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    Red face Picking a Fleshlight for my Boyfriend - Suggestions?

    Gents,

    first-time post and already I require your expert knowledge: I am wondering what to get for my loveliest of lovelies.

    I should mention that this is not going to be the first Fleshlight I buy for him. He's always been very, very open-minded and supportive about my vibes and dildos. He's also the only partner of mine who has ever welcomed the inclusion of my toys into our common sex life - without feeling threatened by them, instead seeing them as additional zest, embracing them with enthusiasm. Much love to him for that.

    Much as this has always delighted me, I found it very unfair that he didn't have any toys for his enjoyment. Also, I've always had a kink for watching him touch himself, and found the idea of watching him getting himself off with a toy...inspiring. And so, upon a whim, I ordered him his first toys.

    Now, since then, my stockpile of toys has grown, and it is high time, I feel, that his assortment grew in kind. I'd like to surprise him with one (or several - depending on your suggestions) - but I need some help picking the right stuff! I like to go about all things in a very thorough manner, so please bear with me, quite some text ahead.

    I've spent some time reading through the reviews. I'd like to describe what he currently enjoys - and perhaps you can come up with some good suggestions. I'd be delighted!

    He (We ) currently owns:

    1. The Succu Dry. This is actually the one that made me buy him a toy on a whim. It was a bit of a no-brainer: He's always had a thing for vampire girls, I found the look of it just-the-right-kind-of-kinky, and the inside looked and read like it'd feel really, really good for a guy. I've asked him for his opinion (little does he know to what purpose - tee hee!): He said, his instant review would be "The name really fits." And even when I use it on him, I can feel the resistance it puts up on every upstroke, like it doesn't want to let go of his precious penis. He said, it feels extremely intense, especially with the cap closed - so much so, that during and after orgasm, he has to stay completely still inside it without moving, until he has recovered enough, or the suction when pulling out would be uncomfortable. This means, however, that it can't be used for stimulation while he is coming - which is something I would like to do with it. Overall, he said he really likes it though and is happy with it, and considers it a great choice for when he is really aroused and just wants to have that O, one that "feels like his spend is being pulled out of him". It's "almost a bit brutal" - as you'd expect from a love-hungry vampiress

    2. The Miela Mini-Lotus. From the outset on I was surprised by how much he likes this one. As I could only go by visuals, lacking the proper "equipment" on my part, I always guessed this one to be one of the less intense Fleshlights. He however said: This one he considers to be the most enjoyable. Although he feels it's almost excruciatingly tight at the entrance - so tight that even fully lubed up it is difficult to enter at first each time - the stimulation the texture provides is the best. I can attest to that from the sexy sounds he makes during use. He also feels that this one feels best to orgasm inside of. When we're using the toys on him together, he'll sometimes even ask me to switch to the Mini-Lotus for the last few strokes, because he enjoys ejaculating in it so much more than inside the others. He noted that the way it stimulates the ridge of his head, and how warm it feels are what make it so good. It does tend to get him off very, VERY quickly and with considerable intensity. Climaxing with it "feels intense and gentle at the same time", not the raw kind of intensity from the Succu Dry, but "a different kind of glowing intensity". And it actually can be used to stimulate him during orgasm, sometimes even well into a second high. (I love this about the Mini-Lotus even more than he does ).

    3. The Stoya Destroya. Now the name of this one made me wonder a bit. Do guys really want to put their most valued parts into something named "Destroya"? It seems like a strange marketing move. Judging from the majority of reviews, this seems to be considered one of the most intense models out there, which is why I'd picked it for him in the first place. He feels, though, that it's less intense than the Mini-Lotus. Like with the Mini-Lotus, the initial tightness is a bit much for him; and it took him some time to get used enough to the texture to be able to make out the different parts. He finds the stimulation a little "ticklish", but considers that "a good thing - it's different". Somewhat perplexingly, this is the one that tends to take longer to get him off than the other two. Still, he says he wouldn't want to miss it, as it adds something really different to the mix.


    Soo, what I am looking for/at:

    - I'd like some suggestions for Fleshlights that fit his existing preferences, but are different. Sound stupid? Perhaps. The point is, I want to get him something that'll mix the experience up a bit for him, but will also cater to his likes.

    - "Realism" doesn't matter. If he wants the real thing, we can do the real thing; this is about bringing new kinds of stimulation into play.

    - No anal-orifice-only Fleshlights - he really, really doesn't like the idea of anal sex. Otherwise, the orifice doesn't matter, I guess. He doesn't really care for porn stars, so it doesn't have to be any specific one. He found the Succu-Dry vampire-fanged-mouth really arousing, but otherwise prefers vaginal openings. In the end, I think, except for the reservation noted it doesn't matter.

    I've picked some prospective candidates, and I'd appreciate additional input on how well they fit with the objective outlined, so I can make my choice (no, I won't be getting all of them for him ):

    1. The Alien. It'll be hard to persuade me not to get him this one, grin. It's so kinky, and it makes me jealous...that alien girls seem to have TWO clits. Why can't I have stereo-orgasms? No fair! Also, the texture looks like it could feel really, really good, and it has the lotus thing that he seems to be so into, while offering textures not to be found in our current assortment. Thoughts? Also, some people say it's somewhat semi-translucent - translucent enough to see him move inside?

    2. The Love Humps. It seems somewhat similar to the Mini-Lotus yet really different. It looks like it might feel good in a different way from most textures - like, more gentle, as it's smooth? Reviews of this one however seem less enthusiastic, and suggest that it's more suited to hour-long sessions (see above). Thoughts?

    3. The Twista. I'll quote the reviews: "I could not believe how intense it was at the point of orgasm" and "the penis gets milked by the Fleshlight". Gulp. The penis. Gets milked. By the Fleshlight. This time I'm jealous, the other jealous: Now if only I had the parts to experience that. Can someone confirm/deny these glowing reviews? Also, some reviewers noted that this one is geared towards especially well-endowed men. Will this suit a common household size penis none the less?

    4. The Crystal/Ice. I'd LOVE to have a Fleshlight around that lets me see him move inside, and above all, lets me see him shoot inside. I would find that super hot. I've garnered some mixed information whether the Crystal/Ice will do the trick. Some say that it's not transparent enough to actually discern ejaculation. Can someone confirm/deny? (I don't even care how good the texture is, lol. If it lets me see him cum inside the thing, it's a deal)

    5. The Bi-Hive. Like the Destroya, the name gave me some pause, but hey...again, I quote the reviews: "the perfect multi textured sleeve", "I came so hard in this sleeve, my load actually squirted out the opposite end of the sleeve". Uh, er, wow. Again, can someone confirm/deny these glowing reviews? I mean, from what I can tell, it LOOKS like it would be really intense, and somewhat similar to the Destroya, which he already knows and likes. Thoughts?


    Some additional information, that seems to be of importance judging from the reviews:

    - He generally prefers a flowing, gentle, not-too-fast, slightly varied rhythm. Just like me! He's not one of those guys who need to jackhammer away to get anywhere. So, it doesn't need to be suited for relentless pounding.

    - He's, thank god, rather sensitive. Uncut. He usually comes within, I'd guess, 2-10 mins, and if it takes longer, he won't come at all. At. All. So, while he does enjoy a little bit of teasing, too much is baaad, and a Fleshlight that is made for hour-long sessions is probably not made for him.

    - I honestly have no idea about his size. Neither I nor him have ever cared enough about size to take measurements, and I don't have measuring tape (Besides, that might give away the surprise, right?) :|. I'd say, average? I know that his erection is as long as two index fingers of mine. Or, when compared to the Fleshlight case (I know because I've always tried to find out where in there "he" is lol), the head would be well past the wide berth, in the beginning of the thinner section.

    Sorry for the wall of text - and thanks for any and all help!
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    Hi and WELCOME to FLF!

    Didn't quite read your entire post yet because I notice two crucial things right off the bat;

    1) we need to know his size along with the info you have already provided about his input about the sleeves he (you ) both have. Length and girth please.

    2) sounds to me like right off the bat he's using too small of sleeves. Tight is nice, but there's a limit ... which I think has been found (reading between the lines here, so strictly speculation).

    Speak up and that should help get better feedback for you both.


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    Okay, finished reading it all ...

    Sleeves don't decide if they are supposed to be jackhammered or loved, nor do they dictate how long it'll take to cum. That's up to the brain attached to the non-business end of the cock. Otherwise the additional info was helpful.

    About not knowing his size, since you have a full size FL you can get a rough idea. Remove the small end cap for this. Get him inside Stoya fully erect, as far in as he'll go. Then have him hold it in there. Now stick a finger inside the small end until it's at the end of his head. NOTE where the end of the case is, so where the end of the case lines up on your finger (maybe use your thumb on the same hand to mark it). Now pull out your finger, but don't move your thumb, and place your finger on the OUTSIDE of the sleeve, lining up your "thumb mark" against the small end of the case again. Note where your finger tip is compared to the outside of the sleeve, compared against the "ribs" on the sleeve (there are 5 of these that wrap around the circumference of the case). He will be close to one of these ribs. The closest rib to the BIG end of the case is "1" and the closest rib to the small end of the case is "5".

    There you go, easy measurement cross reference. Crude, but you don't need to buy anything and we'll have something useable.

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    Hi cookie, welcome to the forums.

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    1. The Alien. It'll be hard to persuade me not to get him this one, grin. It's so kinky, and it makes me jealous...that alien girls seem to have TWO clits. Why can't I have stereo-orgasms? No fair! Also, the texture looks like it could feel really, really good, and it has the lotus thing that he seems to be so into, while offering textures not to be found in our current assortment. Thoughts? Also, some people say it's somewhat semi-translucent - translucent enough to see him move inside?
    The Alien's main feature is the Lotus Node, which is amazing, but the Mini Lotus does already feature it. I love the Lotus Node, it's intense but not too overbearing which sounds like it is something he would like. The STU bumps in the back round out the texture and provide a solid finish. This one will be intense on orgasm. It is unfortunately not transparent, so even if you took it out of the case to see it, you wouldn't see much.

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    2. The Love Humps. It seems somewhat similar to the Mini-Lotus yet really different. It looks like it might feel good in a different way from most textures - like, more gentle, as it's smooth? Reviews of this one however seem less enthusiastic, and suggest that it's more suited to hour-long sessions (see above). Thoughts?
    The Love Humps has no texture on the inside, so yes, it's smooth. It gets you off by varying the diameter of the canal, like an hourglass shape, which creates sections that you pop through. You can easily stroke through orgasm with this sleeve and since there is no texture, it feels great on orgasm. I wouldn't say it takes an hour to get off with, it really just depends on how sensitive his penis is. If he is adjusted to the material, and I would assume he is since he has 3 that he regularly uses, then he should enjoy it just fine. It will probably be on lower end of the intensity spectrum, but stroking through orgasm will be possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    3. The Twista. I'll quote the reviews: "I could not believe how intense it was at the point of orgasm" and "the penis gets milked by the Fleshlight". Gulp. The penis. Gets milked. By the Fleshlight. This time I'm jealous, the other jealous: Now if only I had the parts to experience that. Can someone confirm/deny these glowing reviews? Also, some reviewers noted that this one is geared towards especially well-endowed men. Will this suit a common household size penis none the less?
    You can use the Twista with a cock of any size. It does tighten up at the end, so the longer you are the tighter it feels, but this is not a requirement to enjoy this texture. The Twista is one of my favorite sleeves. I find it to be intense yet very pleasurable. I think this is the perfect sleeve for him of the ones you have listed. The "milked" reference is true in the sense that the sleeve doesn't overwhelm you and tends to tease you and then finally build up your orgasm to an explosive point. I like it because you can choose to be milked by stroking slowly or you can increase your strokes and you will reach orgasm quicker. For this reason I think its something that would work well as you can control how quickly he reaches orgasm based on your stroking speed.

    On orgasm you can adjust his intensity level but stroking shallow which will keep his cock head near the entrance where the texture is at its widest. Thus his cock head will have room to expand as he is cumming, which will mean he won't be over stimulated by the texture. Or you can stroke him deep where the texture is tighter. This will cause the texture to really grind into his cock head as he is cumming and thus provide more intensity. So it's your choice.

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    4. The Crystal/Ice. I'd LOVE to have a Fleshlight around that lets me see him move inside, and above all, lets me see him shoot inside. I would find that super hot. I've garnered some mixed information whether the Crystal/Ice will do the trick. Some say that it's not transparent enough to actually discern ejaculation. Can someone confirm/deny? (I don't even care how good the texture is, lol. If it lets me see him cum inside the thing, it's a deal)
    The Ice is a solid texture pleasure wise. You can see yourself cumming but it depends on how fast you are stroking. If I hold perfectly still I can make out the cum, but if I am stroking, its harder to see it. The texture isn't perfectly clear, but its a start and you can definitely make out a cock inside of it.

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    5. The Bi-Hive. Like the Destroya, the name gave me some pause, but hey...again, I quote the reviews: "the perfect multi textured sleeve", "I came so hard in this sleeve, my load actually squirted out the opposite end of the sleeve". Uh, er, wow. Again, can someone confirm/deny these glowing reviews? I mean, from what I can tell, it LOOKS like it would be really intense, and somewhat similar to the Destroya, which he already knows and likes. Thoughts?
    The Bi-Hive is intense, but is also wider than the Destroya. He may like the Bi-Hive based on the fact that the wider canal won't grind into his cock head as much on orgasm, which will allow you to keep stroking him. The intensity here will probably be the highest of all you have listed.


    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    I honestly have no idea about his size. Neither I nor him have ever cared enough about size to take measurements, and I don't have measuring tape (Besides, that might give away the surprise, right?) :|. I'd say, average? I know that his erection is as long as two index fingers of mine. Or, when compared to the Fleshlight case (I know because I've always tried to find out where in there "he" is lol), the head would be well past the wide berth, in the beginning of the thinner section.
    I would say that puts him around the 6-7" mark, which is slightly above average. There aren't really any textures he should have a problem with at that size.

    Good luck!

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    I would definitely recommend the Crystal.

    There are two downsides though:

    1) Requires more maintenance (it gets sticky faster without powdering w/ corn starch or renewing powder)
    2) It's pretty intense. If he's sensitive, the crystal might not last quite as long as some other sleeves.

    The crystal is a must own though. The intensity of the sleeve, the see-through factor which you can both share, and the novelty make it a must (to me). Plus you can see where his cock hits inside the sleeve so you will know what parts he will experience in the other sleeves.



    ^ That design should win every pleasure-based award there is...

    The bi-hive is my next recommendation and is more intense than the crystal. Normally i'd try and pimp Paradise or Bliss on the fleshjack side but you said no anal. Mentality is a huge component of sexuality and if he's really put off by the idea then he's put off by the idea. But if you can persuade him, some of my favorite sleeves (of the 32 I own) are anal only.



    If he's cool with the fact that it's just plastic and "real-skin" (which a lot of guys aren't). I like the bliss a little more than the bi-hive because the orifice is tighter and the varying depth of the "fangs". If he likes the succu-dry he'd like this one.

    But bi-hive is a really amazing sleeve. And bibi's orifice is kinda large which makes it fun to take it all the way off and bring it back down every now and then in a teasing sort of way. It might bring on climax a little too soon though if he's as sensitive as the other uncut guys i've known.
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    If he likes the lotus node, you may have a look at Lotus Garden, it's essentially just one lotus node after another!

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    Welcome CP. We had other FLs in the past, but our recent purchase of a Crystal ICE has brought us to another level of intimacy. Really. This is a GREAT toy for couples. We agree with the poster regarding what you can see going on inside is based on the speed of the stroking. We have noted more details in some of our posts. Highly suggest you go with the ICE. Seeing the expansion as it goes in deeper, and seeing how deep you actually go inside are also really turn-ons, in addition to seeing the end result happening inside. A review from another website noted that you should not underestimate the level of excitement BOTH partners can get from seeing the action going on inside of the ICE - and we totally agree with that 1000%! It is SUPER HOT as you say.

    If you have more specific questions feel free to send us a PM too. It is GREAT to see another couple on here!


    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    4. The Crystal/Ice. I'd LOVE to have a Fleshlight around that lets me see him move inside, and above all, lets me see him shoot inside. I would find that super hot. I've garnered some mixed information whether the Crystal/Ice will do the trick. Some say that it's not transparent enough to actually discern ejaculation. Can someone confirm/deny? (I don't even care how good the texture is, lol. If it lets me see him cum inside the thing, it's a deal)

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    Whoa - you people are fast! Thanks so much for the thorough replies. I'll try to go through them one by one.

    It took me some time to get back to you with a reply due to the "homework" I was given by you:

    Quote Originally Posted by Butt nut
    1) we need to know his size along with the info you have already provided about his input about the sleeves he (you ) both have. Length and girth please.
    Thanks to some checkered paper, my fingers and a pencil, I now know his measurements: About 15 cm (6 in) long, and 12cm (4.7 in) around at the head. The ridge of the glans starts at about 11,5 cm (4.5 in - if you do the math, the conversion doesn't really add up, but google converted it for me like that). Does that information help?

    However, I've noticed, that with a Fleshlight some part of his penis will always be left out of it, because the "dome" of the orifice takes away actual penetration depth. Sooo, as for how much he gets in there...well, you probably know about this better than me.

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    orlando94t, thanks for the excellent input. ILF should hire you as a sales assistant, because you make it hard to decide AGAINST purchasing one of them

    Quote Originally Posted by orlandot94
    The Alien's main feature is the Lotus Node, which is amazing, but the Mini Lotus does already feature it. I love the Lotus Node, it's intense but not too overbearing which sounds like it is something he would like. The STU bumps in the back round out the texture and provide a solid finish. This one will be intense on orgasm
    Alright, so I'm pretty much set to get him this one. I find it interesting for sheer kinkiness (only the zombie would be more interesting but its texture hasn't gotten very good reviews from what I've read), and was almost decided on that one from the start, soo unless someone heavily objects, that one will be part of the order.

    Quote Originally Posted by orlandot94
    I wouldn't say it takes an hour to get off with, it really just depends on how sensitive his penis is. If he is adjusted to the material, and I would assume he is since he has 3 that he regularly uses, then he should enjoy it just fine.
    How sensitive is he? Hrm. Not as sensitive as in the very beginning, sadly (I loved "breaking him in", lol), but still very sensitive compared to some other partner's I've been with.
    He's never had troubles getting off with any activity we share (initial nervousness about BJs aside), and when he touches himself, he does so rather gently, and he never has had any troubles with a Fleshlight - but aren't those he's experienced before much more intense than the Love Hump, after all?

    Quote Originally Posted by orlandot94
    The Twista is one of my favorite sleeves. I find it to be intense yet very pleasurable. I think this is the perfect sleeve for him of the ones you have listed.

    He may like the Bi-Hive based on the fact that the wider canal won't grind into his cock head as much on orgasm, which will allow you to keep stroking him. The intensity here will probably be the highest of all you have listed.
    This one is probably the toughest one to decide. As mentioned before, I don't really want to buy all of those prospective candidates (like, 3 would be okay, but not all 5), and the positive feedback on both these choices makes it hard to decide: Each seems to have rather strong points in its favour. Thanks for the input though, I'll give it some thought.

    Quote Originally Posted by GayKzoo22
    The crystal is a must own though. The intensity of the sleeve, the see-through factor which you can both share, and the novelty make it a must (to me). Plus you can see where his cock hits inside the sleeve so you will know what parts he will experience in the other sleeves.
    Welllll, I'm pretty much dead set on getting it anyways, but thanks for preaching to the choir ;D
    This one is more of a present to myself, since I consider myself to be the main beneficiary of it. In the picture you provided it looks REALLY translucent, and that would be great. The more detail I can see of the treatment his penis gets, the better

    From everyone's comments I gather that if movement is not too rapid, it's possible to see him ejaculate, which is really THE most exciting thought about it (I've always wanted to see what it looks like when he spends inside me and this is as close as I'll ever get to seeing that). So, consider me sold on that.

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    GayKzoo22, thank you, too, for your comments. You should be hired for marketing purposes as well

    Quote Originally Posted by GayKzoo22
    Mentality is a huge component of sexuality and if he's really put off by the idea then he's put off by the idea. But if you can persuade him, some of my favorite sleeves (of the 32 I own) are anal only.
    Thanks for the kind suggestion, but he is REALLY put off by the idea. As in, talking about it enough for him to visualize = instant loss of arousal (and he visualizes quickly and powerfully: he has a gorgeous mind, but it sometimes leaves him little leeway there ). So, again thanks for the input, but nope, no dice.

    Quote Originally Posted by GayKzoo22
    But bi-hive is a really amazing sleeve. And bibi's orifice is kinda large which makes it fun to take it all the way off and bring it back down every now and then in a teasing sort of way. It might bring on climax a little too soon though if he's as sensitive as the other uncut guys i've known.
    That sounds good to me, thanks for the feedback. I always like the idea of him climaxing quickly, and as far as I can tell, he does too. So that adds some points in favour of the bi-hive...hrm. Much rumination is in order.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blizzard
    If he likes the lotus node, you may have a look at Lotus Garden, it's essentially just one lotus node after another!
    Thanks for the suggestion, I'll take a closer look. Some reviews I've glanced over noted though that it is really, really, almost uncomfortably tight. Any thoughts on that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FLCA25
    We had other FLs in the past, but our recent purchase of a Crystal ICE has brought us to another level of intimacy. Really. This is a GREAT toy for couples. We agree with the poster regarding what you can see going on inside is based on the speed of the stroking. We have noted more details in some of our posts. Highly suggest you go with the ICE. Seeing the expansion as it goes in deeper, and seeing how deep you actually go inside are also really turn-ons, in addition to seeing the end result happening inside. A review from another website noted that you should not underestimate the level of excitement BOTH partners can get from seeing the action going on inside of the ICE - and we totally agree with that 1000%! It is SUPER HOT as you say.
    Thanks for the input. Yeap, I'm definitely sold on the ICE after those comments, lol.

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    Again, thank you all for the comments. Should there be anything super-important I have missed, please let me know. I'll probably give it one or two days of thought before I place my order, so there's time yet. Based on the Comments given above, I would at present go for:

    1. ice +
    2. alien +
    3. either bi-hive OR twista.


    Any objections?
    Last edited by cookieprincess; 01-17-2013 at 03:45 PM.

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    Great to hear you are going for the Ice! We think the translucence is kind of like a fog, or foggy. The ejaculation is very exciting to watch, and like you note, it is amazing to think about how that happens inside of you during sex. It's amazing to watch. And it's amazing to see how FAR up inside of you that happens!

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    Welllll, I'm pretty much dead set on getting it anyways, but thanks for preaching to the choir ;D
    This one is more of a present to myself, since I consider myself to be the main beneficiary of it. In the picture you provided it looks REALLY translucent, and that would be great. The more detail I can see of the treatment his penis gets, the better

    From everyone's comments I gather that if movement is not too rapid, it's possible to see him ejaculate, which is really THE most exciting thought about it (I've always wanted to see what it looks like when he spends inside me and this is as close as I'll ever get to seeing that). So, consider me sold on that.

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    The Lotus Garden is about the same tightness as the Destroya, so if he can bear it, it won't be a problem. His girth isn't too big, so he should have any problems. You may want to read the review of ThePowerHouse of it, it's quite nice.

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    Hi everyone,

    sorry for bumping an old thread, buuuut - since I'd gotten some forum mail of people asking whether I'd gone with the advice from here, I thought it polite to make this reply.

    First of all, one more time, thanks to all who made suggestions & comments - it helped. It's great that ILF has such a devoted community. At least for customers like me, that's a huge plus and has greatly influenced my buying decision. ILF, if you're reading this: your fans rock

    Sooooo...I thought I'd give back to the community by posting our joint short "reviews" of my purchases...now that we've had the time to try them out properly and all.

    I ended up buying 3, as announced.

    One, the Ice Crystal. What do I think of it? That it's THE greatest toy for couples, especially for foreplay, since a certain brand of vaginal love balls. I think that any couple who have an open mind towards toys in the bedroom, and who want to do mix the stimulation for him up a little, should consider this a must-buy. It's effing hot, period. It's not as translucent as I'd hoped it would be, but still. So. Incredibly. Hot. To. Use. Together.
    What does he think of it? Solid midfield as far as the sensation goes, about on-par with the Stoya we/he already owned. But, sex is in the head. And so the whole "getting-turned-on-by-seeing-his-cookieprincess-getting-turned-on-by-it" thing helps incredibly to put it higher in his favor

    Two, the Alien. It actually dethroned the poor succu-dry in his ranking. It apparently has similar qualities though. Even though we always go very slow and gentle with it, he finds it a little "brutal", especially during the O. Just like with the succu-dry. He absolutely loves it for that, given the right mood.
    What do I think about it? Like with the succu-dry, I love the kinkyness of it, the color, the shape, and since he likes it...I like it too.

    Three, I did a u-turn on the third purchase and went for the Love Humps. On a whim. It seemed just so much like what he's into.
    Well, turns out that I wasn't so wrong with that
    It's now, ex-aequo with the Mini Lotus, his favorite. Contrary to what might be expected of it, it makes him finish incredibly quickly (that's good!), and incredibly intensely (that's good!), until he ends up a lovely pile of cute, melting boy-jello; ready to be scooped up in my arms (now that's good!). Needless to say, when it's toy time, he's most often very keen on this one coming around.
    And really, that makes me also very happy with the purchase.


    I hope that our experiences will help future purchasers - just like the great community here has helped me out.

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    Default Re: Picking a Fleshlight for my Boyfriend - Suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by cookieprincess View Post
    One, the Ice Crystal. What do I think of it? That it's THE greatest toy for couples, especially for foreplay, since a certain brand of vaginal love balls. I think that any couple who have an open mind towards toys in the bedroom, and who want to do mix the stimulation for him up a little, should consider this a must-buy. It's effing hot, period. It's not as translucent as I'd hoped it would be, but still. So. Incredibly. Hot. To. Use. Together.
    What does he think of it? Solid midfield as far as the sensation goes, about on-par with the Stoya we/he already owned. But, sex is in the head. And so the whole "getting-turned-on-by-seeing-his-cookieprincess-getting-turned-on-by-it" thing helps incredibly to put it higher in his favor
    We agree 100%! It is incredibly amazing to use an ICE together!

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    Default Re: Picking a Fleshlight for my Boyfriend - Suggestions?

    Get the Ice Crystal. It's transparent so both of you guys can see what is going on, the texture is pretty good, and the stickiness actually isn't much of a problem.

    EDIT: Whoops, should have read all the posts in the thread. Nice choices.
    Last edited by ParaGoomba Slayer; 06-30-2013 at 02:12 PM.

 

 

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