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    The purpose of this thread is to get input from a few people on something that Ive been thinking about lately. Lately Ive been having a fantasy about getting a jerk off buddy, but with no toughing. I consider myself to be straight, and I do not find men attractive. Basically I want someone that can enjoy everything normal guy friends enjoy, with the addition of watching porn and masterbating together. The way I see it, friends should be able to do just about anything that they enjoy together. Guys watch football together, why cant they watch porn together? Most guys that watch porn also masterbate, so I do not see what the big deal is. I would also like to note that I would be getting off on the porn and masterbation, not the sight of another guy masterbating. Below Im going to list a few of the situations/fantasies that I think would be fun with a friend.

    1- Going to a strip club to enjoy some dances (female strippers) and drinks. Afterwards going home to watch some porn and masterbate or play with my fleshlights.

    2- Watch sunday night football, turning on some porn in between quarters and rubbing one out.

    3- Simply watching porn, discussing the scene (what we like and dont like) while jerking off.

    4- Going to sporting events, and again going home to watch porn and JO.

    5- Spontaneous jerk off / porn sessions. Sometimes in the car I get the urge to pull out my cock and rub one out.

    6- Etc....... Basically anything normal guys do with the addition of masterbation and porn/porn discussion.


    Finding a friend that would be in to this is something I am seriously thinking about doing, so I would like the input of others on this forum. What do you think about it? Do you have any experience with something like this?

    Again I would only consider to act on this fantasy with someone that is straight, in the 21-35 age range (im 25 so I would like to keep it somewhat close to my age), and someone that is not creepy or dirty lol.

    I realize that this would be hard to find, most guys that would consider this are either bi or gay. Again, does anyone have experience with this? how did you find someone that has this fantasy. Any advice? How would one go about finding a friend like this?

    Thanks for listening!

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    Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    You don't need to be gay to be interested in sex acts including other males.

    If I ever find someone physically attractive, it's a female, never a guy, but just the act of sex is the main turn on for me.

    I'd be willing to experiment with an open minded guy.

    My fantasy is actually being sucked off by a girl and her boyfriend at the same time. Imagine cumming on the face of a nice young couple?

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    • #3
      Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

      Originally posted by | Beast | View Post
      You don't need to be gay to be interested in sex acts including other males.

      If I ever find someone physically attractive, it's a female, never a guy, but just the act of sex is the main turn on for me.

      I'd be willing to experiment with an open minded guy.

      My fantasy is actually being sucked off by a girl and her boyfriend at the same time. Imagine cumming on the face of a nice young couple?
      I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?

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      • #4
        Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

        Originally posted by countryguymd View Post
        I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?
        Not in real life. On cam I jacked off with a shemale once though, if that counts..

        Talked dirty to him/her and we both came.

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        • #5
          Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

          I don't consider this to be gay at all. I've had a girlfriend for years now and I love her dearly and our sex life in porn star status, but I wouldn't mind having a jack off buddy either.

          There's nothing wrong with a little self love and sharing that with a friend seems awesome to me. I'd love to try it one day but I never really found the right friend to do it with. Honestly I only think you're gay if you can see yourself in a long term relationship with a man.

          I could never see myself making out with another guy or dating again or holding hands with a guy or having a family with another guy. But I could totally see myself jacking off with another guy and watching porn together for fun.

          I've used some online webcam sites to jack off with other guys and sometimes it's fun. I dont do it frequently because finding the right people is a difficult task. I've found a lot of like minded 20 somethings though.

          I'm 21 just so you know.

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          • #6
            Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

            Years ago a former friend and I swapped videos for a while. At one point we thought we'd get together to be jerk off buddies but...... Unfortunately on the day we chose to do this, time was short and it never happened, that day or any other following it.

            If you don't find anyone to join you in this you could change things up. Since you weren't looking for touching you could try doing it via Skype or similar online video program. While not in the same room videos and porn could still be discussed. Although your plan wasn't to watch your buddy this would allow for both (discuss porn / observe other persons technics) while not worrying about getting caught "peeking". Some programs might allow for group or conference calling thus allowing more buddies to join in.

            is it gay? While its not exactly like getting together with buddies to watch football or hockey its still two guys getting together to have a good time.
            Last edited by Flight420; 07-27-2013, 09:38 PM.

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            • #7
              Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

              Originally posted by countryguymd View Post
              I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?

              I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!! It was only my 4th time having sex so i was pretty nervous which made it kinda hard for me to get it up and have it stay up but we started out with my cousin fucking her first and she was blowing me with a condom on (which doesn't feel all that good cuz you cant feel the wetness of her mouth) and that went on for a little while until me and my cousin switched places and i started fucking her for a couple minutes. We were going at it doggy and it was really nice cuz she was fucking me back by pushing back on my dick but i was still pretty nervous so i started to lose my erection so i switched back with my cousin and she started blowing me again. He was fucking her like an animal lol and she was moaning pretty loud and we had a t-shirt under her ass because she squirts (not really projectile squirting but quite a bit does come out) and finally he came on her ass so he went in the other room and let us finish. I started fingering her with my thumb and i was swirling it around inside her which made her cum really hard and i could feel the fluid that squirts out start to build up because it pushed my finger out of her, needless to say this got me hard so i started fucking her doggy for a couple minutes again but i was beginning to lose my erection which made the condom slip off my dick while i was inside her. when i pulled out because i couldn't stay hard i noticed i didn't have the condom on anymore and we were freaking out to try to find it but it had gotten stuck inside her so i had to stick my finger in her really deep to get it out LOL. After i had retrieved the condom i just asked her if i could keep fucking her without one and I'll pull out before i cum and she said yes, to try to get myself hard again i started fingering her again. I was swirling my thumb around in her and i made her cum twice and she got pretty loud but i wanted to make her even more wet so i started playing with her clit and i gave her a really intense orgasm which made her clench her legs shut while i was still fingering her she got really loud lol. Bingo! I was hard again so i started fucking her doggy for a couple more minutes and she was pushing back on my dick while i was fucking her which allowed me to fuck her faster and it was amazing and i pulled out just before i busted, I shot the biggest load into my hand and it felt amazing! Afterwards my dick felt soo good which lasted for the whole day and by the end of the day my dick was still wet from her pussy lol. My sheets had stains everywhere from the puddles that she squirted out and it made my room smell like sex really bad so I immediately washed my sheets after she left, even after my sheets were off my bed my room still reeked of sex so I sprayed alot of air freshener because my mom was going to be home shortly and when she asked about why i sprayed so much air freshener i told her that my dog had made a really stinky fart and i had to spray alot because of how bad it was (my dog really does have stinky farts so it didn't raise any suspicion lol)

              Well there ya go, my first threesome and it was amazing even though my inexperience caused some minor hiccups. There is no one else I would have rather had a threesome with other than my cousin, we are really close and I'd do anything for him. Now all I need is to have a threesome with two chicks!!!!!

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              • #8
                Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                Originally posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
                I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!!....
                Congtatulations! Sounds pretty amazing. I think I would be nervous too. Glad you had a good time. Now get to work on the FFM project!

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                • #9
                  Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                  I've had a few friends over the years where we've both jerked off when porn was on. Nothing that was ever planned or anything. It's not a big deal unless someone thinks they need to make it into one; honestly all it takes is for one of the guys to just start touching himself and that's enough to let the other guy know that he does not care if he does too. If a friend had a problem with it, he'd probably just say something. Granted every guy I've jerked to porn with was a pretty close friend and we were both already laid back and comfortable with each other. None of these guys were gay and the focus was on the porn; only time much attention was paid to each other was maybe quick size comparison, and for some reason it seemed normal to look when he or I was shooting our load.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                    Originally posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
                    I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!! It was only my 4th time having sex so i was pretty nervous which made it kinda hard for me to get it up and have it stay up but we started out with my cousin fucking her first and she was blowing me with a condom on (which doesn't feel all that good cuz you cant feel the wetness of her mouth) and that went on for a little while until me and my cousin switched places and i started fucking her for a couple minutes. We were going at it doggy and it was really nice cuz she was fucking me back by pushing back on my dick but i was still pretty nervous so i started to lose my erection so i switched back with my cousin and she started blowing me again. He was fucking her like an animal lol and she was moaning pretty loud and we had a t-shirt under her ass because she squirts (not really projectile squirting but quite a bit does come out) and finally he came on her ass so he went in the other room and let us finish. I started fingering her with my thumb and i was swirling it around inside her which made her cum really hard and i could feel the fluid that squirts out start to build up because it pushed my finger out of her, needless to say this got me hard so i started fucking her doggy for a couple minutes again but i was beginning to lose my erection which made the condom slip off my dick while i was inside her. when i pulled out because i couldn't stay hard i noticed i didn't have the condom on anymore and we were freaking out to try to find it but it had gotten stuck inside her so i had to stick my finger in her really deep to get it out LOL. After i had retrieved the condom i just asked her if i could keep fucking her without one and I'll pull out before i cum and she said yes, to try to get myself hard again i started fingering her again. I was swirling my thumb around in her and i made her cum twice and she got pretty loud but i wanted to make her even more wet so i started playing with her clit and i gave her a really intense orgasm which made her clench her legs shut while i was still fingering her she got really loud lol. Bingo! I was hard again so i started fucking her doggy for a couple more minutes and she was pushing back on my dick while i was fucking her which allowed me to fuck her faster and it was amazing and i pulled out just before i busted, I shot the biggest load into my hand and it felt amazing! Afterwards my dick felt soo good which lasted for the whole day and by the end of the day my dick was still wet from her pussy lol. My sheets had stains everywhere from the puddles that she squirted out and it made my room smell like sex really bad so I immediately washed my sheets after she left, even after my sheets were off my bed my room still reeked of sex so I sprayed alot of air freshener because my mom was going to be home shortly and when she asked about why i sprayed so much air freshener i told her that my dog had made a really stinky fart and i had to spray alot because of how bad it was (my dog really does have stinky farts so it didn't raise any suspicion lol)

                    Well there ya go, my first threesome and it was amazing even though my inexperience caused some minor hiccups. There is no one else I would have rather had a threesome with other than my cousin, we are really close and I'd do anything for him. Now all I need is to have a threesome with two chicks!!!!!
                    That's fucking awesome man, congrats!

                    I've had a few tag teams (mostly in college), I've had buddy watch once while I got my dick sucked, and I had a friend fucked a chick he met at the bar in front of me.

                    The best thing about the MMF threeways were fucking 'til I'd get really close then switching and watching her get fucked until he's close and just repeating the whole thing until we are literally only able to go around 30's seconds before getting close then finally cumming like a motherfucker.

                    The blowjob in front of my friend was a pretty spontaneous thing that happened at a party.

                    And the time when my friend fucked the chick he met that night in front of me was a total mix or being an insane turn-on and total frustration and I swear I almost came in my pants. She had these fantastic tits that would bounce every time he thrust into her. It might of turned into a tag team, but he seriously shot his load within a minute once he was inside of her. Then she just got dressed and exchanged phone numbers.

                    Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.
                    Last edited by Oh Long Johnson; 07-28-2013, 08:26 AM.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                      Originally posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
                      Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.
                      Maybe it's a turn-on because it doesn't happen very often? If it happened all the time it might not seem so special.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                        Originally posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
                        That's fucking awesome man, congrats!

                        I've had a few tag teams (mostly in college), I've had buddy watch once while I got my dick sucked, and I had a friend fucked a chick he met at the bar in front of me.

                        The best thing about the MMF threeways were fucking 'til I'd get really close then switching and watching her get fucked until he's close and just repeating the whole thing until we are literally only able to go around 30's seconds before getting close then finally cumming like a motherfucker.

                        The blowjob in front of my friend was a pretty spontaneous thing that happened at a party.

                        And the time when my friend fucked the chick he met that night in front of me was a total mix or being an insane turn-on and total frustration and I swear I almost came in my pants. She had these fantastic tits that would bounce every time he thrust into her. It might of turned into a tag team, but he seriously shot his load within a minute once he was inside of her. Then she just got dressed and exchanged phone numbers.

                        Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.

                        Nice man, sounds like you've had your fair share of crazy sexperiences lol. I thought it was funny that your friend busted in like a minute lol, I might have done that too but i couldn't stay hard for more than a couple minutes cuz i was nervous lol. Between me and my cousin we were boning her for about an hour, and a little afterwards her and my cousin went for round 2 but I don't bounce back that quick so i just jammed out on my bass guitar while they were boning lol. It was the craziest thing I've ever done and it might be just a once in a lifetime thing but I'm trying to work on making it happen again by getting to know her better, believe it or not we basically just introduced ourselves to each other and then made some sorta awkward small talk then just started fucking from there lol.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                          Originally posted by mrbean View Post
                          Congtatulations! Sounds pretty amazing. I think I would be nervous too. Glad you had a good time. Now get to work on the FFM project!

                          I'll definitely get right on that lol I have a hard enough just finding one girl let alone 2 lol, but it's definitely a goal of mine. I need to find an open minded girl and marry her lol. (and hopefully she's a squirter)

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                          • #14
                            Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                            Originally posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
                            I'll definitely get right on that lol I have a hard enough just finding one girl let alone 2 lol, but it's definitely a goal of mine. I need to find an open minded girl and marry her lol. (and hopefully she's a squirter)
                            Well, sounds like you already found one!

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                            • #15
                              Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

                              Originally posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
                              I might have done that too but i couldn't stay hard for more than a couple minutes cuz i was nervous
                              If you just met her and it was your first time doing the 'ol tag team, it's understandable getting nervous. You need to have a few more rounds with just her and get comfortable, then the three of you could have some serious fun again.

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