I also asked this in the ladies lounge, but activity seems low there, so I thought I'd try here too
My husband and I have really enjoyed our FL and the time we spend with it. We've acted as though we're having a threesome with it and have enjoyed it more than I ever thought we would.
Buying this has opened up a lot of doors/questions for both of us. The biggest topic being, would we actually have a threesome. I'm not in any way sexually attracted to women, but I do find some women attractive. My husband however, is very much attracted to women I do have a fantasy of him and another woman in our relationship, the thought of him having sex with someone else is very erotic and after talking about it, something we both are comfortable with doing. I told him I have to be involved to make this work, that I don't want him to leave me out or isolate me from any form of person to person sex without my permission.
We have NO idea where to even look to have a threesome. Have any of you had a threesome with two ladies and one guy? He isn't open to the idea of bringing in a second guy and I really don't care either way, but prefer to fulfill his fantasies.
If you had a threesome, how did it turn out in the end? Did it ruin your marriage, bring you closer, make you jealous? I don't know how to gauge all of this quite yet. I've been private messaging with some other users who have great suggestions, but I'm open and looking for more.