Hello flyers... Looking for some insight and advice here. A few weeks back I had sex for the first time. It felt great, and I loved practically every minute of it, but here's the problem... I had a very difficult time finishing. Every time I felt I was building up to an orgasm, I ended up plateauing and not getting there. It was very frustrating and I started to feel bad... I basically felt like I was letting my ladyfriend down... Someone I talked to about the issue mentioned it could be performance anxiety. Of course, my thoughts came back to DGS and that it could also be the culprit.
Looking back, I took a bit of a break from my Fleshlights. I was using my hand primarily while masturbating. The thing is, I never really had severe issues with DGS in the past. I've always been able to orgasm pretty quickly inside a Fleshlight if I wanted to. Maybe a day after my first time, I was able to easily orgasm while flying with my Torrid. (Yeah, I busted my Torrid out of it's plastic shell for first time in like a year.) Was feeling the little nubs fine. Same thing goes when I fly with my Swallow; no trouble feeling the super ribs. So while I've been thinking DGS is a possibility, I also think it's not.
So flyers, what's the diagnosis here? I'd like to be ready for next time with my ladyfriend. I've been thinking of taking a break from masturbating until then, but I've also got the Flight Instructor coming next week... Help would be very much appreciated