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    So I am not new to fleshlights, I have currently owned but no longer have. Gauntlet, Destroya, Lotus Garden, SIAC Lotus, STU, Forbidden, and Vortex. Before I continue let me say I have loved them all for reasons you probably all love them.

    Ok so now back to it, I have a high sensitivity issue. I would say I am higher than most guys, its not DGS.. I am just not jerking it allot (once a week if I am lucky-with porn). I am married so I do have sex (sometimes).
    I attempted when I was not married and had allot more alone time to cure "DGS" I got a little better but I think it was more from jerkin it so much that well you know.
    So with textures like Gauntlet and I hate to say this but even with Vortex I would cream in no time at all, this gets frustrating when getting ready and cleaning up takes longer than enjoying the Fleshlight. When I think about it my favorite was the Forbidden when it came to a nice smooth ride that I could get allot of pleasure out of but enjoy it for a while.
    I was going to get SIAC Forbidden "I like tightness and ease of cleaning from my SIAC Lotus.

    However I wanted to take time to put my thought together to ask is there any other Fleshlights out there that are real mellow to fly with that are enjoyable for not everyday use but something that I will not get board with or lose interest because setup and cleanup take longer than flying?

    P.S I'm 6inches and tend to like textures I can get the full use out of, not miss something great thats 8 inches deep.
    Thanks for any useful advise

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    Hmm...Since you said you're very sensitive even to a mid-intensity texture like the Vortex, I would recommend textures that are a bit milder than that one. Why not try something like the Dragon or the Bookworm? I think they're a little milder than the Vortex but still very pleasurable. I personally like them a lot.

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    Try the Bookwrom or the Tornado since they are mid-intensity and repetitive, so you won't miss anything deep.

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    Agree...Bookworm is mildly intense. Though you might find Love Humps to be a bit more satisfying. It's a smooth sleeve that's great for edging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    However I wanted to take time to put my thought together to ask is there any other Fleshlights out there that are real mellow to fly with that are enjoyable for not everyday use but something that I will not get board with or lose interest because setup and cleanup take longer than flying?
    Being sensitive to the material is a very good thing. This means that your dick is fully feeling all the sensations the texture offers and producing a lot of pleasure in the process.

    How do you normally FLy? Do you stop before orgasm or do you just stroke until it feels good and cum?

    Essentially, your problem is you are cumming too fast and you want to last longer to enjoy more of the texture. Well the answer is to train. The standard way to do this is to stroke until you feel your orgasm coming on, and then stop stroking and either pull out or go balls deep. Let the pleasure subside and then repeat this process. Each time you repeat it gets harder and harder to stop since it feels more pleasurable and more intense. But each time you do this, you are training yourself to last longer.

    What will happen is that the next time you go to FLy, you will take longer to get to that first orgasm. Eventually instead of reaching orgasm after 1 minute of stroking, you now require 10 minutes of stroking to hit that orgasm. This is a good thing, because those 10 minutes are now filled with a lot pleasure and all the sensations the texture provides. In fact, you might find yourself wanting to cum sooner because it feels too good. I'm at this point now with a lot of my FLights. I am able to usually last 20 minutes and the buildup is so intense and pleasurable that often I'm left wanting to cum to stop the tease.

    Anyway, you can always go with a lesser intensity sleeve, but don't feel like you have to substitute less pleasure to last longer. Through training, you can get high pleasure and last long. Good luck!

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    Thanks guys,
    @ Orlando normally I do my best to edge, sometimes I can hold off but I end up holding off more than stroking. I practiced this when I had more time and I got a little better, although the Gauntlet made me blow in seconds every time. I would typically use forbidden my first round and go for Gauntlet or Destroya the second round. However I don't have time and the wife is not gone enough to practice regularly so I get once a month or maybe every two weeks to pull out a sex toy. By this time I am back at step one...

    @ everyone, I think Bookworm and Love humps might do it for me, tornado and Dragon scare me because they look so loose. I really am a fan of tightness thats why I was thinking going for SIAC forbidden (unless this may be too intense)??

    Dragon interests me only because of ASA, but I see we can get mini Lotus with her now. Would anyone think mini Lotus would be to intense to handle? I would think about that seeing how my head would be past the lotus node and in the "waves" most of the time.

    so I guess I should consider Bookworm, Love Humps or SIAC Forbidden?

    Thanks again for the input

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    Thanks guys,
    @ Orlando normally I do my best to edge, sometimes I can hold off but I end up holding off more than stroking. I practiced this when I had more time and I got a little better, although the Gauntlet made me blow in seconds every time. I would typically use forbidden my first round and go for Gauntlet or Destroya the second round. However I don't have time and the wife is not gone enough to practice regularly so I get once a month or maybe every two weeks to pull out a sex toy. By this time I am back at step one...

    @ everyone, I think Bookworm and Love humps might do it for me, tornado and Dragon scare me because they look so loose. I really am a fan of tightness thats why I was thinking going for SIAC forbidden (unless this may be too intense)??

    Dragon interests me only because of ASA, but I see we can get mini Lotus with her now. Would anyone think mini Lotus would be to intense to handle? I would think about that seeing how my head would be past the lotus node and in the "waves" most of the time.

    so I guess I should consider Bookworm, Love Humps or SIAC Forbidden?

    Thanks again for the input

    I think the problem might be that you don't masturbate of have sex enough, which will make you really sensitive if you go more than a couple days (in my experience anyways). I typically FLy about 3 times a week which ends up being about every other day and then i take a break on the weekend because i don't get alone time on the weekends. I notice that if i FLy every day that the FLights aren't as good cuz my dick needs time to recuperate in between flights, but if i space it out a day or two between Flights they are much more intense that way. The only problem with that is that like you it makes me have issues with cumming too quick sometimes (I let the FL warm up while i watch porn for 20 mins and then i end up cumming in less than 5 mins, so i feel your frustration) and also like you i even have these issues with mid to low intensity textures including my Bookworm. I think if it's possible it might be beneficial for you to FLy of have sex more often, that sucks that you don't have more opportunities to have a FLight. If you don't mind me asking, why do you have to wait till your wife is gone to FLy? Couldn't you Fly in private with her still there?

    I definitely recommend Bookworm and Love Humps if you want really good mid intensity textures, but unfortunately even i have issues sometimes with cumming too quick even with bookworm and Mini Lotus. Mini Lotus can be considered a Mid Intensity texture but i actually find it to be pretty intense and it does make me cum really quick, but Mini Lotus is kind of a toss up for some people because some people absolutely love it and others not so much. But I'm really looking into Tornado for myself, I've heard lots of great things about it and from what i hear it's not as loose as you might think. There is a really good fleshlight review website called www.Fleshking.com which has reviews and also videos of the textures where a small camera is inserted into the FL to give you a 'bird's eye view' of the texture from the inside, I'd definitely recommend checking the vid's out cuz that is what sold me on making tornado my next purchase. Personally I hate my SIAC Mini Forbidden, It's waaay too tight for my comfort and i find it to be painful and frustrating to use. You may have a different experience with it since you like your SIAC lotus, but I'll definitely never buy a miniature FL again because of my terrible experience with my SIAC. I hope this was of some help to you.

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    @ Mr. Full Force,

    Thanks, I looked at the Tornado on the site you mentioned I have been there before, I REALLY like what the Tornado looks like.

    So for me I guess its between Tornado, Love Humps, or SIAC Mini Forbidden.

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    Tornado is a bit too mild for me. I haven't used the love humps, but if I could swap my tornado with a love humps sleeve I would, looks like a better low intensity sleeve to me. I've only FLown with the Tornado a few times though, maybe I should give it more of a chance.

    I also have an unopened super tight and mini-lotus sleeve that I'm waiting on cases to use. The super tight is supposed to be a low intensity sleeve, once I try it I'll get back to you.

    Quote Originally Posted by UltraSupra View Post
    Hmm...Since you said you're very sensitive even to a mid-intensity texture like the Vortex, I would recommend textures that are a bit milder than that one. Why not try something like the Dragon or the Bookworm? I think they're a little milder than the Vortex but still very pleasurable. I personally like them a lot.
    The Dragon is rather intense, IMO. The texture seems to lightly graze my cock and that is quite stimulating. It's not a sleeve that I can use to stroke through orgasm without it getting too intense.
    Last edited by ParaGoomba Slayer; 06-23-2013 at 02:33 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    @ Mr. Full Force,

    Thanks, I looked at the Tornado on the site you mentioned I have been there before, I REALLY like what the Tornado looks like.
    The Tornado was one of the last sleeves I bought. I haven't bought a sleeve without first seeing the video and I held off on the Tornado on my earlier orders since there was no video at that time. I was checking Fleshking.net almost daily to see if he added any of the latest ones and it wasn't until the Sayonara announcement that the Tornado appeared. I think when I saw the canal video my jaw dropped. It was far from what I imagined from the cross-section image.

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    @ Mr. Full Force,

    Thanks, I looked at the Tornado on the site you mentioned I have been there before, I REALLY like what the Tornado looks like.

    So for me I guess its between Tornado, Love Humps, or SIAC Mini Forbidden.
    Glad i could help, the same happened to me. Once i saw the video of what it looks like from the camera's/ your dick's view I was hooked because of how nice it looked, Tornado is yet another texture that the cross section picture has deceived.

    I happen to have all three of the textures you mentioned, Love humps is a great texture and it's actually the texture that got me hooked on smoother/bumpier mid intensity textures so that would be a definite yes for me. Tornado i don't have yet but it's going to be the next one i buy, but i have bookworm and i definitely recommend it. Bookworm is one of my favorites, and if you like smooth or bumpy textures i think it would be a must have if that's what you like in textures. I also own SIAC Mini Forbidden (unfortunately) and it's the worst FL I've ever bought, some people like the SIAC's but the majority do not for the reason that they are much too tight to be enjoyable. That has been my experience with it also, the SIAC's have a very tight plastic ring on the end of the case that hold's the oriface and for me it caused pain and ruined the experience for me and i tried just putting the sleeve backward's in the case but it still was very uncomfortable.

    If you have Flight, i believe the SIAC's are about the same size but Flight isn't quite as tight from what i hear. But if you don't want something that feels like you're squeezing your dick in your hand as hard as you can i wouldn't get a SIAC, maybe i'm too harsh on the SIAC's but i'm just speaking from my experiences. I think you would be better off getting the Bookworm instead if you like, since you previously mentioned that you were interested in Bookworm, regardless good luck with your purchase and enjoy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PilotIRL View Post
    The Tornado was one of the last sleeves I bought. I haven't bought a sleeve without first seeing the video and I held off on the Tornado on my earlier orders since there was no video at that time. I was checking Fleshking.net almost daily to see if he added any of the latest ones and it wasn't until the Sayonara announcement that the Tornado appeared. I think when I saw the canal video my jaw dropped. It was far from what I imagined from the cross-section image.

    Same here, it was really surprising how different the texture looks in reality. Tornado is going to be my next purchase, but it's a shame that ILF doesn't have the free sleeve deal running with All of the FLG textures. I spent alot of money during the Sayonara ordeal and I have yet to participate in the free sleeve deal but i already own STU and Mini Lotus so i don't want to buy a duplicate just for a free sleeve.

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    So Alexis has really been on my mind. I'm going for Tornado! I think to mix it up a bit I need to get a sleeve that will give mea sensory overload for my cock every once in a while. I was thinking Destroya, I liked that a lot. Or Asa mini lotus.
    Any one to say if I should get one or the other. Or is there a FLG texture that packs a bigger punch than destroya and is or tight as an 18 year old.

    Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    So Alexis has really been on my mind. I'm going for Tornado! I think to mix it up a bit I need to get a sleeve that will give mea sensory overload for my cock every once in a while. I was thinking Destroya, I liked that a lot. Or Asa mini lotus.
    Any one to say if I should get one or the other. Or is there a FLG texture that packs a bigger punch than destroya and is or tight as an 18 year old.

    Thanks
    So to match something up with tornado 1 bihive 2 destroya 3 mini lotus? Down to those three i guess

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    So Alexis has really been on my mind. I'm going for Tornado! I think to mix it up a bit I need to get a sleeve that will give mea sensory overload for my cock every once in a while. I was thinking Destroya, I liked that a lot. Or Asa mini lotus.
    Any one to say if I should get one or the other. Or is there a FLG texture that packs a bigger punch than destroya and is or tight as an 18 year old.

    Thanks
    I too am going to buy Tornado in my next purchase, I don't have Bi Hive but i do own Destroya and Mini Lotus. From what i understand, Bi Hive is a bit looser than Destroya and alot of people describe Destroya as tight (most likely because of how thick the texture is with all of the fangs and bumps). Mini Lotus is also a very tight texture but if you want a sensory overload texture I think Destroya is probably your best bet, It beats the hell out of my dick lol. It will take your lunch money and leave you curled up in the fetal position LOL, not seriously but the fangs in the texture are really intense and impossible to stroke through when you orgasm. Alot of people say the Bi Hive is pretty intense also, but i couldn't tell you since i don't own one. Hope this helps

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    One thing you guys should know about the Tornado is that you can turn it and it feels different since your dick hits different parts of the texture. I believe it's that way for all the "vortex" type of textures. ParaGoomba Slayer, have you ever tried turning it? Hope you don't give up on the tornado!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrbean View Post
    One thing you guys should know about the Tornado is that you can turn it and it feels different since your dick hits different parts of the texture. I believe it's that way for all the "vortex" type of textures. ParaGoomba Slayer, have you ever tried turning it? Hope you don't give up on the tornado!

    I agree 100%, on any texture really if you turn the FL throughout your Flight it will change the sensations of the texture because it will hit you in different areas. This method helps me get the most enjoyment out of Bookworm, Heavenly and any other texture that has twists or swirls/ vortex type textures. I also use this method with repetitive textures like Nipple Alley, Mini Lotus, Destroya, Twista etc.. and just having the oriface turned in different positions changes the penetration angle and over all feel of the sleeve.

    I was hoping for a universal free sleeve deal as this weeks new promo but i guess it didn't happen, the vibro mini lotus looks interesting but i don't like the Lady oriface and from what i hear the vibrating bullets can make the FL too tight since there is no change in the size of the vibro case. Mini Lotus is a tight texture on it's own so it's gonna be interesting to hear what it's gonna be like with the vibro bullets. I think I'm just gonna go ahead and get Tornado anyways, free sleeve or not.

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    Yes Destoya is a great one that leaves you twitching at the end of the day. I'm going back. Destroya and Tornado for me next! My cock is not going to know what to do thank me I guess. If you get tornado first let me know how you like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by "T" View Post
    Yes Destoya is a great one that leaves you twitching at the end of the day. I'm going back.
    Agree. Destroya is some of the strongest fleshcrack you can buy.

 

 

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