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    Default Watching Men Masturbate

    There was a discussion in this forum a while ago that touched on the subject of men becoming excited while watching other men masturbate. One particularly enlightened individual suggested, “you watch other dudes, your gay, period.� … or something to that effect. I had intended to put in my $0.02, but I didn’t get around to it. Searching for the original is tedious, and in any event it was an older post, so I might as well just go ahead and make a new thread:

    Let’s dispatch the gay thing right off the bat – if you’re gay, so t.f. what. Invoking the g-word, without so much as a Seinfeldian “…not that there’s anything wrong with it …�, demeans the speaker more than the people he means to attack. Homophobic gay-bashing indicates a level of social awareness that is moronic at best, and mean-spirited. Think about the assumptions you make when you say something like the quote I opened with - what you’re actually saying is that “if you do such-and-such then that means you are gay, and being gay is bad.� If you make statements like that often, then you’re part of a venerable tradition; just substitute “black� or “Irish� or “Puerto-Rican� or “female� for “gay� to see what I mean. If you feel embarrassed at being seen as part of that tradition, you should be. Gays are our brothers, lesbians are our sisters – were all just people, people! Conversely, straights are our brothers, etc., because you really can’t be sure of what I am, now can you?

    So, being gay has nothing to do with it, it’s quite irrelevant. I can say that because, as it turns out, I am not gay, yet I sometimes derive a great deal of pleasure from watching and thinking about men pleasuring themselves.

    Why is this? Well, I’m not really sure, actually. I’ll say a little about how it makes me feel, but I don’t have explanations to offer. Perhaps others here can cast more light on it.

    When I see a man masturbating, not simply to expose himself, but to reveal himself experiencing erotic pleasure, I can get turned on. This is often associated with my being able to see (or, as with some of the FL videos, hear) what it is that is exciting him. I’m sure it’s an empathy thing; I can feel myself sliding right into his mind, thinking (or sometimes saying aloud) something like, “Oh god that is so hot, no wonder it’s got him so worked up, mmmm….� We are a story-telling species; he’s telling me a story, performing an act, and I’m right there in the picture with him, stroking with him. And I see how he’s touching and stimulating himself and I know just how good it feels!

    And here’s something else: if I’ve been looking at erotic pictures and I’ve gotten myself worked up over a tantalizing young sweetie who knows just what to do to get my cock hard and aching, and all of a sudden I realize that there are hundreds if not thousands of men all over the world who are being driven crazy by the same girl at the same time – the intensity of my pleasure shoots up ten-fold! And I have a vision of all those cocks being masturbated to “my� girl, and I wish I could see them, and hear them, desperately stroking and moaning just like I am. I look into the girl’s eyes, and I seem to see triumph there – “I know all you guys love this, and need this, and I’ve got you right where I want you…�

    So, gentlemen, does any of this sound familiar? What’s your take on it?

    And ladies (Passion, Pinky, …) – what are your feelings when you realize that several men are sweetly masturbating to your exciting performances?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tim_cravin
    And here’s something else: if I’ve been looking at erotic pictures and I’ve gotten myself worked up over a tantalizing young sweetie who knows just what to do to get my cock hard and aching, and all of a sudden I realize that there are hundreds if not thousands of men all over the world who are being driven crazy by the same girl at the same time – the intensity of my pleasure shoots up ten-fold! And I have a vision of all those cocks being masturbated to “my� girl, and I wish I could see them, and hear them, desperately stroking and moaning just like I am. I look into the girl’s eyes, and I seem to see triumph there – “I know all you guys love this, and need this, and I’ve got you right where I want you…�
    Dude, I totally hear where you are coming from on that one. I'd always thought it'd be cool if during FL sessions in chat, we could send the URL of the movies of pics we were FLying to to each other, to accomplish the very thing you're talking about. My motivation for making and completing a video is based on the idea that others might masturbate to it. That more than anything turns me on.

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    I agree with both of you.. I'm not gay by anymeans.. but if I was in a relationship and my girl wanted me to have a bi encounter as a fantasy.. i'd do that for her no questions.. now back to the other topics.. I too find it slightly erotic watching a guy get off especially when there's a background porno going.. or really good audio (thank you pash!!) it's exactly like you said.. you get into the guiy's mind.. and become "him" for a brief moment.. and you can almost feel what he does... personally when i watch porn.. i Usually time my orgasms to coincide with the film to make it seem like I am the one I'm watching

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    I found some male videos interesting to get some ideas for something new to try. After all, if some guy is trying an interesting technique, I have the same "equipment" so I may find it stimulating as well. Otherwise, I prefer looking at females.

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    Let's start a group of guys who enjoy watching others with there own fleshlight while using theres. Or better yet how about a gangbang on my Fleshlight.
    Let me know what you think. I travel all over the U.S. and we could start a club.

 

 

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