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    Default Your thoughts, gay or not?

    The purpose of this thread is to get input from a few people on something that Ive been thinking about lately. Lately Ive been having a fantasy about getting a jerk off buddy, but with no toughing. I consider myself to be straight, and I do not find men attractive. Basically I want someone that can enjoy everything normal guy friends enjoy, with the addition of watching porn and masterbating together. The way I see it, friends should be able to do just about anything that they enjoy together. Guys watch football together, why cant they watch porn together? Most guys that watch porn also masterbate, so I do not see what the big deal is. I would also like to note that I would be getting off on the porn and masterbation, not the sight of another guy masterbating. Below Im going to list a few of the situations/fantasies that I think would be fun with a friend.

    1- Going to a strip club to enjoy some dances (female strippers) and drinks. Afterwards going home to watch some porn and masterbate or play with my fleshlights.

    2- Watch sunday night football, turning on some porn in between quarters and rubbing one out.

    3- Simply watching porn, discussing the scene (what we like and dont like) while jerking off.

    4- Going to sporting events, and again going home to watch porn and JO.

    5- Spontaneous jerk off / porn sessions. Sometimes in the car I get the urge to pull out my cock and rub one out.

    6- Etc....... Basically anything normal guys do with the addition of masterbation and porn/porn discussion.


    Finding a friend that would be in to this is something I am seriously thinking about doing, so I would like the input of others on this forum. What do you think about it? Do you have any experience with something like this?

    Again I would only consider to act on this fantasy with someone that is straight, in the 21-35 age range (im 25 so I would like to keep it somewhat close to my age), and someone that is not creepy or dirty lol.

    I realize that this would be hard to find, most guys that would consider this are either bi or gay. Again, does anyone have experience with this? how did you find someone that has this fantasy. Any advice? How would one go about finding a friend like this?

    Thanks for listening!

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    You don't need to be gay to be interested in sex acts including other males.

    If I ever find someone physically attractive, it's a female, never a guy, but just the act of sex is the main turn on for me.

    I'd be willing to experiment with an open minded guy.

    My fantasy is actually being sucked off by a girl and her boyfriend at the same time. Imagine cumming on the face of a nice young couple?

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by | Beast | View Post
    You don't need to be gay to be interested in sex acts including other males.

    If I ever find someone physically attractive, it's a female, never a guy, but just the act of sex is the main turn on for me.

    I'd be willing to experiment with an open minded guy.

    My fantasy is actually being sucked off by a girl and her boyfriend at the same time. Imagine cumming on the face of a nice young couple?
    I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by countryguymd View Post
    I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?
    Not in real life. On cam I jacked off with a shemale once though, if that counts..

    Talked dirty to him/her and we both came.

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    I don't consider this to be gay at all. I've had a girlfriend for years now and I love her dearly and our sex life in porn star status, but I wouldn't mind having a jack off buddy either.

    There's nothing wrong with a little self love and sharing that with a friend seems awesome to me. I'd love to try it one day but I never really found the right friend to do it with. Honestly I only think you're gay if you can see yourself in a long term relationship with a man.

    I could never see myself making out with another guy or dating again or holding hands with a guy or having a family with another guy. But I could totally see myself jacking off with another guy and watching porn together for fun.

    I've used some online webcam sites to jack off with other guys and sometimes it's fun. I dont do it frequently because finding the right people is a difficult task. I've found a lot of like minded 20 somethings though.

    I'm 21 just so you know.

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Years ago a former friend and I swapped videos for a while. At one point we thought we'd get together to be jerk off buddies but...... Unfortunately on the day we chose to do this, time was short and it never happened, that day or any other following it.

    If you don't find anyone to join you in this you could change things up. Since you weren't looking for touching you could try doing it via Skype or similar online video program. While not in the same room videos and porn could still be discussed. Although your plan wasn't to watch your buddy this would allow for both (discuss porn / observe other persons technics) while not worrying about getting caught "peeking". Some programs might allow for group or conference calling thus allowing more buddies to join in.

    is it gay? While its not exactly like getting together with buddies to watch football or hockey its still two guys getting together to have a good time.
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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by countryguymd View Post
    I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?

    I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!! It was only my 4th time having sex so i was pretty nervous which made it kinda hard for me to get it up and have it stay up but we started out with my cousin fucking her first and she was blowing me with a condom on (which doesn't feel all that good cuz you cant feel the wetness of her mouth) and that went on for a little while until me and my cousin switched places and i started fucking her for a couple minutes. We were going at it doggy and it was really nice cuz she was fucking me back by pushing back on my dick but i was still pretty nervous so i started to lose my erection so i switched back with my cousin and she started blowing me again. He was fucking her like an animal lol and she was moaning pretty loud and we had a t-shirt under her ass because she squirts (not really projectile squirting but quite a bit does come out) and finally he came on her ass so he went in the other room and let us finish. I started fingering her with my thumb and i was swirling it around inside her which made her cum really hard and i could feel the fluid that squirts out start to build up because it pushed my finger out of her, needless to say this got me hard so i started fucking her doggy for a couple minutes again but i was beginning to lose my erection which made the condom slip off my dick while i was inside her. when i pulled out because i couldn't stay hard i noticed i didn't have the condom on anymore and we were freaking out to try to find it but it had gotten stuck inside her so i had to stick my finger in her really deep to get it out LOL. After i had retrieved the condom i just asked her if i could keep fucking her without one and I'll pull out before i cum and she said yes, to try to get myself hard again i started fingering her again. I was swirling my thumb around in her and i made her cum twice and she got pretty loud but i wanted to make her even more wet so i started playing with her clit and i gave her a really intense orgasm which made her clench her legs shut while i was still fingering her she got really loud lol. Bingo! I was hard again so i started fucking her doggy for a couple more minutes and she was pushing back on my dick while i was fucking her which allowed me to fuck her faster and it was amazing and i pulled out just before i busted, I shot the biggest load into my hand and it felt amazing! Afterwards my dick felt soo good which lasted for the whole day and by the end of the day my dick was still wet from her pussy lol. My sheets had stains everywhere from the puddles that she squirted out and it made my room smell like sex really bad so I immediately washed my sheets after she left, even after my sheets were off my bed my room still reeked of sex so I sprayed alot of air freshener because my mom was going to be home shortly and when she asked about why i sprayed so much air freshener i told her that my dog had made a really stinky fart and i had to spray alot because of how bad it was (my dog really does have stinky farts so it didn't raise any suspicion lol)

    Well there ya go, my first threesome and it was amazing even though my inexperience caused some minor hiccups. There is no one else I would have rather had a threesome with other than my cousin, we are really close and I'd do anything for him. Now all I need is to have a threesome with two chicks!!!!!

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!!....
    Congtatulations! Sounds pretty amazing. I think I would be nervous too. Glad you had a good time. Now get to work on the FFM project!

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    I've had a few friends over the years where we've both jerked off when porn was on. Nothing that was ever planned or anything. It's not a big deal unless someone thinks they need to make it into one; honestly all it takes is for one of the guys to just start touching himself and that's enough to let the other guy know that he does not care if he does too. If a friend had a problem with it, he'd probably just say something. Granted every guy I've jerked to porn with was a pretty close friend and we were both already laid back and comfortable with each other. None of these guys were gay and the focus was on the porn; only time much attention was paid to each other was maybe quick size comparison, and for some reason it seemed normal to look when he or I was shooting our load.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I just had my first MMF threesome last monday with my cousin and a girl an older girl (36) he's friend's with benefits with and she's a squirter on top of that!!!!!!!!! It was only my 4th time having sex so i was pretty nervous which made it kinda hard for me to get it up and have it stay up but we started out with my cousin fucking her first and she was blowing me with a condom on (which doesn't feel all that good cuz you cant feel the wetness of her mouth) and that went on for a little while until me and my cousin switched places and i started fucking her for a couple minutes. We were going at it doggy and it was really nice cuz she was fucking me back by pushing back on my dick but i was still pretty nervous so i started to lose my erection so i switched back with my cousin and she started blowing me again. He was fucking her like an animal lol and she was moaning pretty loud and we had a t-shirt under her ass because she squirts (not really projectile squirting but quite a bit does come out) and finally he came on her ass so he went in the other room and let us finish. I started fingering her with my thumb and i was swirling it around inside her which made her cum really hard and i could feel the fluid that squirts out start to build up because it pushed my finger out of her, needless to say this got me hard so i started fucking her doggy for a couple minutes again but i was beginning to lose my erection which made the condom slip off my dick while i was inside her. when i pulled out because i couldn't stay hard i noticed i didn't have the condom on anymore and we were freaking out to try to find it but it had gotten stuck inside her so i had to stick my finger in her really deep to get it out LOL. After i had retrieved the condom i just asked her if i could keep fucking her without one and I'll pull out before i cum and she said yes, to try to get myself hard again i started fingering her again. I was swirling my thumb around in her and i made her cum twice and she got pretty loud but i wanted to make her even more wet so i started playing with her clit and i gave her a really intense orgasm which made her clench her legs shut while i was still fingering her she got really loud lol. Bingo! I was hard again so i started fucking her doggy for a couple more minutes and she was pushing back on my dick while i was fucking her which allowed me to fuck her faster and it was amazing and i pulled out just before i busted, I shot the biggest load into my hand and it felt amazing! Afterwards my dick felt soo good which lasted for the whole day and by the end of the day my dick was still wet from her pussy lol. My sheets had stains everywhere from the puddles that she squirted out and it made my room smell like sex really bad so I immediately washed my sheets after she left, even after my sheets were off my bed my room still reeked of sex so I sprayed alot of air freshener because my mom was going to be home shortly and when she asked about why i sprayed so much air freshener i told her that my dog had made a really stinky fart and i had to spray alot because of how bad it was (my dog really does have stinky farts so it didn't raise any suspicion lol)

    Well there ya go, my first threesome and it was amazing even though my inexperience caused some minor hiccups. There is no one else I would have rather had a threesome with other than my cousin, we are really close and I'd do anything for him. Now all I need is to have a threesome with two chicks!!!!!
    That's fucking awesome man, congrats!

    I've had a few tag teams (mostly in college), I've had buddy watch once while I got my dick sucked, and I had a friend fucked a chick he met at the bar in front of me.

    The best thing about the MMF threeways were fucking 'til I'd get really close then switching and watching her get fucked until he's close and just repeating the whole thing until we are literally only able to go around 30's seconds before getting close then finally cumming like a motherfucker.

    The blowjob in front of my friend was a pretty spontaneous thing that happened at a party.

    And the time when my friend fucked the chick he met that night in front of me was a total mix or being an insane turn-on and total frustration and I swear I almost came in my pants. She had these fantastic tits that would bounce every time he thrust into her. It might of turned into a tag team, but he seriously shot his load within a minute once he was inside of her. Then she just got dressed and exchanged phone numbers.

    Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.
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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
    Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.
    Maybe it's a turn-on because it doesn't happen very often? If it happened all the time it might not seem so special.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
    That's fucking awesome man, congrats!

    I've had a few tag teams (mostly in college), I've had buddy watch once while I got my dick sucked, and I had a friend fucked a chick he met at the bar in front of me.

    The best thing about the MMF threeways were fucking 'til I'd get really close then switching and watching her get fucked until he's close and just repeating the whole thing until we are literally only able to go around 30's seconds before getting close then finally cumming like a motherfucker.

    The blowjob in front of my friend was a pretty spontaneous thing that happened at a party.

    And the time when my friend fucked the chick he met that night in front of me was a total mix or being an insane turn-on and total frustration and I swear I almost came in my pants. She had these fantastic tits that would bounce every time he thrust into her. It might of turned into a tag team, but he seriously shot his load within a minute once he was inside of her. Then she just got dressed and exchanged phone numbers.

    Whether it's in a threeway or not, I don't know what it is about watching a chick get fucked right in front of me that is one of the biggest turn-on I've experienced. Really wish it would happen more often.

    Nice man, sounds like you've had your fair share of crazy sexperiences lol. I thought it was funny that your friend busted in like a minute lol, I might have done that too but i couldn't stay hard for more than a couple minutes cuz i was nervous lol. Between me and my cousin we were boning her for about an hour, and a little afterwards her and my cousin went for round 2 but I don't bounce back that quick so i just jammed out on my bass guitar while they were boning lol. It was the craziest thing I've ever done and it might be just a once in a lifetime thing but I'm trying to work on making it happen again by getting to know her better, believe it or not we basically just introduced ourselves to each other and then made some sorta awkward small talk then just started fucking from there lol.

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    Default Re: Your thoughts, gay or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by mrbean View Post
    Congtatulations! Sounds pretty amazing. I think I would be nervous too. Glad you had a good time. Now get to work on the FFM project!

    I'll definitely get right on that lol I have a hard enough just finding one girl let alone 2 lol, but it's definitely a goal of mine. I need to find an open minded girl and marry her lol. (and hopefully she's a squirter)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I'll definitely get right on that lol I have a hard enough just finding one girl let alone 2 lol, but it's definitely a goal of mine. I need to find an open minded girl and marry her lol. (and hopefully she's a squirter)
    Well, sounds like you already found one!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I might have done that too but i couldn't stay hard for more than a couple minutes cuz i was nervous
    If you just met her and it was your first time doing the 'ol tag team, it's understandable getting nervous. You need to have a few more rounds with just her and get comfortable, then the three of you could have some serious fun again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by countryguymd View Post
    I feel like any touching crosses into the gay/bi territory and is not really something I am interested in. However, a MMF threesome would be fun as long as there is no male on male action. Have you ever JO with someone else?

    So I have a question for you, if you had a chance to be with a woman and another guy yet you donít want to touch the other guy, does that mean you would not fuck her at the same time in either pussy or ass while he is fucking her too or you in one hole and him in the other or even in the same hole together? To me this looks like great sex for a threesome. I donít think by any means that you could label it as being gay, but then I am not into labels.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrbean View Post
    Well, sounds like you already found one!
    She is about 15 years older than me and has kids, one of which i think is just entering teenage years. I think there is a little too much of a generational gap for me, but i now know that i love a freak in bed so now i know what to look for lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
    If you just met her and it was your first time doing the 'ol tag team, it's understandable getting nervous. You need to have a few more rounds with just her and get comfortable, then the three of you could have some serious fun again.

    I hope i can make it happen again, I was talking to my cousin earlier and he said that she was feeling bad about herself that she had sex with me without getting to know me first but i honestly don't think any less of her. But I'm gonna try to work my way in there again by getting to know her a little better, maybe play a private concert for her on my bass guitar. I know how to play a romantic song from an epic band called 311, Love song and it's a pretty cool sounding bassline. I'm definitely gonna try to make it happen again and i think with a little practice we can turn it into an amazing experience for everyone.

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    Mr. Full Force, your last 2 comments made me remember something from the book "Hawaii" by James Michener. For those who haven't read it, the history of Hawaii is chronicled as well as many of the customs of the early Hawaiians. One of those customs involved preparing young men for marriage. These young men would leave their families and move in with an older woman. She would teach him everything he needed to know to be a worthwhile husband to a young girl. This included an in-depth sex education! He would start out as a nervous young man, but ended up confident. Then he left the woman's hut and moved in with his new bride. OK, the marriage was arranged, but supposedly these marriages were mostly happy. Of course when the western missionaries pushed their way in, they put an end to that custom (among many others). Anyway, if westerners would have been more open minded they would have learned something from the Hawaiians.

    So in other words, it sounds to me like you're on the right path. Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I hope i can make it happen again, I was talking to my cousin earlier and he said that she was feeling bad about herself that she had sex with me without getting to know me first but i honestly don't think any less of her. But I'm gonna try to work my way in there again by getting to know her a little better, maybe play a private concert for her on my bass guitar. I know how to play a romantic song from an epic band called 311, Love song and it's a pretty cool sounding bassline. I'm definitely gonna try to make it happen again and i think with a little practice we can turn it into an amazing experience for everyone.
    If she was feeling shame afterwards, it's pretty important to hold off on a sexual relationship until she feels more empowered by exploring her sexuality without being hard on herself. Women deal with such a bullshit double standard. Us guys can give each other high-fives for meeting our man-needs, and women still in this day and age get a lot of finger waving at them. You seem like a good guy, and your ideas for getting to know her sounds exactly like what she needs to know you respect her as a woman. BTW... 311 is fucking great stuff; I grew up listening to them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrbean View Post
    Mr. Full Force, your last 2 comments made me remember something from the book "Hawaii" by James Michener. For those who haven't read it, the history of Hawaii is chronicled as well as many of the customs of the early Hawaiians. One of those customs involved preparing young men for marriage. These young men would leave their families and move in with an older woman. She would teach him everything he needed to know to be a worthwhile husband to a young girl. This included an in-depth sex education! He would start out as a nervous young man, but ended up confident. Then he left the woman's hut and moved in with his new bride. OK, the marriage was arranged, but supposedly these marriages were mostly happy. Of course when the western missionaries pushed their way in, they put an end to that custom (among many others). Anyway, if westerners would have been more open minded they would have learned something from the Hawaiians.

    So in other words, it sounds to me like you're on the right path. Good luck!

    Interesting story, sounds like a heritage I wouldn't mind being brought up in. But I don't think we would really be a match even if that were to happen, plus if anyone would get together with her it would be my cousin cuz they are close already. I'm mostly just looking for a strictly sexual relationship if she wants one which would be similar to your story as in she would be educating me in that type of situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oh Long Johnson View Post
    If she was feeling shame afterwards, it's pretty important to hold off on a sexual relationship until she feels more empowered by exploring her sexuality without being hard on herself. Women deal with such a bullshit double standard. Us guys can give each other high-fives for meeting our man-needs, and women still in this day and age get a lot of finger waving at them. You seem like a good guy, and your ideas for getting to know her sounds exactly like what she needs to know you respect her as a woman. BTW... 311 is fucking great stuff; I grew up listening to them.
    I agree that it's not fair how women get a bad wrap if they like to have sex yet if I were to go home with a different woman every night I would be glorified amongst other guy friends. Women have needs just like us so who am i to persecute them for meeting their needs. I don't mind holding off on sex until we get to know each other better, I'm a pretty patient dude and it's not like i was swimming in pussy before i met her. I'm all about the comfort of the woman, and i tend to put other people first before myself so i think it will be best to wait until she is ready cuz I'm ok with whatever she decides.

    Man I'm turning into a 311 maniac lol, I discovered them for the first time about a year ago and I really liked their more well known songs until i started checking out more of their music on youtube and I was in love ever since lol. I just bought their 4 hour DVD of 311 day in New Orleans 2004 and it's one of the most amazing things I've ever seen, P Nut is a maniac on the bass and I love when he does slap-bass. I can only dream to play bass like him, 311 is on their Unity tour right now with Cypris Hill and they are coming to Irvine, CA which is about 90 or so miles from where i live and the radio station is giving away free tickets but I haven't had any luck. I think I'm gonna check out ticketmaster to see what the prices are. I'm contemplating getting a 311 tattoo even LOL. In august I'm gonna get to see Heart and The Led Zeppelin Experience (John Bonham's Son's tribute band) together for free cuz my grandma can get the tickets free at the casino since she is a high roller.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Full Force View Post
    I agree that it's not fair how women get a bad wrap if they like to have sex yet if I were to go home with a different woman every night I would be glorified amongst other guy friends. Women have needs just like us so who am i to persecute them for meeting their needs. I don't mind holding off on sex until we get to know each other better, I'm a pretty patient dude and it's not like i was swimming in pussy before i met her. I'm all about the comfort of the woman, and i tend to put other people first before myself so i think it will be best to wait until she is ready cuz I'm ok with whatever she decides.

    Man I'm turning into a 311 maniac lol, I discovered them for the first time about a year ago and I really liked their more well known songs until i started checking out more of their music on youtube and I was in love ever since lol. I just bought their 4 hour DVD of 311 day in New Orleans 2004 and it's one of the most amazing things I've ever seen, P Nut is a maniac on the bass and I love when he does slap-bass. I can only dream to play bass like him, 311 is on their Unity tour right now with Cypris Hill and they are coming to Irvine, CA which is about 90 or so miles from where i live and the radio station is giving away free tickets but I haven't had any luck. I think I'm gonna check out ticketmaster to see what the prices are. I'm contemplating getting a 311 tattoo even LOL. In august I'm gonna get to see Heart and The Led Zeppelin Experience (John Bonham's Son's tribute band) together for free cuz my grandma can get the tickets free at the casino since she is a high roller.
    You discovered them a year ago? Dude, you make me feel old lol! I was blaring their music at parties back in the late 90's! The crazy thing about being in my 30's is when the young bucks are either just discovering the music I grew up with or even worse, never heard of it... I was seeing this chick a while back who was 24 and never heard of Tool. One of the reason why I prefer women in their 30's... better taste in music and they know their way around a dick.
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    Interesting story, sounds like a heritage I wouldn't mind being brought up in. But I don't think we would really be a match even if that were to happen, plus if anyone would get together with her it would be my cousin cuz they are close already. I'm mostly just looking for a strictly sexual relationship if she wants one which would be similar to your story as in she would be educating me in that type of situation.
    Well I wasn't seriously implying that you should come in between her and your cousin. I meant that you can perhaps treat this as a growing experience that you can bring with you to a future serious relationship. Our culture seems to get caught up in the idea that every relationship should be a committment, or else it's just fooling around or sordid. But a relationship can be a good friendship that you can learn from...and have a good time while you're at it!
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    You discovered them a year ago? Dude, you make me feel old lol! I was blaring their music at parties back in the late 90's! The crazy thing about being in my 30's is when the young bucks are either just discovering the music I grew up with or even worse, never heard of it... I was seeing this chick a while back who was 24 and never heard of Tool. One of the reason why I prefer women in their 30's... better taste in music and they know their way around a dick.
    LOL I'm only 21 man, born February '92 lol. I do wish alot of times that I was born back when Jimi Hendrix and Zeppelin were around cuz I connect better with older generations more than people my age, I would have loved to grow up in those times. I'd heard 311 on the radio before, the only song they play is Down but I never knew who they were until i started checking them out more, Love Tool man. I have 10,000 Days, Lateralus, Aenema, and Undertow and I have to say that my two favorite non mainstream songs (meaning never played on my radio station) are Right In Two and Jambi. I have a really good sound system in my truck with a huge subwoofer that takes up the whole extended cab portion of my S10 pickup and I blast music like that all the time LOL. I love all of the older music, so it sounds like we have similar taste's in music.
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    I think Aenema is the best album ever made.

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    I had another MMF threesome earlier today with my cousin and the girl he's friend's with benefits with again, it was just as awesome as the first time we did it! I guess my cousin was boning her for a couple minutes before he told me to come in the room, i didn't realize because i was jamming out on my bass guitar again lol. But he stopped mid way to come and get me and she started sucking my dick while he was pounding her and this time i wasn't wearing a condom so it felt really good, he finally blew his load and apparently it sprayed all the way up to her neck LOL. Then it was my turn so i started fucking her doggystyle and it was feeling really good but my legs were getting tired so i took a break and started fingering her and playing with her clit which made her cum a few times and on one of them I got her to squirt which got all over my hand and it was running down her leg which was really awesome lol. So I started fucking her a little more but i was having a hard time staying hard which got kinda frustrating and made me loose focus so i had her start blowing me again which felt really good but I would get a little hard and then lose it again which began to get a little frustrating so once I got pretty close to hard again I went back to fucking her doggy style again. She was pretty wet and I was going as deep as I could and the feeling of being balls deep with my balls slapping her pussy was too much to bear so I started to feel the orgasm start to build and I kept fucking until I pulled out just before my cum came out and I blew a huge load into my hand and in turn wiped it all on my underwear LOL. She left a huge stain on my bed from her squirting while we were fucking her so I had all of my sheets and even the white comforter cover that goes under the sheets and she soaked through that onto my mattress even lol so I threw all of that into the washing machine after she left. Afterwards me and my cousin installed new shocks, fuel filter, air filter and did an oil change on my truck so getting laid helped us get through it all LOL.

    I think she got over feeling bad about it and now she is cool with having threesomes with me and my cousin so we may make this a regular thing! God i hope we do! LOL

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    Terrific! You may need to invest in some rubber sheets though! LOL!

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    I had another MMF threesome earlier today with my cousin and the girl he's friend's with benefits with again, it was just as awesome as the first time we did it! I guess my cousin was boning her for a couple minutes before he told me to come in the room, i didn't realize because i was jamming out on my bass guitar again lol. But he stopped mid way to come and get me and she started sucking my dick while he was pounding her and this time i wasn't wearing a condom so it felt really good, he finally blew his load and apparently it sprayed all the way up to her neck LOL. Then it was my turn so i started fucking her doggystyle and it was feeling really good but my legs were getting tired so i took a break and started fingering her and playing with her clit which made her cum a few times and on one of them I got her to squirt which got all over my hand and it was running down her leg which was really awesome lol. So I started fucking her a little more but i was having a hard time staying hard which got kinda frustrating and made me loose focus so i had her start blowing me again which felt really good but I would get a little hard and then lose it again which began to get a little frustrating so once I got pretty close to hard again I went back to fucking her doggy style again. She was pretty wet and I was going as deep as I could and the feeling of being balls deep with my balls slapping her pussy was too much to bear so I started to feel the orgasm start to build and I kept fucking until I pulled out just before my cum came out and I blew a huge load into my hand and in turn wiped it all on my underwear LOL. She left a huge stain on my bed from her squirting while we were fucking her so I had all of my sheets and even the white comforter cover that goes under the sheets and she soaked through that onto my mattress even lol so I threw all of that into the washing machine after she left. Afterwards me and my cousin installed new shocks, fuel filter, air filter and did an oil change on my truck so getting laid helped us get through it all LOL.

    I think she got over feeling bad about it and now she is cool with having threesomes with me and my cousin so we may make this a regular thing! God i hope we do! LOL
    That's awesome man! Hope this turns into great regular thing for you! Very cool she is a squirter; I've never been with one. I've been with women who got extremely wet, but they never squirted. The thing about fucking doggy I found, is she has to be exactly in the right position to make it feel good; if her ass is too high or too low, it makes it really hard to get into a good rhythm. A good variation to try that actually is one of the best G-Spot stimulators for women is flat on her stomach with a pillow below her naval, while you get on top and fuck. I've made chicks cum repeatedly from just vaginal fucking that way. Plus it feels fucking great for the dude too.

    I got laid Sat morning where it almost turned into a tag team. A buddy texted me that a chick he was friends with was staying the weekend and he wanted to know if I wanted to have a tag team. I was skeptical because this friend of mine is not what I'd call very smooth with the ladies, and I wasn't sure if this was just wishful thinking on his part or if she would actually be game for it. But sure enough, when I go over there, she was 21, smoking hot and very into me. I don't know what the hell my friend was doing; when I got there he was in the shower, then he fucked around working on stuff. But within me being there 10 min she was blowing me without him being around. She took me to the bedroom and we fucked like bunnies. The only thing that sucked, was that I didn't get to cum. My friend eventually came in and watched and that didn't faze me at all; I thought he'd join in, but then I realized he was taking pictures of us fucking so I stopped fucking to tell him to knock it off. At least I got a good half hour of screwing in, and she got a few good orgasms out of it. The pictures of us fucking were pretty funny though, I'd never seen a close up of my dick in balls deep in the classic 'porno view' before. I did feel kinda bad for my buddy though; later he wanted to do the tag team but at that point she just wanted me in bed with her. We didn't get to have sex very long that time and I still didn't get to cum because I was already running late and had to go. All and all, it was a great fucking time. When I got up that morning, I sure as shit did not think I was going to have a 21-year-old want me to fuck her before afternoon even rolled around. She sure as hell was into me though; she said I'm "exactly her type".

    I was so horny the rest of the day I was worried I had priapism because I was seriously hard all day. That night I shot a massive load into my Lotus.
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    Terrific! You may need to invest in some rubber sheets though! LOL!

    If this becomes a regular thing I may just do that lol. Gotta love squirters LOL.

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    That's awesome man! Hope this turns into great regular thing for you! Very cool she is a squirter; I've never been with one. I've been with women who got extremely wet, but they never squirted. The thing about fucking doggy I found, is she has to be exactly in the right position to make it feel good; if her ass is too high or too low, it makes it really hard to get into a good rhythm. A good variation to try that actually is one of the best G-Spot stimulators for women is flat on her stomach with a pillow below her naval, while you get on top and fuck. I've made chicks cum repeatedly from just vaginal fucking that way. Plus it feels fucking great for the dude too.

    I got laid Sat morning where it almost turned into a tag team. A buddy texted me that a chick he was friends with was staying the weekend and he wanted to know if I wanted to have a tag team. I was skeptical because this friend of mine is not what I'd call very smooth with the ladies, and I wasn't sure if this was just wishful thinking on his part or if she would actually be game for it. But sure enough, when I go over there, she was 21, smoking hot and very into me. I don't know what the hell my friend was doing; when I got there he was in the shower, then he fucked around working on stuff. But within me being there 10 min she was blowing me without him being around. She took me to the bedroom and we fucked like bunnies. The only thing that sucked, was that I didn't get to cum. My friend eventually came in and watched and that didn't faze me at all; I thought he'd join in, but then I realized he was taking pictures of us fucking so I stopped fucking to tell him to knock it off. At least I got a good half hour of screwing in, and she got a few good orgasms out of it. The pictures of us fucking were pretty funny though, I'd never seen a close up of my dick in balls deep in the classic 'porno view' before. I did feel kinda bad for my buddy though; later he wanted to do the tag team but at that point she just wanted me in bed with her. We didn't get to have sex very long that time and I still didn't get to cum because I was already running late and had to go. All and all, it was a great fucking time. When I got up that morning, I sure as shit did not think I was going to have a 21-year-old want me to fuck her before afternoon even rolled around. She sure as hell was into me though; she said I'm "exactly her type".

    I was so horny the rest of the day I was worried I had priapism because I was seriously hard all day. That night I shot a massive load into my Lotus.
    Thanks for the advice, I may try it some time. My bed is up on blocks so I really want to try having her lay on her back at the edge of the bed and I'll be fucking her while standing, I also want to try rubbing her clit simultaneously and see if i can get her to squirt all over me LOL. I know what your talking about with sometimes having a bad angle for doggy cuz I'm tall (6'1"), but with this girl it's the perfect height and it feels really good especially when she is pushing back on me while I'm fucking her.


    Sounds like you lucked out man, kinda crazy how she was all over you right away! I feel sorry for your friend cuz he was the one who set it up and he never ended up getting laid but that wasn't cool of him to start taking pics of you guys without your permission. It would be kinda interesting too see what you look like when your fucking though! That's torture though that you didn't get to blow a massive load while you were fucking but at least you got to do it later. I'm still waiting for my first time of cumming in a girl so if we do end up doing more threesomes down the road I may ask her if i can. Do you think you and this girl might get together again for a repeat performance?

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    Sounds like you lucked out man, kinda crazy how she was all over you right away! I feel sorry for your friend cuz he was the one who set it up and he never ended up getting laid but that wasn't cool of him to start taking pics of you guys without your permission. It would be kinda interesting too see what you look like when your fucking though! That's torture though that you didn't get to blow a massive load while you were fucking but at least you got to do it later. I'm still waiting for my first time of cumming in a girl so if we do end up doing more threesomes down the road I may ask her if i can. Do you think you and this girl might get together again for a repeat performance?
    My friend and her did have sex the night before I was over, so he didn't miss out completely. I got the impression he was getting on her nerves a little bit by the time I was over; I know he got on mine by taking the damn pictures (at least he made sure not to get our faces in any of them). I think getting me over there was her idea as much my friend's; she had seem my picture before I came over, but still, that was some crazy sexual chemistry right off. Not sure if I'll see her again. She made damn sure to get my number but she's from out of town.

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    I read something in a book about porn, and the differences in male and female sexuality called "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" that I think is directly related to the topic "Is it gay or not?". Basically the book said that all men, whether they are straight, bi, or gay have some universal "visual cues" that trigger erections in men. One of the most potent is seeing another guys erection. The studies show that this is no different in straight men and has something to do with how evolution designed us. I guess boners are contagious. It could explain why jerking off with other guys without sexual activity between the guys, is sorta a bonding experience for dudes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LetsGetTraining View Post
    I don't consider this to be gay at all. I've had a girlfriend for years now and I love her dearly and our sex life in porn star status, but I wouldn't mind having a jack off buddy either.

    There's nothing wrong with a little self love and sharing that with a friend seems awesome to me. I'd love to try it one day but I never really found the right friend to do it with. Honestly I only think you're gay if you can see yourself in a long term relationship with a man.

    I could never see myself making out with another guy or dating again or holding hands with a guy or having a family with another guy. But I could totally see myself jacking off with another guy and watching porn together for fun.

    I've used some online webcam sites to jack off with other guys and sometimes it's fun. I dont do it frequently because finding the right people is a difficult task. I've found a lot of like minded 20 somethings though.

    I'm 21 just so you know.
    How was the whole cam experience? I might be open to that, like you said it would be hard to find like minded people.

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    Years ago a former friend and I swapped videos for a while. At one point we thought we'd get together to be jerk off buddies but...... Unfortunately on the day we chose to do this, time was short and it never happened, that day or any other following it.

    If you don't find anyone to join you in this you could change things up. Since you weren't looking for touching you could try doing it via Skype or similar online video program. While not in the same room videos and porn could still be discussed. Although your plan wasn't to watch your buddy this would allow for both (discuss porn / observe other persons technics) while not worrying about getting caught "peeking". Some programs might allow for group or conference calling thus allowing more buddies to join in.

    is it gay? While its not exactly like getting together with buddies to watch football or hockey its still two guys getting together to have a good time.
    Do you have any experience doing this with skype or other online video programs?

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    I guess boners are contagious.

    Hmm. The Contagious Boners would be a great name for a rock band.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ninety Seven View Post
    Hmm. The Contagious Boners would be a great name for a rock band.
    That's pretty good!

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    I didn't read the entire thread, but I've seen threads like this before.

    So you think it would be cool to have a j/o buddy, but you're worried about how it would be perceived?

    ...By who, exactly? Who needs to know, besides you and your buddy?

    Don't get so hung up over labels. Be whoever the hell you are and don't be ashamed of it.

    If you explore this side of your sexuality and discover that you like it, well then you like it. If you don't, then you don't. At least you'll know.

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    How was the whole cam experience? I might be open to that, like you said it would be hard to find like minded people.
    It's actually quiet fun. Depending on who you get. I would go on chat rooms and just tell people my stats and have my cam on. If someone messages you privately you can talk to them and check their cam out if you want. If you find them interesting and you wanna pursue it further you can leave the main chatroom and just be in the private chat where only they can see your camera, or you can just move it to skype.

    It's always a lot of fun when the other person is verbal about themselves and about you. I never show my face and I never really speak for fear of being caught. I enjoy doing it. I'd prefer to do it with someone I know in real life however, but that's never happened.

    @Happy Helmet - You make it sound so easy, but finding the people to do it with in r/l isn't exactly easy. How do you go about approaching a friend without ruining a friendship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LetsGetTraining View Post
    It's actually quiet fun. Depending on who you get. I would go on chat rooms and just tell people my stats and have my cam on. If someone messages you privately you can talk to them and check their cam out if you want. If you find them interesting and you wanna pursue it further you can leave the main chatroom and just be in the private chat where only they can see your camera, or you can just move it to skype.

    It's always a lot of fun when the other person is verbal about themselves and about you. I never show my face and I never really speak for fear of being caught. I enjoy doing it. I'd prefer to do it with someone I know in real life however, but that's never happened.

    @Happy Helmet - You make it sound so easy, but finding the people to do it with in r/l isn't exactly easy. How do you go about approaching a friend without ruining a friendship.
    Could you PM what website you use? I dont know if you are allowed to post it on the thread.

 

 

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