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12-01-2003, 04:44 PM
How long does it take you to... you know... CUM!!!!!

There! I said it! Im a naughty boy!

So, roughly, how long does it take you guys on average?

Im partly curious, partly just nosy, and partly im slightly worried that I might be too "fast"

Dont feel shy about quoting your real times, or I may be forced to come round your house and test you! (yeuch!) http://www.fleshlight.com/main/Forum/images/emoticons/icon8.gif

12-01-2003, 04:45 PM
Damn, the smilie didnÆ’t work. I was trying to do the puking one.

12-01-2003, 06:06 PM
Im sure it all depends on peoples moods. If somebody just wants to get off Im sure almost anybody can bust in less than a min with a fleshlight. I can last anywhere between 30 seconds and 10 min.

Jack Inoffalot
12-01-2003, 06:38 PM
It depends on my mood. Sometimes within a minute, sometimes 5-10 or longer if I try like hell to make the session last.

This is regular masturbation, I just ordered my first FL Sunday evening so maybe I wonÆ’t last long using that! IÆ’ll see hopefully by the end of the week!

IÆ’m new here today by the way.

12-01-2003, 06:41 PM
Usually around 5 mins. when I just want to cum. Up to 20 mins. when I hold back with all my might.

12-01-2003, 10:44 PM
For me, it depends on the situation. I always like to make it last as long as possible. Getting there is more fun than the explosion.
If I need to get off for the sake of relief, I usually last 20 minutes. When I have the time and privacy, I average about an hour. (IÆ’m used to JOÆ’s of 2-3 hours in the past; FL is too intense for such play...so far.)
Control over your muscles & knowing when to back off is key. If you can get past that initial urge to let it go, you might reach a plateau stage where u can keep going for quite awhile & enjoy the full experience.

Stroke long & prosper!


04-24-2004, 02:10 PM
IÆ’m 52. Like Copper i can go for around an hour but depends on a number of factors. Even though I canÆ’t see it IÆ’m sure IÆ’m leaking ejaculate too. Sometimes i think IÆ’ve probably had enough leaked to amount to a full orgasm.

Mark Zimmerman
04-24-2004, 02:17 PM
IÆ’m 43. My sessions have ranged from 60 seconds (first time with STSR) to well over an hour (Reg. Lady). It depends on a number of factors: the insert, excitement, the time since my last cum, whether or not porn is part of the equation, and how much time I have left on my lunch hour (kidding on the last one. Just seeing if youÆ’re still reading.).

Wayne Kerr
04-24-2004, 02:34 PM
Hey some of you guys should contact Guinness World Records - 2-3 hours! WOW IÆ’m amazed.
IÆ’m a 15 to 30 mins man AND thatÆ’s with the Regular Pink Lady ... so I guess with a Super Tight Super Ribbed Gold job IÆ’d perhaps manage 20 secs tops! IÆ’m actually thinking of getting this insert - do you think thatÆ’s wise with my lasting prowess?

04-24-2004, 02:38 PM
Wayne, IÆ’ll bet youÆ’re under 40, now tell us!

Wayne Kerr
04-24-2004, 02:45 PM
You lose your bet flamingo - IÆ’m 51 (honest)

04-24-2004, 04:02 PM
Cum on guys, if you had Nijia power you could blow a nut in 30 seconds or six hours. Its all in your mind. Take control. With the real girlfriend I wait till she has had her 5-10 and then when she is done its my turn. With the FL she never gets enough, so it depends on the mood. Before work, light speed. Engry to burn before I nod off, 30 mins to an hour. The FL is the slut you never had and if you have a slut that will do anything the FL will, hold on to her.

04-24-2004, 04:42 PM
IÆ’m twenty eight, and when I jack off I go about 30 min to 45, FL or the hand. The FL does add for a unique sensation though. Wonder Wave that is. I actually could go for ever with the super tight or Ultra Tight. CanÆ’t maintain an erection with those very well, so good luck on coming. ItÆ’s not a problem with any other situation.

On how long a person lastÆ’s, itÆ’s subjective though. I mean with a women, IÆ’ve gone a min on my worst day, and an hour plus where I was almost willing to fake an orgasm because it lost itÆ’s appeal. I think most guys are like that. I donÆ’t know if the FL is really a factor.

Plus it matters on how long a person wore tight underware, if they changed to boxers at some point. Me it was twenty four years when I finally switched to boxers. Wearing tighty whiteyÆ’s will make you less sensitive, hence last longer from all the rubbing all those years.

I for one am also cut. That means IÆ’ll last longer then someone who isnÆ’t in theroy because of the extra rubbing that occures normal in my boxers. The most sensiteve sensors on a mans penis is right below the head and an uncut man doesnÆ’t rub them raw all day. Or so this has been told to me a ton of times in mens magazines on the subject.

Not to mention when IÆ’m tired I go longer, or when IÆ’m not super horny, I last longer. ItÆ’s like when IÆ’m with a new chick who is super sexy, IÆ’m struggling to last. Jacking off with older porn, I can go quite a while if I want.

My point. I wanted to throw this all out because I think to much importence is placed on lasting time now a dayÆ’s. It can mess with a persons head. Especially when thatÆ’s a new thing anyway. Two decades old at best. In all my seventyÆ’s porn, rarely does a guy go over five to ten minutes. Personally that would in some ways be better for me.

IÆ’ve dated one girl who thought if a man didnÆ’t come fast, then it was an insult to her, and another who insisted that a man last at least twenty or thirty every time, or they guy was selfish. As if we can always control it, while still pounding nice and hard.

When ever I jack off, FL or not, I feel like I am partially trying to make it last so that it will translate over to when IÆ’m with a women. At the same time I dontÆ’ want to get to good, as they dontÆ’ like that either. Do a girl for an hour and see if she to is still having fun.

I donÆ’t know. Just my thoughts on a inocent, yet loaded question. God I wish I lived fourty years ago, but still had a FL. This question wouldntÆ’ matter a bit, becuase it just didntÆ’ matter. :)

04-24-2004, 07:02 PM
Much food for thought, DeepinTexas. Thanks for responding so thoroughly!

04-25-2004, 06:56 PM
I dont have the fleshlight yet, but my maximum speed is about one minute or less especially if I havent done my thing for a few days. Maximum duration for me is about an hour before I start getting a little fatigued, sort of like a long distance runner needing to finish or take a breather :)

04-25-2004, 07:00 PM
I think its funny, also, how we consider the topic of sex so taboo. I think of it as a normal biological behavior. Humans had the need a long, long time ago to engage in sex a lot with, dare I say it, multiple partners, for survival, and thats why we have these urges today. Since we no longer have this need due to higher quality of life and increased survival rate, but still have these urges, an outlet for these instincts is something that is essential, I think. Thats where violent media comes in to satisfy our cravings for violence; moderate exercise to keep our muscles in good condition even though technology makes them unneccessary; and of course, the fleshlight. I dont mean to be philosophical, IÆ’m just justifying this post and this whole idae of simulated intercourse.

04-26-2004, 03:11 PM
IÆ’ve ranged from under a minute to over an hour. The main drive for me seems to be how quick I want to get off. IÆ’m not saying IÆ’m a superman or anything, also I havenÆ’t tried the SR or SB. Just the standard lady.

Atleast for me...if I crank one out like an hour or so before FLing I pretty much could go forever I think...I actually have to work hard to come again. I donÆ’t think this is news to many dudes though.

04-26-2004, 05:00 PM
IÆ’m 20 and with normal masturbation, i can go anywhere from 5 minutes to 3-4 hours. That of course is not continuously stroking for the entire 3-4 hours, but doing it on and off. On the average, I spend an hour or so masturbating before I cum.

I just got my fleshlight a month ago or so, and IÆ’ve used it three times so far. boy, I literally canÆ’t last with that thing for more than 30 seconds. IÆ’m a virgin, for the record, and I have the super tight pussy, and it feels REALLY good. But IÆ’m working on perhaps being able to extend the time that I can last of course :)

04-26-2004, 05:51 PM
Well, as for myself : 5-20min going from ST lady to STSB....different type of pornography used or only "imagination"...

04-27-2004, 01:51 PM
This is a question about quantity vs. quality. If you go for 30 minutes and have an intense climax, then the end justify the means. On the other hand, two hours with stress and interruptions, is not worth it. You make the call. This has been a Budweiser moment.

04-27-2004, 06:58 PM
: )

How long does it take me? Now let me see... Would you like that number out to the hundreth place, or can I round off to tenths?

; )-

04-30-2004, 07:25 PM
3 fucking minutes using porn, about one sceneÆ’s worth... but man do i cum hard!

05-01-2004, 03:04 PM
45 minutes with the standard lady. I need to get a supertight.