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    Default Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Wanting to buy my wife a nice (softer) thick dildo, but after dozens of web searches, most sex toy sites completely suck, as do their dildos. Spent money on a couple that were not as advertised. Got any suggestions for a good dildo?

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Have you looked at the dildos offered on Fleshlight? I'm assuming you have or else you wouldn't be posting the question on the forums. LOL.

    Also, I don't know if I can post the link here so I won't until someone tells me I can, but I can link you to a place that reviews various sex toys. You can go to sex toy sites and read their product reviews, but you never really know if the comments are legit or if they fabricate them just to sell their products. But if you go to a site that does nothing but review sex toys, then it's easier to accept the review and decide if you agree with that person's opinion and follow their advice or ignore them.

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    Cool Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by clarity13 View Post
    Wanting to buy my wife a nice (softer) thick dildo, but after dozens of web searches, most sex toy sites completely suck, as do their dildos. Spent money on a couple that were not as advertised. Got any suggestions for a good dildo?
    Tah tuh tuh taah! This is a job for THE ADULT PRODUCT CONSUMER REPORTER!!! (thaz me.) Ok then 3 things you want to consider before buying her such a toy. Dildo or vibrator. First the difference and NO the main difference is NOT that one vibrates. People need to get past that.

    A vibrator does vibrate yes but it also has a distinct form and shape. Usual made of a hard plastic or metalic smooth outer shell, a VIBRATOR is a muscle relaxer that clever pervert girls like to place over there vulva or on there inner thighs. the vibration obviously does the main job of stimulation. Some can be used internally. Others like the Hitachi wand or the N-Joy can not.

    A dildo is a replacement man. HER words not mine. DILDOES DO NOT VIBRATE. Some vaguely rod shaped vibrators do. This is an important fact to know because 9-10 time there is a massive difference in the price.

    So then knowing your gal like I'm sure you do. Here is what you need to find out before commiting the purchase.

    # 1 How tight and experienced she is. Her body type. THIS IS A MAJOR ISSUE many of us guys over look and here is why. A bigger full figured girl tends to feel more inside of her and less out side of her lip folds and labia. So bigger gals tend to REALLY get off on VIBRATORS. There are of course exceptions. experiment on her with your fingers. If she moans more as you message the mound of venus and area between her vagine' and anus then she is most likely a vibrator gal. If she gets off easier with penetration and more fingers prancing about in her. Then lean towards a flexable dildo or maybe a G-spot toy for her. Skinny girls like dildoes because it is all about up in and deep.

    # 2 Her regular level of sex drive. ALL guys know when they have a nympho on their hands. (pun intended) However how a girl is with her lover and how she is alone is like two different girls. On her own she may be a freak, then be a shy "Church chic" with you. And of course visa- versa. Nympho's LOVE their toys. Shy girls tend to just want you.

    # 3 Is she happy with sex or is she just PUTTING up with it because she feels obligated. This is a grey area in many ways but I have always found it important in the big picture. sex toys can greatly effect the female mind and alter her self esteem. Be carefull of this. ALWAYS make a point of supporting her with what ever she does with her body and what she uses on herself. NEVER over exagerate anything always be as honest as you can. A girl who is happy and comfortable with her sexuality is a VERY rare thing. If she feels she can trust you your both happy. If she feels she can trust the toy more. Well. . . Then good luck ever getting her to leave the bathroom.

    Hope I was helpfull!
    Peace!

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    Last edited by Jaykosolo; 10-08-2010 at 04:27 PM.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Thanks for the feedback. The floppy dildos that ILF offers are too small, too thin, and poorly shaped. And yes, I'm looking for a dildo, not a vibrator. Just a good site where I could buy one would be great. But the ones I have found that are good, are often foreign sites where shipping their products to the US would cost well over $100. Not worth it.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    When I got my spingasm, I also got all the female attachments that came with it. This included a nice dildo that the wife realy likes. We dont remember the name brand, but if you take a look at the Spingasm web page, I'm sure you will find it.

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    Cool Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by clarity13 View Post
    Thanks for the feedback. The floppy dildos that ILF offers are too small, too thin, and poorly shaped. And yes, I'm looking for a dildo, not a vibrator. Just a good site where I could buy one would be great. But the ones I have found that are good, are often foreign sites where shipping their products to the US would cost well over $100. Not worth it.
    We are not allowed to post / advertise other sites on here. So fire off an e-mail to my Yahoo or send me a p.m. and I will line you up with a few of my favs.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    I would recommend you get the new FJ Brent Everett dildo. Even though he's a gay porn star, who gives a fuck. It is big and made of quality silicone. It is scent-less. I'm sure she would love it.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Nah, the Brent Everett dildo is too small at only 5.5" circumference. I'll keep looking. Thanks anyway.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Two words.

    FORGET DILDOS

    Guys have trouble understanding a simple little fact.
    Most women do not need, or even want, something shoved up their vagina.

    Clitoral stimulation is where it's at.
    Vibrating clitoral stimulation is really really where it's at.

    One of the much more mature (couples, most 30-60) sites that I frequent under a (under a different name) has a toy discussion board.

    ONE product rules.
    Get her a Hitachi Magic Wand.
    Quit wasting time, money and fantasy on penis-like toys.

    About $40-50 and will last years and many many orgasms.

    Trust me.
    She will thank you.

    Penis dildos are mostly the stuff of male fantasy.

    Google the Magic Wand.
    Millions of writhing moaning panting females cannot be wrong.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by oregonfpdoc View Post
    Two words.

    FORGET DILDOS

    Guys have trouble understanding a simple little fact.
    Most women do not need, or even want, something shoved up their vagina.

    Clitoral stimulation is where it's at.
    Vibrating clitoral stimulation is really really where it's at.

    One of the much more mature (couples, most 30-60) sites that I frequent under a (under a different name) has a toy discussion board.

    ONE product rules.
    Get her a Hitachi Magic Wand.
    Quit wasting time, money and fantasy on penis-like toys.

    About $40-50 and will last years and many many orgasms.

    Trust me.
    She will thank you.

    Penis dildos are mostly the stuff of male fantasy.

    Google the Magic Wand.
    Millions of writhing moaning panting females cannot be wrong.
    You have to remember no two women are the same. I've been with some ladies that simply enjoy orgasms from penetration rather than clitoral stimulation. But with that said vibrating wands are pretty amazing toys. Hitachi makes a damn good one for anyone looking. I haven't met a gal yet that doesn't like the vibrating wand, hell I love using them on my balls while I FLy.

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by Muddbutt View Post
    You have to remember no two women are the same. I've been with some ladies that simply enjoy orgasms from penetration rather than clitoral stimulation. But with that said vibrating wands are pretty amazing toys. Hitachi makes a damn good one for anyone looking. I haven't met a gal yet that doesn't like the vibrating wand, hell I love using them on my balls while I FLy.

    Exactly right, no two women are alike. My wife doesnt orgasm with just clitoral stimulation, she needs the penetration also. She also doesnt care for vibrators. She has a modest collection of dildoes, but prefers the ones that are just a little larger than the average size dick and look life-like. If you have any adult stores around, take her there and let her pick one out.

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    i know my comment will proly get deleted, but theres this "product" you can buy that will allow you to CLONE the certain part of you... ive made one and was surprised at how well it worked. it wasent that hard. the standard kit comes with A vibe you can put in it but you dont have to use it all the time. it is shaped and sized exactly like yr own WILLY. (capital letters spell out the name of the product... lol) but it isent super soft. not like jelly dildos... it turns out more stiff and harder than yr skin... not sure what to compare it to... but its fairly cheap. try it. you two will proly the enjoyment you get out of making it will be worth it. but follow the instructions to the letter!

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    Default Re: Need a good dildo for wife. Any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by oregonfpdoc View Post
    Two words.

    FORGET DILDOS

    Most women do not need, or even want, something shoved up their vagina.

    Vibrating clitoral stimulation is really really where it's at.

    Get her a Hitachi Magic Wand.
    Quit wasting time, money and fantasy on penis-like toys.

    About $40-50 and will last years and many many orgasms.

    Google the Magic Wand.
    Millions of writhing moaning panting females cannot be wrong.
    I wish I would have figured this out before I bought a $55 and a $75 rabbit vibes to use on the wife. It is almost impossible for me to get her to climax with a sex toy in her pussy. She enjoys it but doesn't orgasm until I pull it out and give her my cock. I really planned on getting in a position where I could push my cock against her asshole right as she climaxed with the "rabbit" and get some anal when she relaxed. But that's a no-go so far.

    I can easily get her to orgasm with clitoral stimulation with my fingers, as that is how I foreplay with her 90% of our sex sessions.

    SO, I guess I'll look into the "wand" for her; and plan on using the rabbit vibes as anal toys on myself. I am excited to see how the rotating, beaded shaft section feels in my ass. One of them even strokes in & out about 3/4" as well as the rotating feature. It's just about an extra 1/2" of girth compared to the last vibrator I had buried 7" deep. SO its gonna hurt...

 

 

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