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    Default Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    First off, I want to say I am not gay. There is nothing wrong with it if you are, it's just not the way I swing. I have had several gay friends in my life, no big deal.

    Once, in my early days of college, me and some buddies were partying at this bar. Me and a couple of guys decided to go back to this one guy's apartment to smoke a joint or two. We were all drunk as fuck and after getting stoned somehow we all started "rasslin"..I had this one dude down on the floor in a headlock and I noticed he was using one of his fingers to gently 'tap, tap, tap' on my crotch. I let him go and even though I knew what was going on I didn't mention it and that was the end of it that night.

    The next weekend I ran into him in the bar again. He asked me if I wanted to go back to his apartment again and get stoned. I was a major pothead back then and said 'sure".. I kinda knew he was gonna hit on me but I figured I could handle it. Plus, I wasn't about to pass up on that awesome weed he had. As we got stoned, finally he told me he wanted to suck my dick. I told him 'no' and that I wasn't gay. He said he wasn't either, that he was bisexual. THEN he began to insist that I was also!! He said 'that he could just tell'...I explained to him that no I wasn't, I had a girlfriend and was straight. He kept insisting I was!....."gaydar" is bullshit.....Again, that was the end of it.

    The next weekend, same thing--bar, drunk, let's go get stoned. This time in addition to the beer and weed, he offered me some Valium. I was like "sure"... He handed me this pill which was FOUR of those round valiums with the V cut out of the middle of it--all somehow glued together to make one pill. I was like "naw, dude what are you trying to do--kill me?"... But, stoner that I was, I did take two of them..And with the 12 or 15 beers already ingested, the weed, and the valium, I proceeded to pass out pretty quickly.

    Next thing I knew--I woke up the next morning, in his bed with him. I still had my pants on but my shirt was missing...I got up quickly, hungover as fuck, and left...My butthole was not sore so I don't think he went there. I have always used a vibrator or something akin while masturbating so I know my butt..Didn't feel like anything had been up it. Now whether he tried to blow me or not, I don't know. But as fucked up as I was, and I WAS majorly drunk--if he did try while I was unconscious, I sincerely doubt my dick was in any kind of working order. But--who knows? Luckily this was in like the early 80's and AIDS hadn't really came around yet.

    About a month later he moved away to California...A few months later I heard he had commited suicide....I felt bad for the guy, but really doubted my experience with him had anything to do with it. Surely he must have had more problems than just some long haired stoner dude who wouldn't have sex with him.....

    But I sure missed that killer weed he always had.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    Seems nobody is gonna reply...

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    I didn't really think they would.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    I am mostly straight.....I have by choice.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    Once I tried when I was younger to have sex with a bud of mine, we had no idea what we were doing so nothing happened.
    The on multiple occasions I would get offers to get my dick sucked butt I always turned it down. Kuz the guys were know for sleeping around otherwise I prob would of let them / maybe other things. I still find myself getting off to the idea but can't stand gay porn at all.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    No.
    Just a little fantasy.

    I will sometimes while flying enjoy anal stimulation and imagine being gay.
    I'll occasionally, when in the mood, swallow my semen and imagine the same.

    I suppose I'm 98% straight and 2% gay.
    Being married I'll never cheat on my spouse. Certainly not with a guy.
    My wife and I have shared out never-to-be fantasies in bed.

    Just fanciful sex talk.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    No, never and will never happen either

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    When I was a teen I often masturbated with a friend of mine. On the guarantee of anonymity, I'll tell you: yes I watched his cock cumming a few times.
    I also fingered my ass a few times. Made me cum, but I'm not really attracted. I think there's nothing really to worry about trying. It's ok.
    Watched a few gay porn... bleah. I also got hooked by a few gay dudes... bleah.
    I have tried and I can say I have no interest in homosexuality. Which is very unfortunate, considering my luck with the other sex!

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    Yeah, I remember a couple of times, when I was a kid, me and this friend of mine would go up in my treehouse and jack off together. I had this kinda bunkbed in my treehouse and one of us would be on the top bunk while the other would be on the bottom bunk.. So we never actually saw each other doing it. I wasn't even old enough to have cum at that time. But I remember as I would "orgasm" I would say "It's working!!" and begin to giggle wildly!!

    My friend would just tell me to shut up!! LOL.

    Once we were through we would just go about our business of playing army or cowboys and indians or what have you.

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    I guess, now that really think about it, my first experience like that was when I was about 4 years old. I had this boy sleeping over. I didn't even know him--he was just the kid of one of my parent's friends. Somehow we got into one of those 'you show me yours and I will show you mine' type deals...I hadn't even dropped my testicles at that point..But he was a year or two older than me and I remember him telling me something REALLY wierd. He said he couldn't wait until Christmas because he was getting a pocket knife. He told me he once he got the pocket knife, he was going to cut his "footballs" off... I had no idea what he was talking about.

    Then he turned it into a "I'll put yours in my mouth if you'll put mine in your mouth"..I was only 4 years old and he was maybe 5 or 6. I remember he went first and, yeah, it felt good in his mouth. But he only did it for about 5 seconds. Then it was my turn..I did it and and his little one inch wee wee felt all squiggly and tasted yuchy...I was a REALLY picky eater as a child, so if it didn't taste like candy or hamburgers and french fries, it pretty much made me gag... So I didn't like it and quickly withdrew.

    And as Forrest Gump would say--"that's all I have to say about that".....
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    When I was 5 we had a little pup tent in the back yard. I would go in there with some.kids next door. Whoever was "it" would lay down with their head sticking out the opening to watch out for our parents. The kids inside would pull down our shorts and touch, or kiss what ever.they wanted. It was a co-ed group.

    My boy/boy experience happened a few years later. He would lay beside me, and I would grab his cock and pretend I was driving a race car, and his dick was the gearshift. Then he would.pretend I wrecked the car, and he would get on his hands and knees and I would get under him like working on the car, and the jack would fall and his cock would end up in my face. Then I would take it in my mouth and suck on it.

    I don't remember our exact age, but he was 3yrs older and was getting pubic hair, but I didn't yet.

    I.do remember that I really liked playing with his cock with my hands and in my mouth.

    One would think that I would have.turned out gay because of how.young I had these experiences, but I have never had any other interactions with any other male.

    I.do fantasize about feminine shemale cocks, but NEVER a guys cock. I would really like to be deep kissing a hot looking girl, and fondling her tits and at the same time feeling my cock tangling up with her cock.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    I am gay and there have been two instances where i have fooled around with straight guys. there was never any penetration below the waist, but oral sex was given and received. and straight porn was involved.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    I would like to try at least once just to be curious... I already tried with my girlfriend toy and I liked it so why not with a guy ??
    But I am looking for a boy like me ...lol that's very hard to find with shaved sex little "muscled"..as we see in movie would be good !

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    The idea of making out with any guy is not even a curiosity for me personally.

    I can't watch guy on guy porn, and even get grossed out when 2 guys kiss in a movie or tv show.

    But I am obsessed with playing with my own cock, so the thought of touching, stroking, sucking a cock is very arousing to me. But if I was going to do that, I would want to have a full sex session, including, but not limited to, kissing, fondling titties, sucking/licking body parts, etc.

    There is no guy I can ever imagine doing that with. SO...It would have to be a super hot "chick with a dick". Hence my obsession with the shemale thread.

    Ok...let me add a disclaimer...I just started imagining a scenario....a MMF 3-way. Even a triangle 69. A guy eating my wife's pussy, her sucking my dick, and me sucking the guys cock. That sounds arousing. Then there is titties and a chick for me to kiss. But I wouldn't want the guys cock in my ass...I might jack him off some while my wife straddles his face. I could suck on her tits at the same time.

    SO, I can see some fun with a guy in that scenario, but not one on one.
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    I agree. I think if I was to ever actually go that way, I would probably have to do some shemale stuff first...Just to get me used to having sex with a real dick, because I've never actually done that before. I often fantasize about it, and it gets me hornier-n-hell, but I've never really gone all the way with a real dick (other than my own).

    You'll notice I say 'dicks' and not 'guys'.. I'm still not really into watching guys. I like watching cocks and asses, and I luuuuuv me some good cumshots, but I don't get off on seeing the guys' faces, or them kissing at all..That's why I love the compilation vids..Just show me big dicks sliding into round asses, and lots and lots of jizz!!...That, I can most definately get off on...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spalector View Post
    I agree. I think if I was to ever actually go that way, I would probably have to do some shemale stuff first...Just to get me used to having sex with a real dick, because I've never actually done that before. I often fantasize about it, and it gets me hornier-n-hell, but I've never really gone all the way with a real dick (other than my own).

    You'll notice I say 'dicks' and not 'guys'.. I'm still not really into watching guys. I like watching cocks and asses, and I luuuuuv me some good cumshots, but I don't get off on seeing the guys' faces, or them kissing at all..That's why I love the compilation vids..Just show me big dicks sliding into round asses, and lots and lots of jizz!!...That, I can most definately get off on...
    I agree with the first comment, but I RARELY watch porn. And I REALLY don't care for cumshots/facials AT ALL!!!

    I prefer high quality photos of attractive women, or shemales. Prefer lesbian sex scenes over str8. Don't care about pics of penetration, unless its girls with strap-ons or toys.

    I have some deeply hard core fantasies about very feminine shemales and their cocks, but I do not care for watching hard core porn.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    Playing with dildos, watching gay porn and gay text chat are as far as i`ve gone.

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    Bravo, this brilliant idea is necessary just by the way

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    No, and I don't think I ever will. Nothing against it but its just not how I roll. But your story did give me a good reason to never do valium

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    Based on some of the comments, I would say I'm also in that category of being 95% straight, but I have nothing against being gay. Gay porn doesn't really turn me on, but dicks do. My own is amazing and fun, and playing with it myself is what I would call "auto-sexual". Being turned on by my own cock, while being turned on by hot female porn, shemales are also attractive to me. It's seems like a natural. I just want the dick, but with a porn-star body and face.

    I'm curious how many of you have been with a shemale? I have three times, and it was incredible, particularly the last two. The first was a normal daily life event, a shemale actually flirted with me and picked me up in my apartment parking lot. We went up stairs and fooled around. The other two were shemale escorts, and were both porn star hot. One was asian, and the other was white, with an L.A. porn-star type body. Very similar to Kimber James, and with magenta red hair. I have no interest in being a bottom, but I will play with cock, and I love anal sex, so I would say this is as close to perfect as you can get. Also, they know how cock should feel, so their oral skills are spectacular.

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    No, period.

    Quote Originally Posted by ryfleman1992 View Post
    No, and I don't think I ever will. Nothing against it but its just not how I roll. But your story did give me a good reason to never do valium
    I LOLed.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    I'm bi, so I've had plenty of gay experiences. I just wanted to comment on this thread to say that the OP's story is freaking terrifying.

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    I have never been attracted to men of any kind, and even though I respect people's right to choice - actually seeing the act grosses me out.
    On the other hand, I can perfectly admire a beautiful cock. I think I could probably have sex with a clone of myself, if that were an option. Since it is not, dildos are a fine replacement.

    I've only seen a couple of shemales that were passable enough for me to remotely consider, but I think it will never go further than considering. There are just too many things that would remind me it's a guy (aside from the cock).
    I dig futanari (dickgirl) comics, but that's pure fantasy obviously and in a totally different realm. These are really girls, just with cocks :P Not males pretending to be or feeling they are girls.

    My closest real life experience was when my friend (back when we were both severely under age) offered me money if I'd let him penetrate. I said no, but another friend took him up on it.

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    Not in my adult life but as a prepubescent I used to do sleep overs with a guy down the street who was five years older than me and we used to jack each other off. Or actually I should say I used to jack him off since I didn't have cum yet. I'm straight but that being my introduction to sex has had an effect on my fantasy life. I love to watch shemale porn, gay doesn't do it for me although I have jacked off to a couple scenes. I love to fantasize about sucking shemale cock and have a favorite fantasy about licking a pussy while a big hard cock pumps in and out of it. I'd let it slide out of the pussy and into my mouth and let the guy throat fuck me, then put it back into the pussy and repeat, ending with a big cum shot on the pussy and my face. Weird that I have these cock sucking fantasy's since it never happened as a little kid, but I also fantasize about jacking off a big hard dick. The fantasy is always either just a cock or a cock attached to a shemale, never a guy, with the exception of Peter North, I'd love to suck him off!

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    must admit that I have a cock fetish. Wanking guys off is something i've enjoyed since school, but have never wanted sex with a man! Been with women all my life but still get off with guys and happy to admit it! I reckon lots of guys would like to try mutual wanking but are too afraid to admit it. Being just your average 6 incher, getting my hands on something really big is a huge turn on. Seeing a 9 incher in the flesh is staggering.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clarence View Post
    must admit that I have a cock fetish. Wanking guys off is something i've enjoyed since school, but have never wanted sex with a man! Been with women all my life but still get off with guys and happy to admit it! I reckon lots of guys would like to try mutual wanking but are too afraid to admit it. Being just your average 6 incher, getting my hands on something really big is a huge turn on. Seeing a 9 incher in the flesh is staggering.
    You married or have gf? They ever help you jerk a guy off? That would be hot! Maybe teach you to give a bj

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    The older (and hopefully wiser) I get the more laid back I get about sexuality. I'm able to recognize the aversion I felt when I was younger over the possibility of same sex contact was 100% society's conditioning. Guys are taught that it's a direct threat to their manhood and go to stupid fucking lengths to not do anything that could be 'perceived' as gay. It's one thing to just not be into guys sexually, and other to buy into the fake revulsion we get programed to feel at the thought of it.

    I love women. Not just their bodies, but the whole erotic female energy. But like James Dean once said, "I'm not gay, but I'm not going to go through life with one arm tied behind my back." I think that's a pretty good way of looking at it.

    For me, in general I'm not sexually attracted to men. I do however find some things about other men at the very least sexually interesting. For one, just the fact that men have a cock same as me, makes me relate to them sexually. I have no problem jerking off with a guy, it's just male bonding for me. Because most guys worry something like that would be labeled as gay , it's not something that happens often.
    And one experience I've had is my friends dad is a retired massage therapist who has his old massage table set up in their basement. He's given me free massages to work out insane knots I get in my muscles when I'm training hard. He's my friends 60 something year old dad...I have NO sexual attraction to him whatsoever. But when I'm laying there naked on the massage table while he's working his massage magic and I have hands all over my body, I got hard as a rock. The first time I turned over and had a boner I was mortified he'd think I was a perv, but when he saw I was trying to cover it up he said not to be embarrassed and we just never talked about it after that. But I'm not going to lie, the whole experience felt so good, I would have enjoyed the hell out of it if he massaged my dick too. Of course that never happened, but I would be open for some guy doing that to me in the future.
    Point is, sometimes you find yourself in situations that you never in a million years would have thought to be erotic, why stress over it.
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    I did have a homosexual relationship about ten years ago. About ten years ago, I ran into an old high school teacher that had retired and was working as a salesman in a local retail store. He talked about spanking an old student when he was a teacher. As I have a strong spanking fetish, after I mentioned this, he invited me to his house. We soon fell into a regular routine where, about once every two months, I would visit him. I would strip completely and he would bring out his old paddle, and spank me mercilessly for about a half hour while I touched my toes or bent over a chair. I would get a throbbing erection, which really turned him on. He would then finger my anus, which gave me an even harder erection, and after a while would start fondling my penis until I came. Our relationship continued like this for about two years until he moved out of state. I, much to his disappointment, never even touched his penis, although he urged me to fondle and suck it every time. I would tell him that I was a "bad boy" and he would paddle me even harder! He would leave welts that lasted for days!
    And I'm sure it drove him crazy that I allowed him to finger me but not fuck me.
    I often think about those times while flying and have huge orgasms!

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    Well I have an odd story, when I was 25 I found myself in a hotel room giving head to a guy. That was that, just one experience and I'm glad I had it even though I think that I was spiked.

    I was visiting from afar and had booked a hotel, went out to see some old friends one of who is gay. He had a gay friend that I met for the first time and was having friendly chats with him over the course of the night. Anyway, he also came from afar and had booked the same hotel so at the end of a night and after some drinks we go back to the hotel and into the bar just before it shut for one last drink. I needed to go off to the washroom and am convinced to this day that he did something to my drink, I can't quite explain what happened to me but it felt like time had slowed down and I was really in a daze. He asked if he could come into my room and I just had this 'whatever' attitude and then he asked if I *really* wanted him to go. I'd not had any sex or affection in about 8 years and I just felt curious and excited at the idea of doing something crazy. I'd grown jealous of so many friends who have had partners most of their lives as opposed to me that really missed out on any sexual experimentation so I liked the idea of doing something they hadn't experience. It felt like an easy decision.

    We just laid in bed, tried kissing but I didn't like it. He gave me head but I don't remember it feeling amazing, I think my mind was just thinking about the situation more and wasn't able to think about the sensations. I gave him head which was the most enjoyable part of it. None of us came. I just got tired out, I think I may have actually zoned out or something. Then he said he was going to leave after a while, not in an angry way. Just a bit awkward.

    Since then I did get into a straight relationship which I loved but it only lasted two years. I know that I'm straight and 100% could never kiss or have sex with a man but even now I do think about trying to find a guy that I relate to and trust for mutual masturbation only. It's so much easier to find a guy willing to give you a BJ than a woman in my experience of looking online which is the only place I'm comfortable with approaching strangers. Like on craigslist you have 100s of guys every week looking for this kinda stuff where as women there will be about 6 and some of them will be fake. I read somewhere else the other week 'A mouth is a mouth, you can't tell the different between a man and a woman's mouth' in regards to BJs and that has stuck with me. I don't know, I think in a sane world this would be socially ok

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    I have a few times masturbated with another guy. Nothing much else tried oral couple times. Will not do anal. That's where I draw the line. Iam more into masturbating

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    Once did a threesome with an Indian girl and her husband. We did the whole gamut, spitroasting, DP then tried two in at once. Naturally this meant cock to cock, to which I was not averse. His cock was slimmer than mine but same length. We fucked rhythmically until I shot my load. He didn't come but asked me to wank him in her face, which I obliged. Must admit it was an OK experience but no desire to fuck or kiss the guy. However I did suck him back hard again and we spitroasted the wife for a second time. Not put me off and we are trying again this month. Oh! forgot to mention just 100 an hour but goes on longer if they enjoy themselves!!

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    I use anal stimulation a lot. Tried the range from cucumbers to cock shaped dildos, butt plugs, anal beads, naughty boy vibes and prostate massagers. For me having a big dildo fill me up makes my cock pulse and throb. Nothing like the experience of it sliding out of your arse then pushing it slowly up as your cock throbs away. Five minutes of this and I can explode hands free. Once had an escort fuck my ass whilst he sucked and wanked me off. As I came to orgasm I really got her to pound my arse. I shot spunk right over the bed head onto the wall. It was an astounding experience. Next time we are going for the strap on, me on my back and her fucking and wanking me off. Mind you the arse needs good preparation and a lot of finger work to get it receptive for a real pounding. I do this with a realistic butt plug under my pants for an hour and just keep it in there whilst I carry on my usual work. Needless to say I do work at home. I thoroughly recommend anal stimulation but do I want another guy to put his cock in there. NO WAY a shemale however, now that might be different. As long as there's tits and no beard!!!!!

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    Me and my best friend Mike (24 and 23 respectively) have "played with each other" a few times when we were drunk and had nothing else to do. Nothing major like butt sex or anything.

    We had seen each other naked a few times before (like coming out of the shower or in the locker room or something), but never saw each other's boner. One time, I saw him coming out of the shower with what looked like an obvious stiffie. I asked him if he was jerking it in the shower and smiled and said no comment. We started off just talking about sex, which led to dick size jokes, which led to truth or dare comparing dicks (at this point we have now both seen each other's boners), which led to watching porn, which led to jerking off together. Then at some point we graduated to giving each other hand jobs. I've jerked him off before until he blasted a load, and he tried to do me, but I couldn't cum, so I just ended up doing myself. It's happened probably about 3 or 4 times. Not sure why because neither of us has ever had any desire to do more than that, and to be honest we eventually lost interest. But neither of us is embarrassed to admit that we handled each others dicks at one point. Still close friends, but not THAT close, lol.

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    one of my fantasies is to have a tranny fuckbuddy

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    I've gotten plenty of offers, but no. Unless being in the presence of a homosexual act counts, in which case yes; I've had FFM threesomes a few times and the ladies were on a couple of occasions doing just fine without my direct involvement.

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    No interest, never tried anything, but good on those of you who have tried! I work with a decent number of LGBT people, so...

    If you want to fuck a transwoman, here are some pointers. If you know a transwoman, unless they have said that they want to fuck you, they probably don't want to jump straight into bed. You are going to have to develop a relationship with her the same as you would any other person, and if you just want to have the experience of being with a transwoman, do her a favor, go a different route. Nobody wants to just be a checkmark on a bucket list. If you are looking for a relationship, condoms or get tested before fluid bonding.

    If you go to a gay bar, and say you are a straight guy that wants to try sex with a gay guy, you will get laid. You are a fetish for some of the guys there, the same way lesbians wanting to try a guy are for a lot of men. If you go and look to pick up a transwoman, that may be a bit harder. Not all bars will be trans friendly, and transwomen at a lesbian bar probably aren't looking for a guy. Try grindr or some kind of online matchmaker. Expect to have to meet a person to be checked out first. Transwomen have good reason to be paranoid about violence against them.

    Trans people have serious problems finding good paying, stable jobs, and many go into sex work to support themselves, which is why you see so many trans escorts and amateur porn stars. "Bottom" surgery is really expensive unless you have insurance and live in a state that requires insurance to cover it, and many escorts tell themselves that they will only do sex work until they can afford their surgery, so they can get their real life started. You can probably guess how easy it is for a sex worker to save up 15k or so, on top of living expenses. Lots of them end up on drugs. Use a fucking condom, oral and anal. Gonorrhea and chlamydiae can infect the throat, rectum and genitalia.

    I wouldn't be comfortable with having a one night stand with a pre-bottom surgery transwoman, but I'm not a once night stand person, anyway. I would consider this person to be a woman, and not a man, so I wouldn't think of it as gay sex, but my arsehole is a chrysler, as in it is equipped with hemis, so I'm not receiving any anal any time soon. I'm also too girthy to be giving to anybody that isn't used to receiving. Oral... would be odd.

    I have a friend who has started transitioning MTF, she really doesn't like being treated as every guy's secret guilty fantasy. The week after she came out, a dozen guys asked if they could fuck her, even though the only thing that had changed was the name she was using, her pronouns, and she bought some pink T-shirts and a trans pride bracelet. Its a year before she will even be able to start hormones. It was kind of fucked up. Unless you have a transwoman in your life already that is up for fun, don't just suggest sex unless you want to lose a friend or really piss off a person who probably has enough shit to deal with already. She is 95% lesbian, and only likes smart guys, so the guys that just said, "Shemale? Let's fuck!" never had a chance.

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    Not a chance. I would do whatever with guy standing besides, but not directly with him...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Homersexual View Post
    I've gotten plenty of offers, but no. Unless being in the presence of a homosexual act counts, in which case yes; I've had FFM threesomes a few times and the ladies were on a couple of occasions doing just fine without my direct involvement.
    I don't think that qualifies, lol.

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    I wonder if there is any truth to this:


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    I love the Kinsey scale. I believe that sexuality is a very fluid spectrum (same with gender) and very few people are really on the extreme ends.

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    NOPE, NEVER have NEVER WILL!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahLIFE View Post
    I love the Kinsey scale. I believe that sexuality is a very fluid spectrum (same with gender) and very few people are really on the extreme ends.
    Spectrum on gender? On a biological level it's pretty cut and dry....XX or XY, but you are probably referring to societal norms and gender identity roles along with psychological facets.

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    I've jerked with a guy friend of mine. Usually after a big drinking night. Mutual hand jobs too, a little oral; give and recieved. Some minor ass play but not that much. Straight porn magazines were laying around too. It was fun! We didn't really mention it when sober.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeffytomato View Post
    Spectrum on gender? On a biological level it's pretty cut and dry....XX or XY, but you are probably referring to societal norms and gender identity roles along with psychological facets.

    I'm talking about gender as a social construct, rather than your chromosomal fact. Nobody can see chromosomes in real life, but you can see how you present yourself in the world (male or female or somewhere inbetween or both or whatever). We have pretty strict rules on what men/women do/don't do, and I think that these are fairly regularly negotiated by individuals on an unconscious level, so that sometimes they'll do more boy-like things and sometimes they'll do more girl-like things even though they're supposed to be one "gender."

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    XX and XY aren't the whole story on their own, although these scenarios are rare.

    There is a very small section on the Y chromosome called the SRY region that has to be turned on during development of the embryo, or the embryo will develop along a female body plan (sterile, often with ovaries that are little more than streaks of tissue, other birth defects may be present). If the SRY is damaged, not present, the signal isn't sent, or is blocked, you have an XY carrying female body person. Jaime Lee Curtis is rumored to be such a person, but this is just another urban legend that got attached to a celebrity.

    If, in the rare case, the SRY region ends up on an X chromosome and is activated, the body develops along a male body plan (sterile, presenting similar to, but not exactly like Klinefelter's syndrome). This person would be an XX carrying male body person.

    Physical sex, being born penis having vs vagina having can be disconnected from chromosomes with a bit of difficulty, but gender is a different story as SarahLIFE described.

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    Default Re: Any straight guys ever had any kind of homosexual experience?

    it strange but me to i would like to try it only once just to satisfy my curiosity even if im full straight

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    Quote Originally Posted by harry7 View Post
    I would like to try at least once just to be curious... I already tried with my girlfriend toy and I liked it so why not with a guy ??
    But I am looking for a boy like me ...lol that's very hard to find with shaved sex little "muscled"..as we see in movie would be good !
    it strange but me to i would like to try it only once just to satisfy my curiosity even if im full straight

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    Quote Originally Posted by OzzyOzz View Post
    NOPE, NEVER have NEVER WILL!!!!
    This. Only this.

 

 

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