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surplus
10-27-2005, 09:04 AM
I was super excited about getting my WW, and when I got it today I immediately ripped open the packaging and went to town. But it was kind of... meh. Honestly, it was enjoyable, but the first thought I had afterwards was "I wonder if I can return this."

But then I came here, and I see all the glowing reviews, and it makes me think I'm just doing something wrong. For instance, the small end cap. What is it for? I didn't even notice it until I saw people talking about it here.

So please, make me feel better about this purchase. Tell me what to do to get the best results out of this thing. I want to believe.

Edit: and I forgot the worst part. Whenever I pulled out accidentally, I ended up somehow landing between the insert and the case, and scraping along the edge. Not fun, not even a little bit.

FleshJoe
10-27-2005, 09:49 AM
Several things:

First of all it sounds like you tried to use the FleshLight without sufficient lubrication. To determine if you have enough lube, your pointing finger should go in easily and come out covered with lube. If not, then not enough.

Second, it sounds like you tried to use it with the end cap screwed on tight. That makes it even more difficult to get your dick in there! :) Unscrew it slightly until there's just enough room to let the air pass out the far end when you enter, and some air to come back in when you pull back. The end cap controls the tightness feeling of the insert. Screwed completely closed it means there's a vacuum when you pull out and there's nowhere for the air to go when you push in. Pretty hard to use :)

Hope this helps! Please write back with your impressions/thoughts when you've got some lube and have mastered the use of the end cap.

surplus
10-27-2005, 04:20 PM
I'm pretty sure I was using enough lube. I'll try that with the end cap, though. It was tightened all the way, which is how it shipped.

What else should I be doing? I was basically holding it in my hand and doing my normal thing with it... is there some other technique I should be using?

mooseman
10-27-2005, 04:32 PM
The thing you need to do to get the best results is to just play around with it for a while. Set aside some time to not just go to town , but to experiment while in the FL, and take the time to try the FL with the endcap in several different tightnesses, as it controls the all important suction. Keep at it and sooner or later you will find out exactly how to set it up and go to town! Good luck and remember, stick with it, you will be happy that you did in the end! ;)

FleshJoe
10-27-2005, 06:31 PM
The way I like to FLy most is lay on my back, have the FleshLight in my right hand and just move it up n down over my dick. Nothing compares to a tight ride like that, except of course a hot woman riding your dick :)

surplus
10-27-2005, 07:54 PM
Ok, one more question: what's the best way to use this while watching porn? Because I like to watch porn, but using the FL while leaning back in a chair seems like it would be really cumbersome.

Biggus Dickus
10-28-2005, 01:22 AM
I just got my STWW 2 days ago and I've only used it while watching porn. Position your screen toward you, then get two pillows. Place the fleshlight between the two pillows and use something behind those pillows (like another big pillow, a duffle bag, a suitcase, or the wall... for stability. Then, lube up and go to town, hands free while you watch your porn.

it's great, really great.

surplus
10-28-2005, 11:43 AM
Just took my second FLight, using Joe's method, and I was disappointed again at first... then I remembered the bit about the end cap. Wow! I never imagined that thing could make such a difference. I'm convinced that the suction is much, much more important than the texturing of the inside. Man, it was great! And changing the suction midstream can lead to some pretty wild feelings too. That's the key, I think.

I still haven't mastered it, though. For one thing, how do you keep it warm? Any special way? I may have soaked it in the water too long (10 min.) because the water was getting almost tepid by the time I took it out. What's the best way to keep it warm for a prolonged session? I have someplace to be right now, so I didn't draw out the session as long as I would have liked, and I think I'd enjoy it even more if I really took my time. So how can you keep it warm for, say, an hour, or close to it?

All in all, though, I'm so glad I came to this forum. I was frankly ready to give up on the Light, but with just a little training, my results have improved exponentially... and I'm still an amateur! Thanks for making me feel better about this investment.

Also: Biggus, I'm having a hard time visualizing your method. If it helps, I'm talking about watching porn on my computer monitor, at my desk, not on a TV. I was watching one of my few porn DVD's and laying on my bed during the above session, and it worked great; however, most of my porn is on my computer.

Scooter21
10-29-2005, 09:55 AM
Glad you're getting the hang of it. I made the same mistake when I first got mine by not unscrewing the end cap. Makes a world of difference. Here's to many more great FLights!

FleshJoe
10-29-2005, 01:38 PM
Just took my second FLight, using Joe's method, and I was disappointed again at first... then I remembered the bit about the end cap. Wow! I never imagined that thing could make such a difference. I'm convinced that the suction is much, much more important than the texturing of the inside. Man, it was great! And changing the suction midstream can lead to some pretty wild feelings too. That's the key, I think.

I still haven't mastered it, though. For one thing, how do you keep it warm? Any special way? I may have soaked it in the water too long (10 min.) because the water was getting almost tepid by the time I took it out. What's the best way to keep it warm for a prolonged session? I have someplace to be right now, so I didn't draw out the session as long as I would have liked, and I think I'd enjoy it even more if I really took my time. So how can you keep it warm for, say, an hour, or close to it?

All in all, though, I'm so glad I came to this forum. I was frankly ready to give up on the Light, but with just a little training, my results have improved exponentially... and I'm still an amateur! Thanks for making me feel better about this investment.

Also: Biggus, I'm having a hard time visualizing your method. If it helps, I'm talking about watching porn on my computer monitor, at my desk, not on a TV. I was watching one of my few porn DVD's and laying on my bed during the above session, and it worked great; however, most of my porn is on my computer.

Thanks Surplus

Posts like this make all the difference! And in fact you're inspiring me to write a page about how to use it, what to expect on your first FLight, etc.

Thanks!

wtfbbq
10-29-2005, 01:54 PM
If it helps, I'm talking about watching porn on my computer monitor, at my desk, not on a TV. I was watching one of my few porn DVD's and laying on my bed during the above session, and it worked great; however, most of my porn is on my computer.

http://www.myhometheater.homestead.com/vgacable.html

surplus
10-29-2005, 06:00 PM
http://www.myhometheater.homestead.com/vgacable.html

Man I don't know where my cable is, and it's also a pain.

Also guys, the big thing I wish now is that this thing was silent... I'd really like to not have to wait until I have the apartment to myself to use it.

Edit: Oh and tell me how to keep it warm!

Mark Zimmerman
11-10-2005, 04:47 PM
Surplus, you sound like you're on your way to having some exponentially better cums. If you loosen the cap a bit more, you may be able to quiet those sounds you mentioned in a previous posts. Unless, of course, those sounds are coming from you. LOL. Then it's up to you.

Andrew Carnival
11-12-2005, 08:01 AM
Not even a little bit.... LOL I can sympathize, I've had some close calls. "Not fun. Not even a little, tiny, small amount." lol
Sorry, it's wrong how much another's pain can tickle a person. ! omg still funny, sorry

Mark Zimmerman
11-12-2005, 01:54 PM
That accidental scraping is awful. It seems to come from missing your mark or a mishap during penetration. Ouch, ouch, ouch!

flipstyle82
12-03-2005, 02:43 AM
wow...i've had this thing for two days and wow! lol

anyways, my preferred method...is using the fleshlight and putting it between my mattress and my boxspring. Since I have a laptop... I just put it on the bed in front of me while i kneel on a pillow or two...and just pound away! lol! That way...you do the actual work...not just with your hand...but with actual muscles you use during sex! Also when you get close to climax...i'll lean on the bed with my hand on top of the other...while I push down on the fleshlight...it keeps it in place and gives you support!

anyways... god bless the internet and all that porn! and if i have to suggest a porn for my method...it would have to be Jenna Jameson's Virtual Sex! Or any number of the numerous girls they have!

DeerSlayer
12-03-2005, 01:23 PM
Sound's like fun... :( I have a little bit before getting mine.

tharsheblows
12-28-2005, 02:20 PM
most of my porn is on my computer

You need to buy an avi player my man!