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    Default Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I also asked this in the ladies lounge, but activity seems low there, so I thought I'd try here too

    My husband and I have really enjoyed our FL and the time we spend with it. We've acted as though we're having a threesome with it and have enjoyed it more than I ever thought we would.

    Buying this has opened up a lot of doors/questions for both of us. The biggest topic being, would we actually have a threesome. I'm not in any way sexually attracted to women, but I do find some women attractive. My husband however, is very much attracted to women I do have a fantasy of him and another woman in our relationship, the thought of him having sex with someone else is very erotic and after talking about it, something we both are comfortable with doing. I told him I have to be involved to make this work, that I don't want him to leave me out or isolate me from any form of person to person sex without my permission.

    We have NO idea where to even look to have a threesome. Have any of you had a threesome with two ladies and one guy? He isn't open to the idea of bringing in a second guy and I really don't care either way, but prefer to fulfill his fantasies.

    If you had a threesome, how did it turn out in the end? Did it ruin your marriage, bring you closer, make you jealous? I don't know how to gauge all of this quite yet. I've been private messaging with some other users who have great suggestions, but I'm open and looking for more.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I had it both ways. I had the two girls and one guy (me) and two guys and one girl (a husband and wife with me). With that being said, I would suggest a bit of caution here. My experience is that one person may get jealous, and unfortunately, it is always the other person who you've brought into the mix. For me, it was the husband of the couple in which I joined. She was quite into doing it with me and having her husband watch or penetrate her from the other side, but when it was all over, he became incredibly jealous. Just be careful. You and your husband have talked at length and communicated about this thoroughly, but the other person may not know the dos and don'ts of this mix. This is to say, you and your husband should set boundaries and really communicate with this other person and make sure they know your boundaries and that it "won't turn into anything serious" and make sure they are 100% behind that. My experience is that it is always hard to bring a perfect stranger into the mix as a third wheel. The best way is to find someone you already know who might be open to it, but remember to set some rules and boundaries in the beginning.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I've had both, an MFF and a MMF. Both times happened before I was married.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I'd still like to try either MFF or MFM, just haven't had the opportunity. But yeah, I could see jealousy issues arise if all parties involved haven't completely talked it over first. Still, I'd love to try it some time.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I actually enjoyed the male/female/female better than the male/male/female. I didn't even care that the two women were going at it like mad, it was more stimulating to me watching a woman satisfy another woman. I was actually taking notes too. Keep an eye on the techniques a woman uses to please another woman. After all, she will know what pleases her, so she will emulate this activity on another woman. One thing I found is that teasing the outside of a woman's labia is far more pleasing sometimes than the actual penetration. I've actually had a woman dripping with her own juices. Well, the other woman had her really dripping with her own juices. My God I am getting hard just thinking about it.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I've already laid out some ground rules

    1.)he can't cum inside of her
    2.)No a condom has to be worn if he's penetrating her
    3.)It has to be at a hotel, I don't want it to be in our own home or her home
    4.)I don't want to go down on a girl, but she can go down on me
    5.)she leaves immediately after we're done so we can talk about it or just enjoy each other.
    6.)he cannot see her behind my back and will not engage in any sexual activity with another unless I'm there.

    He is totally fine with the ground rules and has some himself. I felt like mine were a bit harsh, but he said it all sounds fair to him, he's just aroused by the fact that I'd actually be into it. I think alcohol would also have to be involved on my part and possibly his.

    He said his biggest worry is that he wouldn't last long and wouldn't be able to enjoy the threesome, but I figured he could get off, play around a bit and we could go at it again if she was willing.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    Good set of ground rules. You should add, "Don't allow any friendship beyond the immediate sex (friendship with the other person or third wheel so to speak), and don't allow any emotional bonds to form." You tend to form emotional bonds with the ones you make love to if you allow yourself to meet, even in a group setting, in any other venue. In other words, don't have dinner or meet for drinks afterward. It should all be about business, not friendship. They are only there to take care of business and to be sexually aroused and pleased themselves. With this arrangement, they will expect to get something out of the deal as well, so don't expect the sex to be completely one-sided. I emphasize, do not allow her, you, or him to become emotionally connected in a friendship or otherwise.
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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I totally agree and she'd be gone right after everything was done so he and I could talk about what happened and maybe go another solo round

    He knows that there will be NO friendships formed and that he won't even know how to get into contact with her to approach another threesome. I'd be in charge of that if it was something I felt I could do again. I'm still weighing the pros and cons of it all. The biggest pro is seeing him so sexually happy and satisfied because of something I was a part of. The con, me getting jealous and that does scare me. I'm not a jealous person, never have been, but this one thing could possibly make me a jealous person.

    Quote Originally Posted by secretsexpoet View Post
    Good set of ground rules. You should add, "Don't allow any friendship beyond the immediate sex (friendship with the other person or third wheel so to speak), and don't allow any emotional bonds to form." You tend to form emotional bonds with the ones you make love to if you allow yourself to meet, even in a group setting, in any other venue. In other words, don't have dinner or meet for drinks afterward. It should all be about business, not friendship. They are only there to take care of business and to be sexually aroused and pleased themselves. With this arrangement, they will expect to get something out of the deal as well, so don't expect the sex to be completely one-sided. I emphasize, do not allow her, you, or him to become emotionally connected in a friendship or otherwise.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I hear you. Me and my girlfriend were actually talking to a friend, it started as a joke, but it became imaginable, to have a MMF threesome. I totally trust both of them, but I'm a little afraid it could be too much in that moment, and that somehow, there could form some bond between them, that nobody can control. I mean even if they really dont want it to happen, it still remains possible after having sex with one another I suppose...
    Naturally, I already said that if this happens, there has to be a MFF for me but thats not the impulse behind the MMF idea... its more a curiosity (I'm not going to do anything that is not straight, its curiosity for the situation) paired with the idea that its a fantasy coming true for my girlfriend. Not that she mentioned it more then 1 or 2 times before, but now she seems to like the idea. I gotta do some thinking first, to assure to myself that I wont freak out when or if it happens some day. I'm not a jealous person at all, but as you said....

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    I know what you mean. We've talked about it a lot, I really don't have the MMF fantasy at all, I'm more into the FFM myself, but I need to get past the "there could be attachments formed" out of my head. My husband said that he isn't missing anything because he doesn't know what it's like. He's very honest with me about everything. He said though ideally no attachments would be formed, he can't promise that he wouldn't or the third person wouldn't want to do it again or develop some sort of feelings. Though this goes against all the "rules" we have discussed, it's something out of his control. I'm still interested in the threesome and will probably tell him that I am still wanting to do this. I'm to the point where my curiosity is getting the better of me and I feel like I can look past any insecurities I could develop. I'm also not a jealous person, if I were, I wouldn't be on these forums, haha!

    Quote Originally Posted by zam View Post
    I hear you. Me and my girlfriend were actually talking to a friend, it started as a joke, but it became imaginable, to have a MMF threesome. I totally trust both of them, but I'm a little afraid it could be too much in that moment, and that somehow, there could form some bond between them, that nobody can control. I mean even if they really dont want it to happen, it still remains possible after having sex with one another I suppose...
    Naturally, I already said that if this happens, there has to be a MFF for me but thats not the impulse behind the MMF idea... its more a curiosity (I'm not going to do anything that is not straight, its curiosity for the situation) paired with the idea that its a fantasy coming true for my girlfriend. Not that she mentioned it more then 1 or 2 times before, but now she seems to like the idea. I gotta do some thinking first, to assure to myself that I wont freak out when or if it happens some day. I'm not a jealous person at all, but as you said....

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    Jillian.... In all honesty about the threesome thing. My first wife and I did a threesome thing with another guy, I LOVED IT even though I am straight, the watching her with another guy was a HUGE TURN ON FOR ME!!! Then she felt bad, so wanted to have a girl threesome, I told her I wasn't really wanting that, so I consented to another "Couple" foursome with another married couple. Facts to consider... My WIFE became EXTREMELY JEALOUS! Why, because the sexual chemistry between me and the other guys wife was frankly, incredible! She squirted like a fire hose, over and over and our session lasted 4 and a half hours and we were not ready to stop, but my wife at the time and the other woman's husband were done in like 10 minutes and watched movies in the living room, and popped in from time to time to see how we were making out (No Pun Intended). We then went back to just guys for her, but it was too late, the damage had been done even though I loved her with other guys and we screwed like rabbits and had awesome sex between us after the guys had left, she couldn't get over it. Eventually our marriage ended, not that it was that great to begin with. I am now remarried and would love to "Swing" with my bride, but there is no way I will do it. She is so awesome. I'd love to watch her with other men, and get seeded by them and have sloppy seconds, I don't know why but it just totally turns me on, but Dildos and Fleshlights work great with some play acting and fantasizing of our own. We have black dildos for my ultimate fantasy, and we have the one black porn star fleshlight for me, but that is as far as it goes. We have now three vagina fleshlights, 1 anal, because she isn't thrilled with anal, but tells a good story and fantasizes about with me along with the fleshlight, and one oral fleshlight for 2 on one BJ's and tit sucking. My thought is if you do the threesome thing, be careful and share your TRUE FEELINGS, both of you. Try it as a ONE TIME THING, and then discuss if you want to try it again. My recommendation is this, and frankly it's true. Fantasizing is just a hair under the real thing, and a good imagination goes a long way in how realistic it truly is. Hire a prostitute, that is my advice, nobody you know until you decide if this is a thing you want to do regularly and how you both feel about it. Good Luck.

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    Default Re: Have you ever had a threesome 2 girls, 1 guy?

    Thanks so much for the advice! We decided to wait, he said if I have doubt then we're probably not ready and he's fine with that. It's the image I'm worried about, there's no way he can go 4 hours, I'm lucky for 8 minutes. The FL has helped with that though, we're at almost 15 now

    We talked about using an escort, a friend, a friend of a friend. Option 1 seems to best fit us because we'd never have to worry about seeing her on the street or in a group of friends. I don't get jealous, but I have a feeling I could and I don't want that to be an issue in our marriage. We'll talk more and see where it leads, but for now, we have great sex, great imaginations and some fun toys. Sorry to hear your first one didn't work out, it's nice that you have great times with your current wife though. Thanks again for the advice and my husband says "lucky you" haha!

    Quote Originally Posted by UtahKeith View Post
    Jillian.... In all honesty about the threesome thing. My first wife and I did a threesome thing with another guy, I LOVED IT even though I am straight, the watching her with another guy was a HUGE TURN ON FOR ME!!! Then she felt bad, so wanted to have a girl threesome, I told her I wasn't really wanting that, so I consented to another "Couple" foursome with another married couple. Facts to consider... My WIFE became EXTREMELY JEALOUS! Why, because the sexual chemistry between me and the other guys wife was frankly, incredible! She squirted like a fire hose, over and over and our session lasted 4 and a half hours and we were not ready to stop, but my wife at the time and the other woman's husband were done in like 10 minutes and watched movies in the living room, and popped in from time to time to see how we were making out (No Pun Intended). We then went back to just guys for her, but it was too late, the damage had been done even though I loved her with other guys and we screwed like rabbits and had awesome sex between us after the guys had left, she couldn't get over it. Eventually our marriage ended, not that it was that great to begin with. I am now remarried and would love to "Swing" with my bride, but there is no way I will do it. She is so awesome. I'd love to watch her with other men, and get seeded by them and have sloppy seconds, I don't know why but it just totally turns me on, but Dildos and Fleshlights work great with some play acting and fantasizing of our own. We have black dildos for my ultimate fantasy, and we have the one black porn star fleshlight for me, but that is as far as it goes. We have now three vagina fleshlights, 1 anal, because she isn't thrilled with anal, but tells a good story and fantasizes about with me along with the fleshlight, and one oral fleshlight for 2 on one BJ's and tit sucking. My thought is if you do the threesome thing, be careful and share your TRUE FEELINGS, both of you. Try it as a ONE TIME THING, and then discuss if you want to try it again. My recommendation is this, and frankly it's true. Fantasizing is just a hair under the real thing, and a good imagination goes a long way in how realistic it truly is. Hire a prostitute, that is my advice, nobody you know until you decide if this is a thing you want to do regularly and how you both feel about it. Good Luck.

 

 

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