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    Default Should you watch porn or not?

    Hi everybody!

    I was just curious as to whether you should be watching porn or not while "training" with the STU. The reason I ask is because when I use my STU without porn in the background, I can last pretty much as long as I want to and the overall feeling is average. However, when I turn on the porn, the sounds and visuals get me really excited and the feeling of the STU goes from average to phenomenal. I usually then blow my load pretty fast with no control whatsoever.

    So my question is, is it good practice to train with porn on or not? Does watching porn have any benefits? If I train without the porn and then have sex, will the sounds and visuals cause me to blow my load prematurely because i'm not prepared for it?

    Thanks for the help!

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    Quote Originally Posted by wienchee
    Hi everybody!

    I was just curious as to whether you should be watching porn or not while "training" with the STU. The reason I ask is because when I use my STU without porn in the background, I can last pretty much as long as I want to and the overall feeling is average. However, when I turn on the porn, the sounds and visuals get me really excited and the feeling of the STU goes from average to phenomenal. I usually then blow my load pretty fast with no control whatsoever.

    So my question is, is it good practice to train with porn on or not? Does watching porn have any benefits? If I train without the porn and then have sex, will the sounds and visuals cause me to blow my load prematurely because i'm not prepared for it?

    Thanks for the help!
    It's better to train with porn because it gives you the same kind of visual stimulation you'd probably be getting during sex. You want to be in the same mood as you would with a partner, otherwise there's not much use in training unless you keep your eyes closed the whole time, is there?

    Granted, it won't be exactly the same, but it'll be better the closer to the real experience you can get.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueStreaker
    It's better to train with porn because it gives you the same kind of visual stimulation you'd probably be getting during sex. You want to be in the same mood as you would with a partner, otherwise there's not much use in training unless you keep your eyes closed the whole time, is there?

    Granted, it won't be exactly the same, but it'll be better the closer to the real experience you can get.
    While this is true in some regards, I have to say my experiences are the contrary.
    In fact I think porn is the bane of my sex life with a woman.
    With porn, I can watch whatever I want when I want and have it on repeat, etc...
    with a woman it's a bit limited (she's not as easy to control on a whim as videos on a computer)....

    I'm pretty much saying once you're used to porn, you get desensitized to the ideas of eroticism...you get with a woman and it's just not quite as mind-blowing as you thought it would be, you feel just like you're going through the motions and you get pissed off afterwards because you felt it should've been how you've always dreamed it should be (when it actually can be, you've just been dreaming it in an artificial realm for too long)

    That's just how I have become. My problem with a woman is that I tend to LOSE my hardon and/or have a hard time cumming...I just feel numb (also due to using the hand 'death grip' instead of a looser and lubricated object like the fleshlight, which the fleshlight has helped in that regard). So I guess I got the opposite problem from what you have. I'm basically just saying don't get too involved in the porn or you'll find the opposite end of the spectrum having the same frustration.

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    Interesting perspective... I dont compare porn mind pictures to the woman I'm with, but everyone is different.

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    I train both ways, and for me a woman in front of me will stimulate me way more than any porn.

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    When I finally get mine I'm going to use porn. For the reason listed above: It's more realistic. When I watch porn I'm always looking for realistic angles. That's why I enjoy the "virtual" series so much. Also fellas, is there any sweeter sound than that of a girl getting off?

    But, everyone is different, if you feel it takes away from the realism you shouldn't watch it. Maybe you should just pick a video of a chick getting off so you can at least have the audio experience, but just don't watch the video.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cushion4thepushin
    While this is true in some regards, I have to say my experiences are the contrary.
    In fact I think porn is the bane of my sex life with a woman.
    With porn, I can watch whatever I want when I want and have it on repeat, etc...
    with a woman it's a bit limited (she's not as easy to control on a whim as videos on a computer)....

    I'm pretty much saying once you're used to porn, you get desensitized to the ideas of eroticism...you get with a woman and it's just not quite as mind-blowing as you thought it would be, you feel just like you're going through the motions and you get pissed off afterwards because you felt it should've been how you've always dreamed it should be (when it actually can be, you've just been dreaming it in an artificial realm for too long)

    That's just how I have become. My problem with a woman is that I tend to LOSE my hardon and/or have a hard time cumming...I just feel numb (also due to using the hand 'death grip' instead of a looser and lubricated object like the fleshlight, which the fleshlight has helped in that regard). So I guess I got the opposite problem from what you have. I'm basically just saying don't get too involved in the porn or you'll find the opposite end of the spectrum having the same frustration.
    SAY THAT AGAIN FROM THE ROOFTOPS> I cant tell you how right he is.
    Porn will desensites YOU MORE THAN anything. Its such a artificial overlystimulated senario, most dont know porn is just as fake as hollywood. So yeah limit porn. Watch it once in a while, its better that way anyhow.

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    I don't think porn really desensitizes you, watching it is so different from actual sex I just don't see it being an issue. Death grip (at least for me) is a much greater problem, and hopefully the FL will help with that.

    But I agree about it being artificial, unfortunately almost all porn has that ridiculous overacting, I never understood why there isn't more realistic porn. Still, it's not like I'm going to be disappointed if a chick doesn't pretend to have an orgasm when I touch her nipple.

 

 

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