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    Question Jacking off with another guy?

    Tihis is something, I would really like to get a feeling, about how others feel about it. I'm streight, and do not consider myself as gay, or bisexual. When I was in junior high schoool. I had a few buddy's I would hook up witth, and wack off looking at Platboy, and Penthouse. I never had the urge to want to suck, or jack anotherr buddy off. It was always about looking at the Lady's getting horned up and shootng a good load. I have always been an avid masturbator, and after my divorce. I wanted to try to find a few others who shared my intrest. I'm a little shocked how it's viewed today Most of all the ad's I have placed. I get responces from men, more into Cock,than they are Pussy. It didn't always be like this. Why can't men share masturbation as an empowering experince, and an aframation as a normal thing we all do, and enjoy. What I was wanting to know is? Are there men here on the form, that have jerked off with another guy, and don't have sexual hangup's about it I just feel this thinking tthat if you masterbate with another man your Gay or Bi. I just think it's two guy's enjoying m, and sharing masturbation. I guess I'm just sexualy fustrated. I don't date allot, and have been wanting to find a guy that shares my intrests, and jacks off as much as I do. It's been very difacult though. I keek running into this homosexual thing. Hey I just like jacking off to women and the female forum.

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    Haha, I see what you mean. My dad grew up in the 60s, and looking at Playboy together was definitely not taboo. Most younger men still do that today as well. The real question is: are they all beating off to whatever source they have ... together .. independently and not having that "homosexual vibe" that someone might offer to "help with that". I am not going to say it's rare, but it's not common either. I'm 21, straight, yet I attract both women and men. Since I grew up on the internet around 12 years old, and had a cam, I thought this was normal, and fun. I watched women on cam while men and women watched me. After 8 years, I've realized that over hundreds of men and women have watched me on cam. Would I do this in person with a man or a woman? Well, I have, yet the boy actually wanted to "help". So, it's definitely something that has lost "value" in "social masturbation" - you could call it, but to actually find someone who is completely comfortable with exposing themselves in person with the same sex - it has a whole different idea to it now. I blame the media. lol

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    I have jacked off with other guys I met from online. I have also tried bi stuff. I still prefer women, but they are just too much work/hassle to get usually.

    There are guys who still like to JO (at least on Craigslist)...str8, bi, married, gay...all of them. I think there are more who want to interact than just JO.

    I never did this with someone I knew really. I looked at playboys as a kid (we didn't have porn or internet access), but we never got off together. OFten it was usually pre-puberty, before I discovered what an orgasm was. Once I did I mostly kept it to myself. I did camp out with a friend and we used to play dare games, but never actually jacked off together.

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    For me, sex with a real woman or a fantasy woman is all about being one on one with her.

    Having another guy in the same space even if he was my best bud just would not work for me.

    Just my personal view point

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    I would not do that. For me, watching porn with another guy (eventhough I still wouldnt do this) is very different from jacking off to porn with another guy.

    I think this has a lot to do with the times though. Back in the day, it was completely normal to swim naked with your guy friends, change in front of them, etc. I can (comfortably) say that I have not seen a single one of my friends dicks. I'm okay with that.

    I definately don't think it makes you gay or bi, it's just not the norm anymore...

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    Wait, we are having this conversation again? *sighs*

    Masturbating with another guy is not something I have ever done nor is is something I would ever do. I just don't get a thrill out of seeing another guy's penis in real life. I can see another guy's dick in porn and be completely ok with it for the simple fact that I can suspend reality and envision that's my dick in action. But if I'm in a room and another guy pulls it out and starts jerking off, there is no suspending reality. It doesn't matter if we are both looking at porn or whatever and not looking at each other. The fact that another guy is there doing that would be awkward, uncomfortable, and a huge turn off for me. If you're bi/gay and are into that kind of thing, then it's great for you. It's just I am not.

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    Yeah i have to say i have. Friends in high school, young and "stupid" just jerking off for the hell of it. Once watching a porn and dude wipes his out and that gets the ball rolling for a group jerk off...Get to together drinking, stop and jerk off. Weird maybe. who knows... never went down. never asked for help. never stared to long at other dudes stuff...it's acceptable as far as I'm concerned. Guy's jerk off...that's that...doesn't make you gay, doesn't make you whatever label someone might give ya. Just jerk off and enjoy...There someone else there who wants to join in..whatever...BUT HERES A POINTER: if in group setting just don't spray the guy closest to ya...Aim is your best friend!

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    LOL!!!

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    The only time I masturbated around other guys was while in my teens with a bunch of neighbors. We had a sleepover in the house of a friend and started watching porn (I'm talking about 1980's here). Without saying anything, one by one we started jacking off, most doing it with their dicks inside their pants. I remember taking mine out and jacked without a hurry until I shot a load spraying a window - without realizing my friend's sister was peeping through it.

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    I've never done this, and I don't know if I could with just another guy, even watching porn, but I might be able to perform (sexually) if I were in a MFM threesome... I just can't find anyone to do this with.

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    I guess I'm one for the more personal sex experience between a man and a women. Even though the girl may have had partners before, I might not care, but I'd prefer it to be more intimate between us in the moment. But, to me it would be a turn off anyway. I don't want to be thinking about my guy friends jacking to me and a girl having sex.
    But, just jacking to porn, BIG NO!

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    Pick a bi guy who answers your ad and make it clear that you only want to jerk off with him to straight porn. You may end up stealing a glance at each others cock or even pacing yourself to cum at the same time. I've never done this, but it all sounds fun to me. If it would make you feel a little less gay or conflicted, get together with a hot tranny or crossdresser for mutual masturbation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TantraMagnet View Post
    For me, sex with a real woman or a fantasy woman is all about being one on one with her.

    Having another guy in the same space even if he was my best bud just would not work for me.

    Just my personal view point
    Same here, I don't want to see or show Junior to my friends or other dudes.

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    If I ever stumbled upon the opportunity for a circle jerk, I would jump on it right away (as long as I felt safe and knew the people I was jerking off with). I would never actively seek this, but I think it would just be fun lol.

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    In my fantasy files... I can see having a romp with Kimber James. She is the hottest chic I've seen with a cock.

    Not only would I like to jack-off together I'd like to make out with her.

    It turns me on to fantasize about our cocks rubbing together as I suck her titties.

    But I wouldn't take it up my ass... AND I don't fantasize about making out with ANY guys.

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    Default Re: Jacking off with another guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by fireproof69 View Post
    I can see having a romp with Kimber James. She is the hottest chic I've seen with a cock.
    I second that.


    Last edited by PrinzeCharming; 02-17-2011 at 01:52 PM.

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    Not my cup of tea. For me sex is something I do with my wife or with myself all alone. No exceptions.

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    I believe Kimber James took female hormones early in her teens so there was little time for testosterone to affect male secondary characteristic. How big are her breast implants?

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    She's gotten bigger ones in the past year. Honestly, I liked her first ones. She also got lip injections... And I wish she hadn't done that either.. but I still like her. I haven't seen any new stuff recently, though.

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    never would do it...just...no... =/

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    I never really got into the He/She's. I don't think they could match me in s distance contest.

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    I can understand looking at porn together but not anything else, that is something you do in private, I would not do this considering that its not something I would feel comfortable doing.

    Have heard of a friend doing mutual masterbation with a girl he has been friends with since elementary school, they started doing so in highschool.

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    I can't take that, I only DIY

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    What is DIY Thanks

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    Do It Yourself

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    Default Re: Jacking off with another guy?

    when I was in 6th grade with some buddies watching late night cinemax lol. I'm 22 now, and it is not appealing.

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    Growing up (teens), when a friend of mine would sleep over, we'd end up talking about chicks and watching some skinemax or something. Eventually we'd jack off at the same time while watching something. He never really 'whipped it out', mostly in his pants and such. I would just pull mine out, and I'd see him watching from time to time. It was never really a gay thing. Honestly though, if I knew a 'cool' gay/bi dude and wasn't married, I'd probably do the circle jerk thing or something. Could be cool in the right situation.

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    I am single again after 13 years married, age 41. I have jacked with other guys before and since I was married, and have no hangups about it. It's not replacing sex with a woman; it's different. It's two (or more) guys just hanging out, talking about pussy or whatever, watching porn, maybe some drinks or beers, and stroking it. I would like to say I have a good friend and we also share this "hobby" but haven't been able to arrange that yet. So I have done it when the opportunity presents itself. I have done it with a couple of co-workers, once it was a guy I met on a flight - we struck up a conversation, after a few beers it turned towards sex, and he ended up joining me for some stroking in my hotel room. In all of these cases nothing else happened - nothing but a couple of guys getting off in the same room. Did we watch each other in addition to the porn? Yeah - a bit - it was fun to see what someone else was "working with"!

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    Ok i have been reading this thread and mmmmmmmmmm some comments are interesting circle jerks watching porn with some good friends damn mmmmmmmmmmmmm

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    Hey, If anybody is intrested in geting into a Skype type thing? I would be up for that. Talk about are favorite lady's. shooting bigger loads. FL's Porn collections. Just send me a personal message, let me know about yourself, what your into, stuff like that. We we see what we can work out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by belisarius View Post
    Not my cup of tea. For me sex is something I do with my wife or with myself all alone. No exceptions.
    I agree ! I also have sex just with my wife and with myself...

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    i'm straight... but when i am really excited, a fantasy is to wank with someone else while watching porn. i can even think to wank each other. it's a fantasy thing, i'd nevere really do that but for wanking material is a pleasant thought every now and then

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    Quote Originally Posted by private_fan View Post
    i'm straight... but when i am really excited, a fantasy is to wank with someone else while watching porn. i can even think to wank each other. it's a fantasy thing, i'd never really do that but for wanking material is a pleasant thought every now and then
    This sums it up well for me. All of my masturbation fantasies involve shemales and bi sex, but I don't think that I could ever actually do what I fanatasize about.

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    would it be OK for a guy to masturbate with his friend if he were married? twist: the friend is a female! -just these kinda things im thinking about..

    anyway, funny story. I had a friend who I used to jack it with back when we were kids. we did it quite frequently but I never showed him my penis. he had this bunkbed and laid in it while I was sitting in a sofa under it.

    we used to watch harry potter and this other (swedish) movie which had a sex scene (not porn) in it. that was about as good as it could get for us. I remember how we used to rewind that particular sex scene 100 times while frantically jerking our dicks in unizon. lol im laughing hard atm cause I remember we used to crack up after like 20 viewings because at the end of the sex scene the guy brawls and moans like an animal, after which the woman asks "did you finish"?
    and the man replies: "No, I got cramps in my leg." - was pretty hard to cum to that scene lol.

    I used to climb up to him and kid around while he was almost climaxing. I made him laugh while he was stroking it like crazy -was funny as hell to see him tryin to get off, jerking his dick 500m/h while laughing hysterically at my jokes. -good times.

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    Reminds of time a buddy and I did a threesome with a girl in Mexico.. We are both 100% straight and the idea of seeing each other naked seemed a bit strange to us at the time,but this chick was pretty cute and wanted the two of us to do her at the same time. So up we went to the room. It was one of the better Tijuana sessions I have ever had. Coming back down to the bar my legs were wobbly from the great time I had.

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    Funny, I was just explaining to one of my women friends who was asking me about the M/M/F threesome that it definitely did not make a guy gay or bi. She was concerned about her boyfriend who told her that he liked doing that type of threesome. That said, I did comment that if her boyfriend was into double-dick in vagina or ass, that could be gay/bi and that if he liked being in a train and was taking or giving, definitely gay/bi. That said, that's just my opinion and certainly not fact.

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    As kids/teens in Cubs & Scouts, we'd have group sessions in the tents when we were camping. Never touching each other, just seeing who was biggest, came first/last etc.. the usual exploring and learning most guys do. Lots of self gratification with the neighbour (female) in the mid teens as well, not too often that we'd play with each other "bits", but plenty of evenings spent masturbating while watching the other do the same.

    As an adult, wanking in the same room as another guy isn't really my thing I don't think, I know it's not something that I've ever fantasized about, and thinking about it right now isn't doing anything for me. I have pulled mine out and jerked off while watching a buddy get a BJ & fuck his wife on the couch beside me, and them watching me while I was watching them was great! But that was more like "live porn"

    *sigh* memories ... I need to find me another masturbation buddy again - watching a woman get herself off while I get off is better than sex - mentally speaking that is - in the end, nothing beats the feel of a warm pussy (or FL) around my cock.

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    Although I've never doen it with another guy, I think now that I've got my FL I'd could get off being in the same room with a group of other guys going at their own FL. I think it could possibly be hot seeing how every dude uses his FL in his own way.

    Hmmm, anyone like to share a pic of doing it? Or better have a pic of two or more dudes doing it?

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    not a team player. lol

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    me and a buddy of mine went to a brothel last night and specifically requested a MMF threesome. this bird started off sucking my mate while i was sitting next to him getting wanked off by her, then she would change over and go down on me. eventually i was pounding into her pussy doggy style while my friend was getting head. then when she was focused on him, i'd beat myself off, so it was kind of like jacking off together. was a laugh, would try it again probably but not too soon.

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    jacking off with another guy, whether or not you touch each other or not is kinda gay. i dont know if you straight guys know it or not, but this is a gay guys fantasy. (at least this gay guy's) getting a straight man naked and watching him wank is hot. just saying.

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    Not really into that at all. Just reminds me of a scene in a non porn movie. Dutch-rotar. Lol

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    Here we go again two young men with closed minds, slightly homophobic. As far as Gay men saying that men who masterbate with other men are gay. Well of course, you would say something like that. It's all about convincing other guy's that it's OK to Suck Cock and Eat Cum.
    As a Streight man, who has jerked with a few other guy's over the years. I have no need, or want, to suck cock, or eat cum.

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    It's only gay if ballz touch!!!!!

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    If ballz touch So frottage is ok frot the art of cock rubbing now that is hot

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    i used to jack off with a friend of mine long ago and it was great but we decided to take it further and did alot more fun things with each other. I suppose im bi seeing as how much I enjoyed giving/reciving his awsome cock.

    I have not seen him for a while now you know how it is but who knows in the future.

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    Private messaging with a guy while masturbating is as far as I've gone. If the situation were right, I could probably do it in person and maybe do more than just jerk off.

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    Me and a friend used to jerk off next to each other when I stayed at his house,this was while I was at school,been curious about doing more "gay" things as I get older,who knows,I do like going on gay chat sites and jerking off,kinda related!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rbrt View Post
    So frottage is ok frot the art of cock rubbing now that is hot
    See, here's the deal for me. I have NO males that I have ANY sexual fantasies about. Nobody I know, and no celebrities/pornstars. But, I can imagine being really turned on by rubbing my cock against another. AND I get REALLY turned on by the fantasy of making out with Kimber James. I can picture my cock rubbing together with another, but if I look up and it's a guy, it's NO DEAL! But, if I was sucking on Kimber's tits and sticking my tongue down her throat while our cocks "frotted" that would be super hot!!! I can even fantasize about sucking her's, but can't place an image in my head of sucking a guy's cock. SO, I would gladly jack-off with Kimber James, Danika Vega, or Mia Isabella, but that's about it.

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    no way i'll ever do that, even if it was a chick(. i dont care for penis or clit too much. im a loner.

 

 

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