ’s? Why not build an air bladder/pump combo into the FL case? Then later on, you can develop a servo controlled pump that adjusts the amount of air pressure in the bladder electronically. Now hereÆ’s the kicker: make the air pressure controllable via a computer, then you can have a virtual reality sex session with a person online (or a pornstar), as she masturbates with a pressure sensitive dildo.

Damn, I gotta stop hittin the pipe myself.

I dunno about the mold idea. Something just tells me that might not be safe ;)

IÆ’m going to bring some foam home from work tomorrow to see if that works first . . .

11-12-2003, 10:47 PM
They had those, they were called interactive fleshlights. Only problem was that when you used them on the games online you ahd to pay a certain amount per game. I suggested that you can purchase games like for xbox or ps2 and just fleshlight those, but I guess the demands werenÆ’t high enough. I donÆ’t understand how the interactive fleshlight worked though, there was like a pump at the end where it caused the suction no? Anyways hoped this helped.

11-13-2003, 08:33 AM
The interactive adapter only sensed changes in air pressure. But there are rumors of a FleshPump...

11-13-2003, 04:50 PM
DonÆ’t pumps damage the passage inside the penis where semen comes out?

11-17-2003, 10:14 AM
the Penis pump enlargers are the ones that cause the damage...

but i sense the Fleshpump is somewhat different.