I've always been pretty sexually submissive with my husband. He made it very clear early in our marriage when he saw that our sex drives are very different that he expected something sexual 5 times a week. He even threatened to divorce me if I didn't comply because he was not going to live a sexless life. This was a long time ago; he's never threatened divorce since. I love having sex with him, but I am more responsive as a result of that conversation.
But lately, he's wanted more than 5 times a week. His reasoning is that his job has become very very stressful in the past few months. He manages several projects and has 12 people working for him. He has tight deadlines and even tighter budgets. He works 60-70 hours a week.
Usually at night, we snuggle on the couch and watch TV and lately he's been kissing and fondling me. Eventually he'll turn the TV off in the middle of the show because he wants me to either blow him or let him fuck me. 19 times out of 20 I do either one. Then a couple of hours later, after we go to bed, he wants another blowjob or to fuck me again. This happens about 3 times a week.
He said he's so stressed out and sex calms him down and helps him sleep.
Should I be worried...like this is sex addiction? Or is this normal for a man? Does this really help a man deal with stress?
He's such a good husband; like really great. He sent me and two of my girlfriends to a spa weekend last month (surprised me with it and paid for all of it). And he went with me to disneyworld last weekend and he really hates that place. But he put his heart into it and made it fun.
So, I'm not an abused woman by any stretch. He never makes me do anything I don't want to do and never initiates sex when I'm sick.
i was just wondering if the men on here thought this was normal.