I'm not a FL owner (potentially am one), but I'm curious about two things.
#1 how was your experience in suggesting the purchase of a flesh light to your girl? Hesitant, annoyed, threatened, etc? Or did you find the reverse is true? I'm married 7 years now and we have good sex, so I don't want her thinking I'm unhappy with her (she's quite hot- but I'm frequently more horny than she's in the mood for). Anyone feel the same, and / or how did you talk about it?
#2 I'm worried that buying and using a flesh light will diminish real sex with my wife, in the sense that the flesh light will probably be tighter around my cock than my wifes pussy is. I love fucking her but I could see how the FL would potentially be tighter and therefore make the real thing somehow less grand. I'd be mortified if I got a flesh light and realized it makes my real experiences inferior, even if just subtly.
#3 And for a more abstract question... Psychologically speaking, what effect does the purchase of a FL have on a marriage in the long run? Dynamics, etc? I don't want to look too hard for the faults in something like this because I can see the potential for lots of enjoyment on my part, but seeing as how sexual relationships are often fragile in the sense that small things make a big difference in female "mood"... I wonder how this would play a part for good or ill.
I know this is a community of mostly FL owners, so I'm especially curious to hear your thoughts. Many thanks!