I know I'm asking a lot of questions buy I dont want to ruin my first purchase. I notice 2 of my Jesse Jane sleeve had rods but one didnt I dont remember which. I noticed the swallow opening looks like its open more than the gauntlet or forbidden. Is this normal? I just took the out of the box I havent even rinsed them off yet. Again sorry just worried about ruining them. I have read the warming prep and clean but just nervous is this normal for anyone?