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    Anyone tried this? Rather than tantric sex, tried tantric self-sex? Simply masturbating closer and closer to the point of cumming over and over again for say an hour or more until you finally succumb?

    I've managed to do this twice (sans FL) but not for a while, and weirdly though the orgasm at the end isn't all that intense, you cum a LOT.

    Anyone try it or even last with a fleshlight doing this?

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    Absolutely. Do it all the time. My favorite is STU, though WW and Vortex do beautifully too. I just keep on cumming, over and over, for an hour or more. I love it. You say masturbating to the point of cumming, but with Tantra you can have real, full body orgasms, on and on without ejaculating. If and when you do ejaculate, it's enough to blow your mind. The trick, though, is to learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation. It can be done, believe me. Check out The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia for instructions. That's how I learned it.

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    Secrets of Divine Lovemaking

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    I've read The Multi Orgasmic Man. It's like an amazing edging session. I've used my FL to edge and have spent a long time just riding the wave.

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    Is there any real point to doing that? I just want to get in, out, and done. I don't want to waste an hour jerking my stuff around. My time is better spent on other stuff, not just doing that all day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ILJ View Post
    Is there any real point to doing that? I just want to get in, out, and done. I don't want to waste an hour jerking my stuff around. My time is better spent on other stuff, not just doing that all day.

    OK, wham bam thank you FL. Whatever floats your boat. Some of us think there's more to it than just getting rid of a load. Once you get the hang of edging you'd be amazed how little it feels like a waste of time. Incidentally, it works just as well if not better with a real woman.

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    When I have time to waste...I can't think of anything more fun than edging and using my FL. I feel like those are well spent hours

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    Quote Originally Posted by 40plusnhappy View Post
    When I have time to waste...I can't think of anything more fun than edging and using my FL. I feel like those are well spent hours
    My sentiments exactly.

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    So True... So True...

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    I used to have the time/ability to do that. Today, I attempted it again, only to fail after a pathetic 3 minutes with a SMOOTH insert. Granted, I hadn't cum for days. Perhaps I'll try again later today. Ugh - sooo out of practice...

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    Its all about self control regardless if its hard to hold. It definitely allows you to go longer with out ejaculating for sure. I'm at the point where I could physically stop myself for under 10 seconds then re-continue and go on and on for as long as 30 minutes to an hour until I just get too tired. The times I usually stop the flow is:

    1) The point at which its very close to ejaculate but I know where only a small drip to nothing will escape.

    2) The point at which the orgasm is intense but I hold it in anyway knowing something will release.

    I think if I keep practicing 1 then my ejact control will be a lot more superb.
    What I noticed about practicing 2 is I can perform my physical break off (which is two fingers firmly down on the pc muscle while I contract my pc muscle and hold it) release a load and I'm still hard and not sensitive enough that I can go and do it again without waiting for over a minute.

    The thing with this is the first orgasm you release well in my case will be the most intesnse and the 2nd + will be a little bit weaker but feels really really good non the less.

    The goal really is to be able to stop ejaculate with a strong pc muscle by contraction rather than relying on the help of your fingers pushing on it.
    Stamina plays a big role because in order to continue you have to have the energy to keep going.

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    I've been doing this since I first started masturbating so I was pretty surprised to learn about edging. I figured everyone did it automatically to make the session last longer, but it seems a lot of people just ejaculate as soon as they get that feeling. Whenever I feel like I'm going to empty my load I purposely slow down or stop. After about a minute I can go at it again for another 15-20 minutes. A few days ago I was going at my fleshlight hands-free for over two hours whilst watching porn. The only reason it ended was because I finally decided I should do something else so I just stopped holding back on the point of ejaculation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wowitfeelsreal View Post
    I've been doing this since I first started masturbating so I was pretty surprised to learn about edging. I figured everyone did it automatically to make the session last longer, but it seems a lot of people just ejaculate as soon as they get that feeling. Whenever I feel like I'm going to empty my load I purposely slow down or stop. After about a minute I can go at it again for another 15-20 minutes. A few days ago I was going at my fleshlight hands-free for over two hours whilst watching porn. The only reason it ended was because I finally decided I should do something else so I just stopped holding back on the point of ejaculation.
    thats awesome, thanks for the laugh!

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    Guys, I'm a little confused on this one. I don't understand what edging is or what you're doing to get close to an orgasm and let yourself feel like you're having one but stop from having a major blowout and being spent. Sometimes when I'm close I stop and wait but that's because I want to keep going. I usually find myself softening up because I have to think about something like baseball then start again. The problem I have imagining how to do this is that I don't feel orgasm- eyes closed complete pleasure- unless I'm unloading. As far as getting close to cumming, like really close, then holding it back with my fingers seems like something that could rupture me inside or just that my cum would be moved from outside it's "holding area" and just waiting for me to release it by letting off pressure. Are some of you talking about a muscular way to feel like you're cumming but holding it back somehow... that it's not necessarily the release of the cum that is triggering the orgasmic feeling? I honestly just don't understand how to keep fucking and feel the orgasm but not unload. Any more specific instruction would be appreciated because it does sound good.

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    Yup, do it all the time. In fact, I always edge for a while unless I've got limited time. Once you experience it, it's hard to go back to just whacking one off. I started out edging through a single session followed by a slow long cum but eventually moved to extended edging over days or even weeks. Some of the things that can result is, of course, multiple orgasm but I've also experienced flowing (or even shooting) precum while holding off an impending orgasm. That's quite something.. Just the thought of what was happening was amazing and added to the experience.

    Edging is about control but it's also about understanding your body. I find it more important to knoq how close I am down to thinking, "one more stroke and I'll cum" or "shit! I could cum right now without touching my cock if I just thought about xyz". The control part is mechanical. FL_virgin, stopping is the first form of control. Once you've learned to recognize the exact moment you are about to cum, then you're on your way. Next time you try it and have some extra time, get yourself to the point you have to stop or feel like you'll cum. Go ahead and stop but try to keep thinking about what excites you and keep yourself at that point without going over. If you start to loose the edge, then gently stroke yourself. I mean barely making contact but slow light touches. You'll be amazed how sensitive and how good it feels when you are that close. Now keep that up for a couple of hours. Here are some general techniques to hold back your orgasm:

    1. Orgasm is usually preceeded by a strong contraction of the kegel (or PC) muscles. By preventing this first contraction, you can hold off your orgasm. To do this, just when you feel like you are cumming, push down like you're trying to push out a big turd and hold it. Your body is going to tell you to let go and cum but don't do it. Once you get the hang of it, you can try letting a half contraction go before pushing again. That can help relieve a bit of the immediate pressure when you get super close or even a bit too far. I've had cum flow out with no contractions and be able to keep up that cycle for hours.

    2. Push your cock down so it's pointing at your feet. That will help cut off the blood flow a bit and help hold things back.

    3. If all else fails, try pinching the tip. Hold your hand over the cap of your cock like it was a bottle cap and squeeze. That will push the blood out of the head which is also a part of the onset of orgasm.

    Somethings I've tried and doesn't work or only works sometimes:

    1. Squeezing the base of my cock. That can actually stimulate the prostate nerve which can have the reverse affect.

    2. Pinching the foreskin if you are uncut. I've found this to work if I'm not extremely close or I'm close but not rock hard. The motion of the foreskin rolling over the tip is sometimes enough to throw me over.

    3. A previous poster mentioned contracting the PC muscle. While I have gotten that to work, I find that once that first contraction is out, it's hard to stop your body. What I've found works but is a bit more advanced is contracting your PC muscle a bit before you're teetering on the edge and when you get to the edge, push down (like you are trying to pee) and hold on for dear life.

    That's the basics of what I've learned through over two decades of experimenting. You might find that different things work for you. There is one more form of edging that I've tried but don't recommend since it can reduce sensitivity for a while but it can be quite intense. This method is where you polish the edge of your cap without lube (i.e. dry friction). In this case, the intensity of the contact actually causes some discomfort which will hold off orgasm but ramp up in the intensity of sensation.

 

 

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