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    Default Would You Date A Porn Star?

    I was just thinking about this. I am in between about it but I think I would, Would you ever want a long term relationship with a porn star?
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    Possibly. It is certainly a tough question, and would depend on various factors, I think. For example, an ex/retired one? Sure, no problem. A lot of people never really know their partners sexual history anyway, and they may well have been with hundreds of people, so I don't really see the difference. I suppose it may be difficult if I had seen porn of them, as it may lead to thinking about the horse sized guys they've been with and such, but ultimately...

    If they're a nice person that I would go for in the first place, sure, why not. History is history. I could overlook it all if it was somebody I was happy with. And since I don't watch porn there's no chance of me recognising anybody anyway.

    Now, if they were still working in the industry, I may not be able to handle that. But again, it depends. I'm a pretty tolerant person so I could probably deal with it. May also help that the sex industry pays incredibly well (or I would hope porn stars are paid nearly as well as strippers and escorts, because I've had a few friends in those industries and they make a mint) -- having a "sugar momma" of sorts, being a woman who gets paid a lot more than I do, would be acceptable in some circumstances.

    But really, it comes down to how I feel about them, not what they do or their history.

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    ....I'm sorry, I just don't think I could do it... Have sex with--yes, but have a relationship with--probably not. ..I don't think I could handle it....I'm not saying it can't happen between two people--but I just don't think I personally could deal with it.

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    Im gonna say no. I kinda big on monogamy, so her getting banged every so often by jacked dudes would kinda mess with me after a while.

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    I vote maybe. It would really depend on how things go. I would certainly be willing to give it a try (a great woman is a great woman, after all). My main concerns would be this: the inherent risks involved in having multiple sexual partners, who in turn have numerous sexual partners, not just to her, but to me. Also, it could really only work if she sees porn as a job, and not the same as an intimate, romantic relationship. A job she may thoroughly enjoy, but still just a job. And besides, it could provide some great inspiration for stuff to do/try.
    And, instead of having to guess what previous guys have done, and try to do better, I'd have access to full visual records

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    Yes I probably date women like Tori Black or Samantha Saint... but I would not even consider a relationship or marriage. The dating would not last more than a year; just do it just to experience and a friend-with-benefits

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    I have read something on a german news magazine, it was something like a little report about porn babes. I now googled the report in english and I hope, ILF allows me to share the link. If now, please just remove it.

    http://neuroskeptic.blogspot.de/2012/11/are-porn-stars-happier.html

    I think, i would date a porn babe, yes, but i don´t know it i could stay cool enough with the knowlage, she is getting fucked by several guys (i don´t wanna go into details what happens at the set, we all know...) and i just gonna be "one of many". But if she were a retired babe, i might think more positive about it.

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    I most definitely would... especially if it were either Stoya or Kayden Kross. I have no problem with what they do for a living. Most of these adult movie stars have girlfriends or boyfriends inside the industry, who may also be adult movie stars. Most of these stars retire at a younger age, so it isn't like they are going to work the industry until they are very old. Some do, but as a norm, they are like fashion models in an industry where after a certain age, they become too old or fall from glamor replaced by new and younger models. I use one of my all-time favorite adult stars (who also happens to be my age), Asia Carrerra as an example. Asia also has two children and is happily married.

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    Are you sure, she is happily married ? By my information, her husband died in 2006 and Asia had an alcohol problem afterwards
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    Really? I hadn't heard that, but I only read it in a bio that may have been out of date. If this is so, I'm really sorry to hear that. Damn, that is rough all around.

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    Holly Michaels please!

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    Quote Originally Posted by secretsexpoet View Post
    Really? I hadn't heard that, but I only read it in a bio that may have been out of date. If this is so, I'm really sorry to hear that. Damn, that is rough all around.
    Have a look at Wikipedia, thats were i got that information from.

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    If she'd quit porm for the time she's with me - YES, why not?
    But I'd never do it if she's not willing to quit.


    The most fucked up example imo is Eva Angelina!
    She got married a couple of months ago.
    OK, her husband is an actor too, but she started to do gangbangs and all that extreme stuff after she got married.
    Can't understand those shit! Married for what??

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    Good point SRL. Date...yes. Marry...probably not. To each his or her own, but I still believe in the sanctity of marriage.

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    I would probably want her to quit porn, but I'm prepared to accept it as long as she's able to separate porn from an actual loving relationship. She would have to understand that I can't fuck her for a whole hour going as fast as I can. I'd want to know her as a real woman instead of all the shit I see her do on screen & I'd want to connect with her on a deep level. I'd marry a porn star for sure as long as we could establish a strong bond.

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    If she is my favorite porn-star and it is a one time date, like the event they are having on the FL-site, maybe. I'd like to know her and ask questions and stuff.
    But if it is a long term relationship or marriage, even if she quit her job, I'd have a hard time to accept her as a plain woman other than a porn-star.

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    Addendum: I would definitely date a porn star who had the good sense to tell off any of the guys who say something to the effect of "she'd have to quit porn."

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    Working porn actress: No,i dont need every STD under the moon and HIV,no thanks.

    ex porn actress: fook yes,YES,YES,YES!!!!!!imagine the sex,oh holy fook!YES

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    Yes, definitely yes! I'd absoutely try an experience like that, I think that's my secret dram, working in that world and having a relationship with someone in that world, I'f I only lived in LA *___*

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    Yes, if I were still single. I dated a coue stripers in my 20's. never bothered me that they showed their bodies for a living. One made a lot of money because she occasionally did "extra" on the side. It was fun. I watched a few times and joined in on several occasions. The sex was awesome and neither of us was in it for the long term

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    Quote Originally Posted by grumpyelf View Post
    Yes, if I were still single. I dated a coue stripers in my 20's. never bothered me that they showed their bodies for a living. One made a lot of money because she occasionally did "extra" on the side. It was fun. I watched a few times and joined in on several occasions. The sex was awesome and neither of us was in it for the long term
    dancers are great,luv to date one.
    but pornstars are nearly more like to get an sti or hiv than escorts...they get fooked by multiple guys,multiple times and 99% of the time directors say no condoms.they get sti checks every 3 weeks but most dont and hiv and stis are rampant in the industry...

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    Who wouldn''t like to date a pornstar? But on the other hand, it would be like entering the World Championship of fucking and you'd be playing in the minor leagues. ;-)

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    No. It wouldn't even matter if they were active or inactive. It's the baggage. Don't most of them date or marry other pornstars anyway? And even then there are still crazy stories about their "relationships."

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    I will have a date with a porn star if she will "ask me nicely"))))) and it would be better if she would "asked" me a couple times before date and a couple of times after, LOL
    All professions are important, all professions are needed! LOL

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    Some of the old School porn stars HELL YES (You dont have to train them) LOL just once i wished a women came up with the (Sex event's for the night) The last time i was seduced i was 15 and will be forty to damn soon LOL

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    Well, married and happy already, so no, but hypothetically totally! Why wouldn't I? Just a job like any other, plus she's probably great as sex.

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    As long as I don't fall in love with her, I could date a pornstar. I would think the sex must be incredible, innovative, & plentiful.

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    I would so date a male porn star.. I'd love to be on set and everything. I don't get bothered by that it's a huge turn on to watch sex happen plus their skills would be on par.

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    Apologies for a little thread necro, but it's still on the front page, so meh.

    Not that I'm an expert on the porn industry, but I have read some articles written by people in the industry about working in it. Obviously, I take them as experiences, not as facts, but they seem to run counter to a lot of the expectations in this thread.

    First, I suspect that people in the industry tend to date/marry in the industry specifically because of the hesitations many express in this thread. It's hard to take a naive person and make them understand what you feel and think about your work experience in this kind of situation or get them to be ok with it. Second, I don't think porn stars would translate to an awesome in-bed experience. From what I've read, shooting porn is long and hard. I assume some people enjoy it, but it involves a lot of awkward and uncomfortable poses to make us enjoy it. The sex they have is sex for us, not for them. While I'm sure there are some real orgasms, I assume the vast majority of female orgasms are faked. Their enjoyment, all around, is secondary or maybe further removed from what they're doing.

    With all of that said, would I date a porn star? I think it's the wrong question. I wouldn't mind if I dated a woman who was one, but I wouldn't seek one out. I could date, have sex with, and marry her while she was in the industry, if she was the right woman for me. I don't see any point in dating if you aren't pursuing a lasting relationship. Having sex and fun is fine and all, but it isn't dating to me. I don't expect the sex to be more awesome than a normal person of equivalent fitness level, but I would expect her to be very capable of performing fantasies that add to the experience. I don't have any qualms about her having sex with other men (in the context of her occupation) as long as sex is sex and she is up front about her occupation. Marriage and partnership are not sex. I don't think I could watch any of her porn. While I'm ok with the concept of her having sex with other men, I'm not sure I'd be able to watch it or enjoy it if I did.

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    I know this is an old thread but i'm going to answer it anyway. Yes I would date a porn star if I truly liked him. After all I dated a stripper and didn't care that he was a stripper(different jobs I know but some what comparable), hell I met him at my sisters bachelorette party so going in to it I knew what he did. Ya I had a moments pause about getting involved with him but ultimately I said screw it I really clicked with him. Which I'm glad I did as we were happily together for over a year and when we did split it had nothing to do with his job. With him sex was never about sex, it was about the touch, the kiss, the forplay.

    My point is that expecting great sex because they are a porn star is setting your self up for disappointment as most likely sex outside of work(porn) for them is completely different.

    Bottom Line a porn star is just a person who happens to do sex work for a living, so if I truly clicked with a guy and he happened to do porn I'd be ok with it. Assume we were monogamous outside of his work.

 

 

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