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    Default Thrusting through orgasm?

    Sorry guys, I know this has been asked a million times before, but I don't remember how to search the forums for the other threads. I've always had the issue with my fleshlights where I can't thrust through the orgasm because the head of my dick gets really sensitive and then it's way too much to deal with. It actually kind of cheapens the Fleshlight experience for me because I always like to continue stimulation through orgasm, but can't because it just becomes borderline painful.

    Is this a problem with the lubes I've been using (Astroglide and Shunga Toko Aroma) drying out and causing too much friction on the head? Or is this just an over-sensitivity problem? If it's the former, obviously I can look for different types of lubes that will stay slick and work better for me. But if it's the latter, what can I do to desensitize the head of my penis so that I can thrust throughout my orgasm and have the kinds of orgasms I know I'm capable of with the Fleshlight? Is it just something you get used to with time, or am I just stuck with this problem?

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    I have the same issue too. There is just too much pressure on the head during orgasm, so that's why I'm very interested in trying one of the varying canal widths to see if it helps to get your head moved into an area where there isn't as much contact during orgasm.

    Otherwise, I'm doing well if I can orgasm through one very slow final thrust—and that's only if I'm not doing it hand's free, I have to be operating it with my hand and going extremely slow . . . and I mean a down-stroke that is so slow it takes 5-8 seconds to get through.

    Of course, half the time I have the same issue during sex.

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    I think it depends on the texture. Original, no sweat: thrust away. The intense textures like SR & SB, I usually don't thrust I just hold it and the orgasmic throbbing of my cock causes enough stimulation against the textures to continue through a very intense orgasm.

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    It has a lote to do with what fleshlight you have , the texture ones make it harder to do than the smooth ones do . And you get one like the vortex , you might as well for get it . Now sometimes I can with the wonder wave , just depends on how long I am flying with it if I can or not . The smooth ones I can always keep going when I am blowing my load .

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    Well, are you so sure it will make the orgasm better?

    Over the years when it comes to vaginal or anal sex I have had two firm policies concerning men and their orgasms.......If I am under the impression they are going to cum very hard, or should say want to orgasm very strong, I make it a point to grip onto something with my hands, set my feet so I can hopefully push away slightly, tilt my hips so my vagina or bottom allows for the deepest penetration, and clench my teeth to not yell......As invariably on their last stroke they will ram their cock in as deep as they can and freeze having a very powerful orgasm.

    In contrast those that "stroke through" have less of an orgasm or I should say ignore much of it. During those times I prepare for the guy to continue the orgasm not satisfying, and begin trying for another which means a LOT more time in most cases.

    Now I myself can orgasm during a single session into double digits....In kind knowing a number of men who can orgasm quite a few times though not as many as me as well.....However.....In most cases except for very rare times especially when masturbating, if I want to keep going it is because I did it wrong so want to cum again and get it right.

    My point being......If you're cumming so well you want/need to stop, what's the problem?

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    for me, it's much easier to thrust while cumming if I...

    a) wear a condom (I've only done that once but it wasn't painful at all... it was great)

    b) make my dick much wetter right before I cum

    c) am using the FL hands free... this makes it much easier and not very painful at all. This is my favorite method !

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    Quote Originally Posted by K2-Kelly View Post
    Well, are you so sure it will make the orgasm better?

    Over the years when it comes to vaginal or anal sex I have had two firm policies concerning men and their orgasms.......If I am under the impression they are going to cum very hard, or should say want to orgasm very strong, I make it a point to grip onto something with my hands, set my feet so I can hopefully push away slightly, tilt my hips so my vagina or bottom allows for the deepest penetration, and clench my teeth to not yell......As invariably on their last stroke they will ram their cock in as deep as they can and freeze having a very powerful orgasm.

    In contrast those that "stroke through" have less of an orgasm or I should say ignore much of it. During those times I prepare for the guy to continue the orgasm not satisfying, and begin trying for another which means a LOT more time in most cases.

    Now I myself can orgasm during a single session into double digits....In kind knowing a number of men who can orgasm quite a few times though not as many as me as well.....However.....In most cases except for very rare times especially when masturbating, if I want to keep going it is because I did it wrong so want to cum again and get it right.

    My point being......If you're cumming so well you want/need to stop, what's the problem?

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    well put =) ... ya, i have noticed that i do slam in one final time when hands free, and it makes for a perfect orgasm, as i shake it just prolongs the feeling of the orgasm

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    Quote Originally Posted by aaron_boy View Post
    I think it depends on the texture. Original, no sweat: thrust away. The intense textures like SR & SB, I usually don't thrust I just hold it and the orgasmic throbbing of my cock causes enough stimulation against the textures to continue through a very intense orgasm.
    Aaron_boy is exactly right about textures. The Original is great for continued thrusting through orgasm because it will not over-stimulate the edge of my penis head, which becomes extremely sensitive at the moment of climax and continues that way until well after I'm done shooting. With textured inserts, I have to use shorter thrusts during orgasm. That way my cock doesn't rub against the canal. Instead, I thrust only enough to make the skin move up and down slightly without any friction against the sleeve's bumps/rings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by K2-Kelly View Post
    My point being......If you're cumming so well you want/need to stop, what's the problem?
    K2
    Good question Kelly, which I'll answer from a guy's perspective. Stopping the stimulation at, or right after, the beginning of an orgasm can feel unsatisfying (which is a huge understatement ). I can probably guess it's similar to rubbing your clitoris until you just start to climax and then suddenly stop.

    For us guys, continued stimulation all the way through ejaculation keeps the contractions going until all our semen is cleared out. The feeling of a completed orgasm is most satisfying especially if it is strong. An interrupted one does not feel good at all, and maybe even a little painful to the internal sex organs, because there's a feeling of leftover "backed up" semen in the urethral tract. This drive to ejaculate fully is probably an evolutionary trait in males to ensure that all available sperm have been deposited into the vagina, thereby maximizing our chances of continuing the species.

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    Dude, you don't have to do anything to make your dick desensitized. Having an orgasm in the FL will make your dick more desensitized over time, that's how it works. But if you pull out for orgasm especially with the STU then you are not learning with it. I know it's hard at first but try. Go very slowly if you have to and eventually you will be able to thrust at full force. Have an orgasm in it and continue to stroke very slowly for like 30seconds after. You may not be able to do it at first, it will take time. But eventually you will get it. It's the orgasm in the FL you have that makes you gain endurance for the real world. When I first got my STU I couldn't have an orgasm in it at all. But after time and forcing myself to have an orgasm in it eventually I became more desensitized in it and now I can thrust as hard as I can full force in it non stop. Try it man, you won't regret it. But it will take time. Trust me. Remember always have an orgasm in the FL and stroke for about 30seconds after on every FLight. Mabey the occasional FLight you can pull out but for the most part orgasm inside.

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    When I´m using a FL I usually pull out before I cum and finish by hand, I like to see my cumshot.

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    Correct me if I'm wrong but the most intense parts of a male orgasm are the first 3 spurts. I really don't see what is the big deal about continuing thrusting during orgasm.

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    If I keep thrusting during a strong orgasm I can end up passing out, it's that bad. So when I'm using my FL and feel like I can't finish inside of it, I pull out and finish with my hand. I'll have a strong orgasm that I can handle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    Aaron_boy is exactly right about textures. The Original is great for continued thrusting through orgasm because it will not over-stimulate the edge of my penis head, which becomes extremely sensitive at the moment of climax and continues that way until well after I'm done shooting. With textured inserts, I have to use shorter thrusts during orgasm. That way my cock doesn't rub against the canal. Instead, I thrust only enough to make the skin move up and down slightly without any friction against the sleeve's bumps/rings.
    Yep ^this^

    I can keep thrusting with the lotus, with the WW it gets painful after very few strokes and with the superribbed i can't thrust at all during orgasm.

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    I had that trouble with my SB, so I cut off a few inches of the insert and case so the head of my dick pops out the back when I press down hard. When I cumm, I just fuck it real deep, keeping the head clear of the bumps, works pretty good!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    For us guys, continued stimulation all the way through ejaculation keeps the contractions going until all our semen is cleared out. The feeling of a completed orgasm is most satisfying especially if it is strong. An interrupted one does not feel good at all, and maybe even a little painful to the internal sex organs, because there's a feeling of leftover "backed up" semen in the urethral tract. This drive to ejaculate fully is probably an evolutionary trait in males to ensure that all available sperm have been deposited into the vagina, thereby maximizing our chances of continuing the species.
    For me an interrupted orgasm would be one where stimulation DOES continue throughout, though. And I also think the biological reason for not wanting to continue stimulation during orgasm is the fact the chances of conception are maximized if the penis is held still as deep inside the vag it can go during ejaculation. So no, I can't really understand why you would want to keep thrusting when you're coming. The most powerful and draining orgasms tend to be the ones where you just hold still. Well, that's the way it is for me anyway.

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    I've had some intense orgasms by stopping stimulation right at the peak, but I've found that it's very hit or miss. If you time it just right you can have a very satisfying orgasm without moving, but if the timing is off by even a second and you stop thrusting/stroking/whatever a moment too soon or too early, it's extremely unsatisfying and then I feel like I've wasted an entire masturbation session for a mediocre orgasm. I guess it just depends on what you've grown up doing, and for me I feel better when I continue to stroke through the orgasm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLyinginAsia View Post
    Correct me if I'm wrong but the most intense parts of a male orgasm are the first 3 spurts. I really don't see what is the big deal about continuing thrusting during orgasm.
    well you are right, that is the most intense part... but the reason most guys keep going is because it keeps the spasms going, it does however for some reduce the effect of the orgasm, but it can make it last longer. Me personally, if im on my back with my hands and a FL, i stop at the peak of my orgasm, but then slowly, slowly go for a few more thrusts... but if im hands free, my body pushes in so far and then as i shake from the peak it just hits me so perfectly... so its all based on what the guys wants from the orgasm, if he wants a great one, he stops, if he wants a longer one that doesnt have the same effect in the end, he keeps going

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    I tend to keep thrusting through orgasm but VERY slowly. My best orgasms were accomplished this way. For me, the key is in good approaching (buildup) phase and not too vigorous stimulation just prior to orgasm. And than keeping stimulation steady and slow throughout. Afterwards I stay inside for a minute or so, staying semisoft and enjoying afterglow, till supersensitivity subsides.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winter View Post
    So no, I can't really understand why you would want to keep thrusting when you're coming. The most powerful and draining orgasms tend to be the ones where you just hold still. Well, that's the way it is for me anyway.
    This shows that everyone has different tastes regarding how to make an orgasm feel good. Whether I'm using my Fleshlight or jerking off by hand, I keep the stimulation going until my contractions have completely stopped. Often this can take about a minute, even though I'm only shooting semen for about the first 8 or 10 squirts.

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    Regarding thrusting through orgasm, here's an example from a porn movie. I like how he cums in her and than keeps moving for some time. It starts at about 4:00 min.

    [url]http://www.tube8.com/teen/luna-lane-fuck/5373/[/url]

    FL-induced orgasms can be pretty close to this. That's why I like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tony13 View Post
    Regarding thrusting through orgasm, here's an example from a porn movie. I like how he cums in her and than keeps moving for some time. It starts at about 4:00 min.

    [url]http://www.tube8.com/teen/luna-lane-fuck/5373/[/url]

    FL-induced orgasms can be pretty close to this. That's why I like it.
    That chick made me so fucking hard. Thanks for the video Tony! Karma goes to you. I gotta go Flesh after watching that.

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    I have not looked at porn in like 2-3 weeks =P but i had to see that one... OMG, ty lol, im adding that one to my collection, i like creampies =) ... now the bummer is that i cannot FLy for about 9 hours =( so now i have a stiffy that i cannot pet

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    Well, I'm glad to bring some fun into your lives, guys. But not for helping to achieve erection that can't be taken care for right now. Sorry.

    This particular movie cought my attention because it shows, besides a hot girl, a guy having a real, mind blowing orgasm. Just like those I have with FL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tony13 View Post
    This particular movie cought my attention because it shows, besides a hot girl, a guy having a real, mind blowing orgasm. Just like those I have with FL.
    Yeah it was good to see a porn video where the guy stayed inside a totally hot woman instead of pulling out and jerking the rest of his orgasm for the camera. Much more realistic to me. But those high pitched girly noises he kept making were so distracting. What's with that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tony13 View Post
    Well, I'm glad to bring some fun into your lives, guys. But not for helping to achieve erection that can't be taken care for right now. Sorry.

    This particular movie cought my attention because it shows, besides a hot girl, a guy having a real, mind blowing orgasm. Just like those I have with FL.
    its ok, i get to pop off a few times here in like anouther hour... im counting the minutes =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tony13 View Post
    Regarding thrusting through orgasm, here's an example from a porn movie. I like how he cums in her and than keeps moving for some time. It starts at about 4:00 min.

    [url]http://www.tube8.com/teen/luna-lane-fuck/5373/[/url]

    FL-induced orgasms can be pretty close to this. That's why I like it.
    wow tony thanks for sharing! that was an amazing vid! I really like watching his orgasm...

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    I find I can thrust through up to seven or eight strokes if I'm fairly well lubed at the time. If the canal's a little dry, it gets way too sensitive to stroke through though.

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    I find that, when I cum in my fleshlight, I will do one final, deep stroke, begin to cum, then stroke more slowly (slower than what I had been doing prior to my orgasm) in and out, while still ejaculating. The sensation really doesn't feel lessened at all. I also like to pull out as I start to cum, stroke my cock a little as I start to spurt, then stick it back in and continue to ejaculate. However, I don't get quite as much sensation from this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rammstein69 View Post
    I find I can thrust through up to seven or eight strokes if I'm fairly well lubed at the time. If the canal's a little dry, it gets way too sensitive to stroke through though.
    yea, it does depend on how much lube is left in the canal for sure...

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    Quote Originally Posted by svin_renigoth View Post
    I find that, when I cum in my fleshlight, I will do one final, deep stroke, begin to cum, then stroke more slowly (slower than what I had been doing prior to my orgasm) in and out, while still ejaculating. The sensation really doesn't feel lessened at all.
    That's almost exactly my technique, starting with a final deep thrust into my Fleshlight at the moment of orgasm and continuing with slow but deep thrusts (all the way up to my balls) as I continue to ejaculate.

    Quote Originally Posted by svin_renigoth View Post
    I also like to pull out as I start to cum, stroke my cock a little as I start to spurt, then stick it back in and continue to ejaculate. However, I don't get quite as much sensation from this.
    Pulling out is something I never do. It feels too good to stay inside and keep thrusting until my orgasm is totally over. But I can see how some guys might like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    Pulling out is something I never do. It feels too good to stay inside and keep thrusting until my orgasm is totally over. But I can see how some guys might like it.
    Well, I only do it sometimes, especially if I haven't ejaculated in a while, mostly to see how much cum I can shoot, and how far, within the first few spurts. Then I put it back inside. Most of the time, though, it's like you say, it feels too good to pull out, so I just pump my load inside.

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    I think I may be on to something... Today I went for a FLight, and before ejaculating I edged a few times, then waited for the feeling to subside completely. I actually let myself start to soften just a little, and then pulled out, added some more lube to the inside of the FL, lubed my dick up again, and then slid back in. If everything feels really smooth, with very little friction, then I know I'm lubed enough, and I just start long, slow strokes almost all the way up the shaft. Because of all of the edging, it doesn't take long for the slow, deep strokes to bring me close. As I get closer, I speed up a little, gradually, and continue slowly speeding up (but never going really fast) until I finish. It seems like this way my dick has a sort of mini-refractory period before I go for the grand finale, so any hyper-sensitivity that has built up goes away. I also find that if you can keep your PC muscles relaxed until the point of orgasm, it makes it much easier to prevent hypersensitivity because tensing those muscles causes a surge of blood to rush into the penis, causing the head to swell and become more sensitive. I've also found that not tensing those muscles at all during stimulation makes it much easier to last longer in bed, because tensing those muscles seems to encourage the nervous tension that builds up prior to orgasm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cowassassin View Post
    I also find that if you can keep your PC muscles relaxed until the point of orgasm, it makes it much easier to prevent hypersensitivity because tensing those muscles causes a surge of blood to rush into the penis, causing the head to swell and become more sensitive. I've also found that not tensing those muscles at all during stimulation makes it much easier to last longer in bed, because tensing those muscles seems to encourage the nervous tension that builds up prior to orgasm.
    That's how it is for me, as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    Pulling out is something I never do. It feels too good to stay inside and keep thrusting until my orgasm is totally over. But I can see how some guys might like it.
    This is where the FL experience can be dangerous. If I start having sex with a new gf, she may allow bbfs. I never used a condom with my ex, but she always knew I'd pull out at the right time. Always got it out in time, so I never knew the full pleasure of an orgasm inside a woman's body.

    Conversley, I'm so used to shooting into the FL now, that it would be extremely difficult to pull out of a woman next time. Might have to consider wearing a raincoat...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rammstein69 View Post
    This is where the FL experience can be dangerous. If I start having sex with a new gf, she may allow bbfs. I never used a condom with my ex, but she always knew I'd pull out at the right time. Always got it out in time, so I never knew the full pleasure of an orgasm inside a woman's body.

    Conversley, I'm so used to shooting into the FL now, that it would be extremely difficult to pull out of a woman next time. Might have to consider wearing a raincoat...
    pulling out feels better than wearing a raincoat... hands down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aaron_boy View Post
    pulling out feels better than wearing a raincoat... hands down.
    Much less safe, though. My friend did that for the longest time and thought he'd be fine, and now he has a baby. They made it about a year and a half having fairly regular sex using the pullout method, but it's not very effective at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by svin_renigoth View Post
    I find that, when I cum in my fleshlight, I will do one final, deep stroke, begin to cum, then stroke more slowly (slower than what I had been doing prior to my orgasm) in and out, while still ejaculating. The sensation really doesn't feel lessened at all. I also like to pull out as I start to cum, stroke my cock a little as I start to spurt, then stick it back in and continue to ejaculate. However, I don't get quite as much sensation from this.
    I noticed the same: final deep stroke and slow strokes during ejaculation. Never tried to pull out from FL; doesn't sound interesting.

    Regarding pulling out as a means of contraception, I can't believe people still do that as a sole means protection. Well, if you are married and don't care to have (more) kids, than OK. But with a girlfriend and having other plans for future, sounds a bit (a lot?) like asking for trouble. Just my thoughts... (and off topic here)

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    I must be a rare breed, I can thrust through cumming in all of my FL and that includes Vortex, speed bump, super ribbed, twista, wonder wave and STU


    I don't do it every time but once and a while it's nice just to stop and enjoy cumming

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    While I agree that most of the time, the fleshlight is too intense to keep thrusting during and after orgasm, I think it's worth trying to keep going every time. It doesn't actually hurt, it just feels too good! It's hard to do, but you can end up with one of those orgasms earth shattering, toe curling and moaning orgasms.

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    If I beat off with my hand, my penis-head is not involved at all, and once I start coming I kick stimulation up to the max level my hand can manage.

    Inside a FL the sensitivity of the head limits me somewhat.

    Maybe there's a medical way to get rid of penis head sensitivity

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiamat View Post
    Maybe there's a medical way to get rid of penis head sensitivity
    Trust me, you wouldn't want to do that.

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    Honestly I can't thrust through an orgasm with any of my fleshlights I get stuck till I'm finished.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    Trust me, you wouldn't want to do that.

    Yeah, I think it's called impotance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiamat View Post
    Maybe there's a medical way to get rid of penis head sensitivity
    Yeah, I think it's called impotance...

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    Apparently there is some sort of lotion you can rub on your head to make it less sensitive, it's used by guys that have problems with premature ejaculation. But unless you have that problem I wouldn't recommend it.

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    We speak about hypersensitivity after orgasm and ejaculation caused by some exotic changes in our nervous system (something about sympatic and parasympatic nervous system), not about normal sensitivity during stimulation prior to orgasm. Obviously both are individual and vary greatly among individuals.

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    Post orgasmic hypersensitivity is a normal phenomena.
    I'm not sure what purpose it serves, but it is quite typical.

    Masturbating with your hand allows you to modulate and control the amount and placement of stimulation so you are rarely aware of the hypersensitivity that, while not painful, can be almost unbearable.
    Manual stimulation to orgasm by my wife often (or not often enough )?? will cause me to reach down there and stop the motion, being way way to much of the post-orgasmic unpleasantness.

    The Fleshlight is much that way. Sensations of being caressed and surrounded and enveloped instantly become miserable just after cumming.
    No surprise, since the FL is so intense to begin with.

    More intense inserts inserts are, as expected, the worst just after orgasm.

    My STU or SR.....yeouch....continued pumping is impossible!
    My original or Lotus.....less intense by far....I can keep pounding to my heart's content after ejaculating until I loose my erection.

    One of many reasons to order a few new inserts, eh. guys?????


    My WW or Vortex are just right. When hyper-lubed by my semen I can keep plunging away after orgasm, hence, they are my favorites.
    Intense enough to feel great.
    Not so intense as to preclude edging for about 30 minutes.....my favorite thing to do, time permitting.
    This is the reason I'll always assert that, when well lubed, these two are the most vagina-like......to answer the oft asked question.
    Last edited by oregonfpdoc; 06-15-2009 at 01:26 PM.

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    Default Re: Thrusting through orgasm?

    I find that I pretty much can't stop thrusting through orgasm, and I like it that way. My most common positions for ejaculating are lying on my back stroking the FL with my hand, and standing hands free. When I'm on my back my whole body starts thrusting as I cum, so I stop stroking with my hand and let my body take over. My back starts arching and I'm practically bouncing on the bed. It feels absolutely wonderful and I wouldn't even think of stopping the thrusting.

    When I cum standing hands free I thrust a bit less, but I don't stop. In the standing position I start to feel some of the hypersensitivity others have written about in this thread, but I just let it flow through my body from head to toe and bliss out.

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    I cannot continue thrusting in a fleshlight when I cum either. It's just too intense.
    I have the SR, STU and Vortex.
    When I cum I push the FL down towards the base of my cock as hard as I can, and hold it there, for increased pressure and have a great orgasm that way.

    What does work is having my wife pump the fleshlight on me.
    When I do cum she keeps pumping it on me until I go nuts from the intensity and she has to stop.
    She REALLY enjoys doing that!

 

 

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