I noticed the email I got about discontinuing some products so I thought I would try making a post on my problem.
My problem is that I don't get very little pleasure from sexual stimulation in recent years from both masturbation and sex. This includes beginning, middle and end. That is I get little pleasure from my orgasms as well. I still think I have a healthy sex-drive but orgasms are more for relieving my labido rather then for pleasure. A good analogy is orgasms to me are like a full bladder finally able to relieve itself.
I remember back when I first got my set of fleshlights that some people on the forums mentioned that the fleshlight could help re-sensitize their penis. I believe this was for people who masturbated with an iron grip which wouldn't be the case for me. I've more or less been using the fleshlight for masturbation exclusively for several years now. I doubt that it could have damaged my penis.
My longtime girlfriend is also upset that I don't get much sexual pleasure from having sex with her. Don't get me wrong I enjoy being intimate with her and I want to spent my life with her. I want to help her to not feel insecure about this issue as well since I believe she feels guilty that she can enjoy herself fully.
I have seen my doctor and an urologist about the issue and they say there isn't much I can do. The only answers I received is that it could be performance anxiety which is doubtful in my case. I have depression which I don't. The final possibility is that it could be my epilepsy medication or the condition itself. I've been taking it for a few years longer then I've has this issue though.
Now I was wondering is there any chance with some training or some sort of fleshlight could help me so I can slowly work towards being able to fully enjoy sex and masturbating again? Since I got my fleshlight ages ago I don't have all the new fancy ones so if those would help let me know. I do have the STU, wonderwave, speedbump and super ribbed.
I guess I should throw in some background info.
I'm 26, non smoker/drinker, reasonable fit and uncut. If there is any other relevant info that would be helpful please ask.