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    Default Hands Free in bed?

    I think I have discussed this in a few threads before, but I find that I wake up with a hard dick almost day. For a while, this led me back to hand masturbation since I found it a pain to get out of bed, get a fleshlight, grab the lube, and all that commotion when it was just easier to rub it out and start my day. So I've started taking 1 Fleshlight out of my storage and putting it near my bed (lube too) so that I can quickly grab it and rub my morning wood in this.

    Usually, I just lay on my back and pump my fleshie. I'm still in bed. I'm still in lazy mode. I don't feel like doing anything too extravagant. But I would much rather prefer to be on my stomach fucking my fleshlight. Does anyone know of a relatively simple set up that would allow me to fuck a fleshlight hands free missionary style in bed?

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    I suppose you could cut an angled hole into your mattress, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jon Duan View Post
    I suppose you could cut an angled hole into your mattress, lol.


    I'm thinking there has to be something simple to do with my pillows. I tried putting it under my pillow and then kind of laying on the pillow, but that's an awkward angle that doesn't feel good on my dick.

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    You could try sandwiching it between TWO pillows, one underneath to raise it up a bit more, and one over it, and maybe that would work. If one pillow under it doesn't fix the angle enough, try putting two pillows or a pillow and a doubled up blanket under it?

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Yeah, but at that height I'd pretty much have to be on my knees to fuck it, wouldn't I? I'd have to try it out before I could tell you whether that' comfortable or appealing that early. What about the shoe trick? Has anyone tried the shoe trick in bed? I don't think it'd be comfortable, but maybe with a pillow?

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    One pillow or a doubled up blanket would probably be at just about the right height, but I obviously don't know the exact dimensions of your pillows, blankets, and body. I would shy away from putting a dirty shoe in my bed, but if you're game for that, I don't see why it wouldn't work.

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    Why you gotta call my shoe dirty? What it's a bedroom shoe? Huh? Wouldn't be too dirty then, would it? Apologize to my shoe, man! LOL, just kidding.

    I'm going to have to play around with it. The "keep a fleshlight near my bed" idea just came to me a few days ago, so I'm still working out the kinks. I was just hopeful that someone had found a good hands free set up for in-bed, missionary style fucking. I'll probably play around with it until I find something that works. It's just that I'm not really creative when I first wake up. Just lazy with a hard on that wants quick relief. lol

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    I did it by taking a pillow, putting another pillow under the first one on the side closer to my body so that the first pillow angled downward. I put O'Doyle's Stout SIAC on that pillow, then another pillow on top and I was all set. My body weight held the Stout in place while I pumped hands free. It was a fantastic orgasm. I had left the end cap off (I always do with SIAC's), and when I was finished there was splooge all over the sheet, but it was easy to clean and I didn't mind a bit.

    I've only done that once. I keep telling myself I have to do it again, but I just don't get around to it. I'm married, so I can't just wake up and FLy. I have to find some private time during the day. But now that you've reminded me of how fine it was, I think I'll have to try again soon.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    This would be a great reason to have a "face down, ass up!" mount. Too bad ILF only has those big bulky mounts that look like furniture and nothing piratical that I'd ever use. Think of how great it would to have a mount of a girl spreading her legs or with her ass in the air. Slide a fleshlight/SIAC in, and have at it right in bed. It would be grand. But, instead, I am forced to try to think of a make-shift mount for the same purpose.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Find a big stuffed animal, make a hole in the most accurate area possible, support the FL with the stuffing ....

    Just kidding!

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    Slightly embarrassing story, but I don't care. I'll share. When i was younger and first started masturbating, I had to be like 9 or 10, real young, I would actually fuck a stuffed bear I had. I even cut a hole in it trying to fuck it. And even poured warm water on it to make it warm. It was fun for a while, until someone found it wand wanted to know why there was a hole there. (blushes)

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    I think most kids do something similar to that. I hear stories about women using hairbrushes and remotes before their first dildo, and most guys have stories about fucking their couch, or a stuffed animal.

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    Aw, yeah, we all have our experimental days ....

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    My first girlfriend confessed that she used a unicorn horn. It was a glass figure that someone gave her that she kept on her dresser. She just put it on the floor, squated over it, and rode it. I'm sure you can imagine how fucking hard that made me when she finally told me. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by MagicalMayhem View Post
    My first girlfriend confessed that she used a unicorn horn. It was a glass figure that someone gave her that she kept on her dresser. She just put it on the floor, squated over it, and rode it. I'm sure you can imagine how fucking hard that made me when she finally told me. LOL
    Haha, ohh man, I'd ask if she could demonstrate.

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    Hi there! i talked to a guy from Paris who had a small pillow with a nice hole inside. He put the FL inside of this hole and kept it close to his bed and he was lying on it and fucking it like crazy. the way he would fuck his girlfriend. This could be a good idea for you, dude! Are there any FL fucking videos around here on this FL Forum?
    cheers, Attila

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    I have a question for those of you that do this hands free on the bed; Do you watch porn while doing it? I guess the real question I am asking is do you face the headboard?...Or the tv and do it?...I usually always watch porn during my fleshie sessions and am wondering if this could be done facing the other end of the bed?..So I could watch the tv at the same time?....I have yet to try this pillow technique, but it sounds damn interesting!!........Fucking a girl on my bed, I don't mind staring at the back wall, because- well, that's real fucking...But for my jack off sessions, I am usually on my back watching the tv.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    I put a towel on a pillow then tuck the towel under the pillow part way. Then put the FL under the pillow so it is held in place by the towel fold. this way you can go hands free and the FL doesnt slide away.

    As for porn I have a 7 inch samsung galaxy tab 2. Ive loaded up half dozen 16 gb micro sd cards with pics and videos.

    works perfect.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Maybe try using one of those memory foam pillows, might work better than a regular pillow.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Quote Originally Posted by PrinzeCharming View Post
    Find a big stuffed animal, make a hole in the most accurate area possible, support the FL with the stuffing ....

    Just kidding!
    Furry love!

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Quote Originally Posted by davo View Post
    I put a towel on a pillow then tuck the towel under the pillow part way. Then put the FL under the pillow so it is held in place by the towel fold. this way you can go hands free and the FL doesnt slide away.

    As for porn I have a 7 inch samsung galaxy tab 2. Ive loaded up half dozen 16 gb micro sd cards with pics and videos.

    works perfect.
    My wife wants to watch me do it hands free in Missonary while watching porn. Might have to try your suggestion.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Get a shower mount.... Small flat surface that mount will stick to... Wrap a blanket around the stuck on base and then get your flight started.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flight420 View Post
    Get a shower mount.... Small flat surface that mount will stick to... Wrap a blanket around the stuck on base and then get your flight started.

    thank you for this =)

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Try this...leave the sleeve in the case, lay the FL on the mattress in the desired position, fold one pillow in half and place on top of FL, take another pillow and place on top of the folded one but do not fold, when you are ready lay on the pillows so most of your weight is supported by your core or midsection. Adjust how much the FL is exposed for insertion and enjoy...works well while watching prons!

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Same idea as what 00deviant described. I wrap the Fleshlight in a towel with a belt tightened around it to keep the case from sliding out as I pull back with each thrust. I lay that on another rolled-up towel so it slants up at a good angle for fucking, and put a pillow on top of everything. This arrangement always provides me with a satisfying, hands-free lay in missionary position. I have my most intense orgasms this way.

    Here's how the setup looks:
    http://videos.fleshlight.com/video/381/

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    The shoe trick works, and is far less effortless.

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    I use a sleeping bag with the FL tucked in one end. Perfect for hands free in bed.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Are there any tips for keeping a fleshlight stable so that I can fuck it while I am laying down on my side in bed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLVirgin View Post
    Are there any tips for keeping a fleshlight stable so that I can fuck it while I am laying down on my side in bed?
    without shoes, custom build devices, cutting holes in pillows, etc. I am just looking for something quick and easy that will stabilize the fleshlight enough so that I can pump away while I am on my side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLVirgin View Post
    without shoes, custom build devices, cutting holes in pillows, etc. I am just looking for something quick and easy that will stabilize the fleshlight enough so that I can pump away while I am on my side.
    Well the trouble with any quick and easy method is that it probably won't hold the FL that well. I think the best method is probably to roll it up in a sleeping bag.

    If you want the best experience you need the mounts. They work really well and I would recommend them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by orlandot94 View Post
    Well the trouble with any quick and easy method is that it probably won't hold the FL that well. I think the best method is probably to roll it up in a sleeping bag.

    If you want the best experience you need the mounts. They work really well and I would recommend them.
    Hmm, because I don't live alone, it isn't going to be possible to use a mount. The other problem is that I don't have a sleeping bag. Basically I just have regular household items like pillows, blankets, etc. Would rolling it up in a blanket work?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLVirgin View Post
    Would rolling it up in a blanket work?
    Should if you wrap a weight in with it to keep it from moving too much. A small weight plate or dumbbell will work. Then the only trick is figuring out how to wrap it to position the FL right.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    if you guys want a hands-free Mount, look up "the other man dildo mount, Got 1 for the wife and she loves it, just waiting for my shower mount to arrive then I can try it out

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    Stick the FL w/case in between the mattress & bed stand. Kneel down on side of bed and penetrate your FL. You can keep your body thrusting back & forth hands free.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    I'm a fan of the Socker Bopper myself. Bonus it's easily deflatable/reinflatable for storage.

    https://forums.fleshlight.com/showthread.php?33769-DIY-Accessory-Tip-Socker-Boppers

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    OK, even better than the Socker Bopper, a few minutes ago I just came twice in a single session with my "ass cheeks" setup missionary with the hot pack keeping the sleeve warm. Definitely my method of choice from here on out...

    https://forums.fleshlight.com/showthread.php?33768-DIY-Accessory-Tip-Ass-Cheeks-enhancement

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jon Duan View Post
    most guys have stories about fucking their couch, or a stuffed animal.
    With a teenager in the house, no piece of furniture is safe. You spend an amazing amount of time analyzing everything for potential fuckability.

    I had a friend who admitted he tried to violate a glass bottle and got stuck (no lube). Luckily, near-panic killed his erection and he got out.

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    I wish there was some way to do hands free in bed where you could just lay on your back, rest your hands behind your head and the fleshlight would do the work! LOL

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    On a mission mount works excellent on top of bed and just right angle if you enjoy missionary position like I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLVirgin View Post
    Are there any tips for keeping a fleshlight stable so that I can fuck it while I am laying down on my side in bed?
    Try crawling your legs and bringing them together, putting two plows between them, and placing the flesh between the two pillows.

    Something like this with adjusted circumference might allow the flesh be locked, it is designed for rifle but you might give it a try since it is more stable and have better quality than the mount.
    http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/1-inch-25-4mm-One-Piece-High-Dovetail-Mount-Scope-Ring-11mm-Dovetail/701234_237271437.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLECTOR View Post
    I wish there was some way to do hands free in bed where you could just lay on your back, rest your hands behind your head and the fleshlight would do the work! LOL
    On occasion I will hold the Fleshlight with my feet while I'm on my back in bed. I either hold the Fleshlight in place on the bed and thrust into it--my dick parallel to the bed, basically--or I grab the Fleshlight with my feet and move them back and forth in the air. It may sound or look strange, but at least it's something different and I can put my hands behind my head for that kind of experience.

    And sometimes I just do it hands-free without any Fleshlight at all. ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by always21 View Post
    And sometimes I just do it hands-free without any Fleshlight at all. ;-)
    You must have a lot of hip joint flexibility to masturbate with your feet. I'm impressed!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyIceMan View Post
    You must have a lot of hip joint flexibility to masturbate with your feet. I'm impressed!
    Haha, I didn't mean it in that way. I just meant with my muscles and my mind.

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    Buckwheat pillows may be the answer here.

    If you don't know what they are, buckwheat pillows are pillows made out of buckwheat hulls. You can shape the pillow any way you like and the little hulls inside sort-of lock together and hold the shape. I've been sleeping on mine for over twenty years. They never wear out, form-fit to your head instantly, and are very cool. I wouldn't sleep on any other pillow.

    When I first thought of using my fleshlight hands free, I just folded the buckwheat pillow over it and it locked it in place for the duration - the fleshlight never moved from it's spot and it worked like a charm. Sometimes I put the pillow on the edge of the bed and stand up to fuck it, sometimes I lay in the bed, but whatever way I choose, the pillow holds the fleshlight at whatever angle I set. It's pretty-much an ideal set-up for hands free.

    Buckwheat pillows are kinda pricey, but as combined pillows and fleshlight hands-free mounts, worth the investment!

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    Sounds interesting Aardman. How do they compare to memory foam? Are they soft or firm?

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    Tomax just released this thing called a Pillow Hugger at Queen Cat adult toys. It's a small inflatable thing that mounts onto a pillow and is supposed to be able to hold a Fleshlight. (sorry can't post links yet :/)

    Seem like it would be pretty handy for going hand free in bed, especially while laying on your side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrbean View Post
    Sounds interesting Aardman. How do they compare to memory foam? Are they soft or firm?
    I guess you'd have to say they are firm. If you didn't know any better you'd think it was a pillow-shaped bag of grain. In fact, that's sort of what it is. When I use one - for sleeping that is - I slap it down, push all the grains into a thick wad in the middle then wiggle my head back and forth a couple of times on it, and that makes the pillow create a perfect depression the shape of my head. It's firm, but because it is exactly the right shape, you don't really even feel it - your head kind of 'floats' for lack of a better term, in a comfortable sleeping position.

    For using it as a fleshlight mount - well, my buckwheat pillow is a pretty big one, so I smooth it out flat, lay the fleshlight in it near the edge, then fold the pillow over. The buckwheats lock it into place. No matter how hard I thrust the fleshlight stays where I put it.

    Now to be honest, I USUALLY set the pillow on the edge of the bed and stand up when I fuck it that way. I can grab the pillow and squeeze it and it sort-of gives me the sensation as if I'm grabbing a nice firm ass - the buckwheats will squeeze, but because they're already compressed from being folded over, they're pretty firm. It doesn't LOOK like an ass, but it sort-of has that tactile sensation when grabbed. I've tried other positions and they work just fine too, it's just I prefer standing (just seems to work better for me).

    Every time we go on vacation we have to pack my pillow because I simply cannot get used to anything else now that I've slept on buckwheat hulls for so many years.

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    Default Re: Hands Free in bed?

    I scanned the thread briefly and didn't see the Meiki Plush doll mentioned. Brings "hands free" to a new level. Recommend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by linux_tyro View Post
    I scanned the thread briefly and didn't see the Meiki Plush doll mentioned. Brings "hands free" to a new level. Recommend.
    The meiki plush is awesome for fleshlights as well as other toys. It's a little pricey but very much worth it if you use your toys in bed much. I used to go with the towels/pillows setup and the meiki is so much less of a hassle and cleanup. I also find it much sturdier than a pillow setup (being able to pound much harder, etc.) Convenience aside, the body shape is nice and pounding my sleeves doggy style with the Meiki is probably the most fun I've had with my fleshlights.

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    I just built my own automatic hands free machine.
    Its based on, arm rests from an ikea office chair, 2 large bolts, a smooth rod, a lego mindstorms motor, a 15v powersupply, some pvc pipe and a reciprocation unit from en electric saw.
    //peecee.dk/uploads/072015/IMG_20150703_040733_nopm__big_thumb.jpg"

 

 

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